Does your ass stretches over time after bottoming?

[holzz]

there's no evidence that anal sex fucks up the anus or rectum. yes, there are higher chances of STDs, but condoms and lube can reduce that.
i dont' get how it can happen though. unless one gets fucked so much that it causes nerve damage.

[BostonBad]

Seems like most people think there is a limited amount of stretching. I agree. If you are fucked regularly each time it's easier to get it in.

[Yasmin Lee Fan]

I started with my fingers , then , small dildo, large dildo. I guess there is some stretching involved, but I think it is mostly a mental thing. For me the key to pleasurable anal is that the tops know what they are doing and take their time. Cumming while getting fucked is an awesome experience.

[Ponyboy]

... . The key is for the top to enter slowly and for the bottom to be relaxed and of course use lots of lube.... .

I agree with Ted 54. If they enter you very very slowly it makes a big difference. My second relationship with a Tgirl was meant to be a D/s relationship where I was the s, but she was well hung and I couldnt take her. In fact it was torture which was heart breaking for me as I had developed strong emotions for her. I hated myself and was very jealous of women who had a vagina. But many years later, a man took me and he was even thicker, but he entered me very very slowly.... millimeter by millimeter. He was very patient but he got his reward (I was very tight for him). And he made me very happy knowing I could take big cocks!!!!!

[Ponyboy]

Oh no, it's very real.

I am a proud ts semen swallower.

I do butt chugg. I have seen stars while getting fucked hard doggy style, after butt chugging Robitussin DM and a large glass of wine. The room was spinning I felt like I was shitting and cumin at the same time. Plus my head was numb.

I understand what he means by shitting and cumin at the same time. When a cock in my ass has been too big I have felt a sensation similar to wanting to shit it out.

[filghy2]

I think it's more about learning to relax the sphincter muscle rather than stretching. There is a natural impulse to tighten up at first, which you have to learn to overcome.

[vastry]

You don't stretch doing anal . The key is for the top to enter slowly and for the bottom to be relaxed and of course use lots of lube.
From my own experience being a bottom for several years the pain is less now because I know what to expect and enjoy being a bottom very much. There is some pressure as she enters and the head passes thru the sphincter but only lasts a few seconds.
So relax and enjoy.

dont bottom often, but when I do, I choose a girl with a mid-size cock,,you feel instictively that taking a huge big dick up your asshole is not a good idea..
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[Ponyboy]

I agree with Vastry that avoiding bigger cocks is a sure way to avoid the pain, but I have had people with smaller cocks ram it in and cause pain. If it is too big, you can just give them a blow job.

Another problem is you dont normally know the size of their cock until its naked in front of you. In some cases I never see their cock. That was the case of the man I mentioned above. To this day, I still havent seen his cock. He took me from behind, and I always check that they are wearing condoms so I put my hand behind my back to feel it and that is when i discovered how big it is.

Even before I had anal sex, I was attracted to long skinny cocks, and now I find that is the shape that I am sexually most compatible with (because skinny cocks cause less pain). I find that really interesting that I was naturally attracted to the best cock shape for me.

[BostonBad]

It's an amazing sensation. The room spinning, being drunk with a robo trip and feeling like you are shitting and cummin.