For Guy's that Openly Date, love, Live with, or even Married T girls

[diddyboponTOP]

How was your so called coming out to your friends and family? I know a lot of us stay in the D.L but I could never live like that, My life is mine and I'm going to do what makes me happy. I'm 44 this month, I started messing with T girls at 24, first seeing escorts then meeting off of Aol chat rooms, and by 26 I had my first TS girlfriend. I wasn't going to keep her a secret and she made a point to let me know she wouldn't go for it so I told everyone I'm from a very mobbed up area in Queens NYC and even still everyone handled it just fine including my parents, I heard stories of people losing friends or family etc but I wonder in this day and age, how was it for other guys?
I had a few issues with strangers heckling us and screaming stupid shit like why is your boyfriend wearing a dress and nonsense like that but it wasn't anything serious.
Has anyone else also had an easy time of telling everyone ? Hard time? Or a bit of both?

[notme122]

grew up in jersey not from from nyc was a club head and met a lot of trans women in the clubs wasn't shy about it. openly dated many trans women, there was never any real coming out.. just brought them out around and introduced them to my friends and family. if they could tell fine if they couldn't that was fine too. most of the women i dated didn't want it announced that they were trans anyway.. if anyone had a problem and wanted to cut me out it that was their decision..(never happened)

[diddyboponTOP]

Non of mine wanted it announced anyway but while beautiful they all had something be it their voice or what ever that people spending a decent amount of time would figure it out, no one is 100 percent passible.

[diddyboponTOP]

I'm at the stage in life where I want to get married and I hope it's to a T girl, all of my best relationships have always been with T girls, I find them sooo attractive, I feel like they understand me better and vice versa, I spent 6 years with one 1 year with another 2 years with one and 15 off and on with another we were mostly friends with benefits in between relationships etc I God will send me the right person I would be extremely greatful !

[morim]

Ciao.
I've dated a transgirl for years, and this story ended just few mounths ago. Now we are good friend and nothing more.
However when I met her and we started to date I told to all my friends, never minding what could be their reaction. Some of them simply asked me if I was happy, and told that if that girl made me feel happy that was ok, some other started to say "hey, that's not a problem, but I didn't know you were gay".
Well I didn't give a fuck about their opinion, I know I'm "stright" for sure and "top only", and if I find a girl attractive I do not mind if she was born a male or whatever she has down there, I'll try to date her and to build a love affair as with any other woman.
Life is really too short to listen to hypocrites that in the dark looks for trans prostitutes to be fucked, and under daylight scorn men like me because I'm in love with a transgender woman.
I knew that to date such a girl was meaning to fight a little war day by day but I was ready for her love, and remember YOU DESERVE THE RIGHT TO BE HAPPY!!!!!

[Lorca81]

Never had an official coming out. Met my first trans GF through my social circle. She was very open and forthright about being trans, so when we started dating people just knew. Afterwards, I've always introduced GFs to my friends, family, coworkers, etc. My feeling is that it's not my place to disclose someone else's trans status, but over the years a few people have asked if/whether I know a GF is trans. When that happens I'm up front, since the question is unusually spurred by something like a social media post or trans flag on a girl's IG. No one has ever treated me negatively (to my face) because I openly date/love/live with trans women.