Controversial Question

[Laphroaig]

That’s your opinion but that’s fine.

Have you actually got any examples of this alleged persecution towards the "majority of almost non existent people on here"?

[Stavros]

You know this question is really bugging me but I have to ask why is it that guys they actually prefer to be on top get a lot of hate? Now guys on here are going to say it’s all personal preference and that’s that, I call bullshit. The majority of guys on here like to either be a bottom or give blowjobs to TS. and they you have another section on here that’s into femboys but the pictures of the femboys they put up to show what they are into they femboys look like men more than femboys.
If you look in the stories section you’ll. Find evidence of this.

There is no controversy here at all. Most members of HA have seeen and done enough to know that human beings are capable of extraordinary things, and that when it comes to sexual pleasure a man can a) prefer to top, b) prefer to bottom, c) both, all the way through the repertoire of oral sex, fantasy sex, sadistic sex, virtual sex and in more recent times sex with dolls who are not even human, probably because they are not human though I suspect consensus does not apply in that case.

The only controversy arises if there is a violation of a basic moral premise: is the sex legal and consensual?

In most countries I believe sexual behaviour in public is illegal even though it may be thrilling at the time.

Even in the case of risk there may be a moral argument: in Takashi Miike's film Ichi the Killer, the Yakuza Kakihara yearns for a partner who understand his need to be taken to the edge of pain, but cannot find anyone who inflicts that pain with the love and understandig he craves- but the pain is acceptable to him and he accepts the risks, whereas Ichi kills without remorse or emotion of any kind.

In a Manhattan nightclub I once saw a young man with his wrists handcuffed to a hook in the ceiling, his feet barely touching a wooden beam below while a blonde with the body of a Playboy centrefold dripped hot wax on his nipples and his cock. 'If you lose your balance and fall', she said, 'you will break your wrists' -but he accepted that risk.

Again, it is all about consensual arrangements, so the only controversy arises when someone seeks sexual pleasure with someone who doesn't want it, or doesn't want to do it in a particular way. And that can happen, and in real life too.

[filghy2]

You know this question is really bugging me but I have to ask why is it that guys they actually prefer to be on top get a lot of hate? Now guys on here are going to say it’s all personal preference and that’s that, I call bullshit.

But when we call out certain who prefer to like TS (Passable) women because it’s a good cover up to hide that they’re actually gay and no one would notice.

So you are complaining (without evidence) about tops getting hate on this forum, yet you think it's perfectly okay to suggest that anyone with different preferences is gay? Nobody is trying to force you to change your preferences. It is just common decency to avoid using pejorative terms like that.

Your real complaint seems to be that there is too much stuff being posted here that you don't like. Like it or not, what gets posted reflects the preferences of the members. It's not too hard to just ignore the stuff you don't like and focus on what you do like.

[LilyRox]

You know this question is really bugging me but I have to ask why is it that guys they actually prefer to be on top get a lot of hate?

The only reason for me to to touch her penis is to give her a “helping hand” (to make her cum showing me she actually enjoyed herself.

But when we call out certain who prefer to like TS (Passable) women because it’s a good cover up to hide that they’re actually gay and no one would notice. Also isn’t it harder for TS women to use their penis due to high count of estrogen due to horomones.

I had a hard time reading this. I don't know if it was just me, but a lot of it seemed like word salad. I'll just point a few things out:

I never actually ever heard of top guys getting hate. Trans are more likely to be bottoms though (not counting porn), so I don't know why guy tops would be more likely to get hate except from chasers in denial. It could be that bottom guys don't like it because they sometimes feel forced to dominant, so they don't like seeing top guys never having to do something they don't want to.

Some trans have issues with guys touching their stuff. Sometimes it's not communicated or she lets him because she wants to make him happy, but for some it brings back memories before they transitioned. If your trans that issue can be also very hard to communicate with a partner.

Honestly most guys that call out guys dating passable TS are most likely just jealous. Yes, T blockers make it harder to get hard and some girls become completely non functional.

[dirtrail]

I’m a top, but all the bottom guys don’t bother me. I kinda suspect those bottom guys are threatened in a way by tops as we usually don’t have to pay a girl for sex as most trans girls are bottoms. Anonymity of the interwebs gives them a platform to be vocal about it otherwise they wouldn’t say anything in real life. 🤷 Just my take on it.

You know this question is really bugging me but I have to ask why is it that guys they actually prefer to be on top get a lot of hate? Now guys on here are going to say it’s all personal preference and that’s that, I call bullshit. The majority of guys on here like to either be a bottom or give blowjobs to TS. and they you have another section on here that’s into femboys but the pictures of the femboys they put up to show what they are into they femboys look like men more than femboys.
If you look in the stories section you’ll. Find evidence of this.

Why is it that men who prefer to be dominant get bashed that they actually like trans women for what they are trying to transition into instead of what is between their legs.meaning their personality and their body (ass,tits, and and anal sex) and why simply accept that they have a penis (or not) because obviously we have one to do it dosent freak me out. The only reason for me to to touch her penis is to give her a “helping hand” (to make her cum showing me she actually enjoyed herself.

But when we call out certain who prefer to like TS (Passable) women because it’s a good cover up to hide that they’re actually gay and no one would notice. Also isn’t it harder for TS women to use their penis due to high count of estrogen due to horomones.

Also since TS women are feminine Wouldn’t you logically assume she likes to be dominated and fucked. Also she dosent have to worry about using her penis(unless she wants to for a helping hand like I said earlier ) and she can just relax in what ever position she’s in. So being with a guy who is on top I would say is easier for them.

Also guys who are dominant in porn scenes especially in Brazil or in America are all “disgusted” being with TS women. I seen scenes where guys came twice and shooting a high volumes of cum from banging these ts women and still couldn’t get enough and you can tell by their body language towards them. TS girls usually jizz out cum while being fucked wether their hard or not.

Had to call this out I’ve seen a lot of men who prefer to be dominant and be on top here and even on porn that get heavily criticized and shamed on here for no reason. You cant force a guy to change personal preference(well unless your in porn and you a deal has been made to get paid more to be submissive or give a ts a blowjob) but the point I’m making is to stick to what you like instead of listening to other people.

[Nick Danger]

I don't get it. Never got any hate over being a top. These alleged top-hating bottom boys can go get fucked as far as I'm concerned.

[Laphroaig]

I don't get it. Never got any hate over being a top. These alleged top-hating bottom boys can go get fucked as far as I'm concerned.

You offering to fuck them?...

Notice the OP has disappeared once the "majority of non existent people on here" disagreed with his opinion. What a surprise...

[crazyeditor]

I like it all, of course my GF makes it easy to be a top (she says she doesnt like topping, and most TS that want to be a woman dont). I do like sucking her and eating her cute little asshole, and I like to top her because we do it bare and I love cumming in her and when she asks, peeing in her

[crazyeditor]

I had a hard time reading this. I don't know if it was just me, but a lot of it seemed like word salad. I'll just point a few things out:

I never actually ever heard of top guys getting hate. Trans are more likely to be bottoms though (not counting porn), so I don't know why guy tops would be more likely to get hate except from chasers in denial. It could be that bottom guys don't like it because they sometimes feel forced to dominant, so they don't like seeing top guys never having to do something they don't want to.

Some trans have issues with guys touching their stuff. Sometimes it's not communicated or she lets him because she wants to make him happy, but for some it brings back memories before they transitioned. If your trans that issue can be also very hard to communicate with a partner.

Honestly most guys that call out guys dating passable TS are most likely just jealous. Yes, T blockers make it harder to get hard and some girls become completely non functional.

Great reply

[filghy2]

I’m a top, but all the bottom guys don’t bother me. I kinda suspect those bottom guys are threatened in a way by tops as we usually don’t have to pay a girl for sex as most trans girls are bottoms. Anonymity of the interwebs gives them a platform to be vocal about it otherwise they wouldn’t say anything in real life. �� Just my take on it.

And I have nothing against you top-only guys either. I just find it tiresome that many of you feel the need to be always beating your chests about your supposed attractiveness to tgirls because you better understand their true needs.

But I'm sure you are not one of those people who use the anonymity of the internet to big-note themselves in a way they would not do in real life.

Just my take on it