Sexual fantasies vs. reality

[Mirgofino]

I was wondering if someone would like to share differences between what they fantasize about and what they truly want to try, or do, sexually, if there is a difference.

Have you tried something, for instance, which you then found out is only desirable as a fantasy?

[RachelMILFTV]

It often depends if the other person or persons involved expectations are. Properly discussed and planned then things are usually pretty good.

Spontaneity might be compromised, so it depends what your fantasy is really!!

[Mirgofino]

I think that is a very interesting and good answer. Thank you. In some ways I am still trying to find out what I really want and do not want. I am autistic, so sometimes it is literally difficult to understand before I, eventually, simply try it. So that has ruled out some things! Haha.

[Fliktor]

In my experience reality rarely corresponds to fantasy. In fantasy in your mind everything is idealistic, perfect for both parties but in reality some things are phisicaly inpractical or it felt different from the way you imagen it in your mind.

[Ben]

I was wondering if someone would like to share differences between what they fantasize about and what they truly want to try, or do, sexually, if there is a difference.

Have you tried something, for instance, which you then found out is only desirable as a fantasy?

My sexual fantasies revolve around certain people. Namely porn stars. So sheer fantasy.
One of my fantasies is to be w/ Mint or Long Mint. Again, sheer fantasy.
Another fantasy is Dom Rystan.
Valerie May is another fantasy.
So, again, my fantasies revolve around porn stars... and thus sheer fantasy.