Married guys

[beany06795]

Hi all been wrestling with a bit of a dilemma
How many married guys on here see T girls?
Used to partake before I got married, really miss cock and want to get back in but don't want to cheat.
Got a guilty conscience and also worry about the small possibility of picking something nasty up.
Any one else had the same thing? Was wondering how you deal with it.

[zaphod]

Life is a calliope of missed opportunities never replicated. Carpe Diem with a degree of restraint.

Granted there is risk for the married trans sexual meet-up. But the risk is dwarfed by the risk acquired by the transitioning trans person. Or for that matter the entrenched trans. I truly admire their courage.

Back to the question. Each must search their own souls. There is no rigid answers. The quandary is do you value your own experiences above the judgement of others? Looks simple on the face value. But remI ember we are constantly seeking a place in society. Peer pressure is real! I deal with it by the thought we are are all humans with philosophical and carnal existence. I cross the line mindfully, with the thought I alone make peace with my creator.




to sum up it is risk reward.

[Faenon]

Hi all been wrestling with a bit of a dilemma
How many married guys on here see T girls?
Used to partake before I got married, really miss cock and want to get back in but don't want to cheat.
Got a guilty conscience and also worry about the small possibility of picking something nasty up.
Any one else had the same thing? Was wondering how you deal with it.

As an unhappily married man with a family, I have just learned to suppress my desires and live an unfulfilled life, as my kids happiness is way more important to me than my own. Your situation may be different but living a life of deceit will ruin pretty much everybody, so if you can be honest and open with your wife that may be the best route to take. Other than that I can't help you as I've not been down that road.

[BostonBad]

It could cost you everything. Single men can swallow the cum and just worry about 1 person.

[zaphod]

Ah, BostonBad. You have hit the nail directly on the head. Risk/Reward! Pleasure versus security. Primal desires that drives drive life forward. We all have different appetites for risk. If this was not true the stock market would be much less complicated.

I suppose the first step is the personal view of porn. The next is posting on a forum like HungAngels. The giant step is the actual physical meeting. Converting fantasy to reality.

I wrestle, as a married bisexual closeted man with this subject each time I view porn.

[zaphod]

The other issue stepping from the intrapersonal issue is STD risk. When you step outside of a structured relationship to an open one risk increases.
The current reality is when you have sex with a person you are exposing yourself to all the risks that partner has taken with others. Scary!

To sum up, the lose of family ties and the loss of health make sexual adventures a sobering decision.

[BostonBad]

The other issue stepping from the intrapersonal issue is STD risk. When you step outside of a structured relationship to an open one risk increases.
The current reality is when you have sex with a person you are exposing yourself to all the risks that partner has taken with others. Scary!

To sum up, the lose of family ties and the loss of health make sexual adventures a sobering decision.

There are some girls that have "papers" proving they're clean. However, the papers could be dated and interactions since could jeopardize your health.

I have a thread "Is Semen Good to Eat." There are a lot of comments there.

From my experience, I have swallowed maybe 250-300 cum loads and I'm totally clean. Maybe I'm lucky?

I would always do the visual examination before locking my mouth and getting to work for that fresh batch of nourishment.

The risk/reward is great for you. Maybe you can eliminate the ts thoughts from your brain? I did during Monkey Pox. I didn't want to get sick sucking the wrong C. I have been abstaining from ts cock and swallowing semen too, which is my favorite thing to do. It's a dilemma even for the single guys.

[kmersh]

None of us can tell you what is the right decision for you.

For myself, after my first wife passed away from cancer, I could not bring myself to date/have sex with anyone even though I would not technically be cheating.

I still thought about my wife every second of the day and the idea of being with another woman (trans or otherwise) was too much for me.

It took a long while for me to be able to even consider having sex with another woman, let alone date.

As time progressed and I was able to start dating again, I did start to have sex again and it was a really weird feeling, not being with my wife.

After a long while, I started dating and eventually met the woman I am now married to and she is trans.

The rest is history, my point for each person cheating is going to be an easier or more difficult decision, in my case I couldn't, but know others who can and have cheated, we are all wired differently.