Questions for those that Top and/or viewers of porn

[Maya Steam]

That is your mental/emotional issues. Not theirs.

That's not just my issue. If you see the partner doesn't enjoy and feel good, you should better stop rather than keeping on pumping, and try to please them in another way.

[StevenDavid]

Is this directed towards anyone who is a Top or just Top women?

Any Top and/or anyone watching porn. Whether you see it 1st or 3rd person.

[StevenDavid]

I think the best way is if you can stimulate the prostate, but it depends if the top has a curved penis

That is not what I am asking.

Let’s say you have the perfect cock and hit the bottom’s prostate perfectly and they are still limp do you think they are not enjoying themselves? If they do not cum do you think they have not enjoyed themselves?

[StevenDavid]

That's not just my issue. If you see the partner doesn't enjoy and feel good, you should better stop rather than keeping on pumping, and try to please them in another way.

What if the bottom just loves anal and really has no concern for their cock whatsoever?

Do you not think anal is pleasurable?

[zaphod]

I experience prostate orgasm whether or not I am hard. Both ways are special. Sex is 55% physical and the other 75% is mental. The need to equate erections and sexual satisfaction is quite limiting. I also find a soft dick and erect dick quite exciting as long as the owner enjoys the playtime!

[StevenDavid]

I experience prostate orgasm whether or not I am hard. Both ways are special. Sex is 55% physical and the other 75% is mental. The need to equate erections and sexual satisfaction is quite limiting. I also find a soft dick and erect dick quite exciting as long as the owner enjoys the playtime!

Nice! I wish I could cum just from anal. I am working on it!

55% and 75% lol!

I agree fully that erections are not required to experience intense pleasure. Some of my best sessions riding my dildo I am completely limp and shriveled and could carless since it feels so good! Other times I am rock hard lol.

I also find soft and hard dicks exciting as it pertains to others as well as myself. I think it is sexy to see bottoms in porn get fucked and remain limp the whole time. It is also sexy to see bottoms get fucked that are hard the whole time too. I do not assume either is enjoying themselves anymore or less than the other just based on their erection or lack of.

I also do not assume that if the bottom cums that they had a better experience than a bottom that did not cum. Often if my ass is getting wrecked and my prostate is getting rubbed intensely my cock will be completely limp and shriveled up like a little acorn. I mean it looks nonfucntional even though the anal/prostate pleasure is incredible!

[GroobySteven]

That's not just my issue. If you see the partner doesn't enjoy and feel good, you should better stop rather than keeping on pumping, and try to please them in another way.

Getting erect, just because it's something that you want to see doesn't have anything to do with how they are feeling, or what they are enjoying.
I don't think you have a lot of experience with this.