how do you identify your self? (men)

[Vanhalus]

I haven been called "gay" boy from my recent tx girls

[Mirgofino]

I identify myself as a human being. I get turned on by some other human beings.

[Mirgofino]

But I would like to add that they have to have a penis.

[zaphod]

I am a bisexual human bean!

[ceejay100]

I haven been called "gay" boy from my recent tx girls

1. What you might have been called is not how you identify yourself and

2. 'Gay' is not an identity, it defines your sexuality

[Jcmcfayd]

Freak

[Stavros]

I don't define myself in terms of sexuality, but if people want to do that, they should be free to do so, and not be discriminated against for that choice.

In view of the current crisis in the Middle East, there is the much-quoted remark Henry Kissinger made to Israel's then Prime Minister Golda Meir (who is the subject of a film with Helen Mirren on release now I think) -

"'Golda, you must remember that first I am an American, second I am Secretary of State and third I am a Jew.'' Golda Meir responded, ''Henry, you forget that in Israel we read from right to left.'' ".

[FionaFortune]

To me, Men who are attracted to tgirls are not gay or bi. Tgirls present as feminine, attraction to them
is attraction to a wider form of the feminine.

It is neither gay nor bi for a man to be sexually attracted to the feminine form

Guys attracted to tgirls are straight to me and they should not worry about being labeled gay or bi.

[Yarina]

Weird

[Stavros]

To me, Men who are attracted to tgirls are not gay or bi. Tgirls present as feminine, attraction to them
is attraction to a wider form of the feminine.

It is neither gay nor bi for a man to be sexually attracted to the feminine form

Guys attracted to tgirls are straight to me and they should not worry about being labeled gay or bi.

I don't know if you saw the video someone posted of Daisy Taylor talking about stuff. It was interesting, but towards the end I think, she says of men who have an interest in Trans women that it is a fetish. I was disappointed with this view, as I tend to support the views you have expressed above. I guess a lot depends on how a Fetish is defined. I think I would put into that category bondage, scat and things like that, but perhaps to those who do it, they are 'merely' being themselves -? But would someone into S&M define their ID as 'Slave'-?