Confused

[phillyguy21]

When I first joined this forum over a decade ago, I thought like this. I, too, was obsessing over whether or not my trans attraction made me "gay". I would eventually learn that "Am I Gay?" is the wrong question. The right question would look more like, "What do I like, and how can I accept, embrace, explore, and enjoy that?" These days, as another poster has said, you can call me gay all day. Another person's ignorance means nothing to me. IDGAF. My sexuality is inconsequential to anyone except me and current or potential sex partners. We are human beings with desires. Screw labels. DO WHAT FEELS GOOD TO YOU AND YOUR PARTNER(S). I don't even know what label I'd give myself if I had to (queer, bi, pan, heteroflexible?). I'm not in a rush to assign myself one.

[Eponymous Lee]

For those who have a constructive answer, I want to say thank you. For those who want to be sarcastic and want to be a dick about their comments, try to learn to be a little courteous. Have a good day

I think they know you know the answer already but you're looking for some type of confirmation.
Everyone has their own rules . For me ? Touch one, suck one , fondle one ,or get a hardon within 6 inches of one (hard or soft) then it's bi and not straight no matter who has it whether male , trans or even a gg wearing a strapon . I'm comfortable with that interpretation. As far as sharing private information with the general public why bother? Unless you're making porn your sex life is your private business as long as it's legal. There are no judges with score cards or priests praying for your soul. If you want to tell people who aren't into it then you run the risk of them trying to control you with dislike or ridicule to put you under their thumb. Straight is mainstream without deviation. No anal no rimming no pegging no cuckold and nothing but biological sex for the purpose of procreation . I've met more than a few "straight" people who considered anal to be gay and blowjobs or cunnilingus be vile, unsanitary and disgusting. That's how real straight people think and act. Straight = straight sex and there are no exceptions or gray areas.

[Eponymous Lee]

Also, there have already been a few "Confused" threads on this forum That's why there is sarcasm in a few of the replies.
just below the reply column you will see a box called Similar Threads:

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/sho...t-What-Im-Into posted in 2006
http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/sho...8-I-m-confused posted in 2011
http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/sho...Ok-im-confused posted in 2008

[Fitzcarraldo]

"It moved, Jerry!"

[smoothboi]

Since the question has been asked roughly a million times, conducting a 15 second search to find the numerous threads on this topic would actually be the courteous thing to do.