I'm NOT a "tranny chaser"!

[Mari_Mar]

Lol...the only thing that confuses me is that I thought I read in one of your posts that you prefer women or other Ts...I'm sorry I must have misunderstood...(maybe I smoke to much weed...lol)

anyways ,..congratulations on a great partnership!!

Hahaha! I do prefer women to men. I wasn't looking for a bf when I met my man. But, we totally hit it off, the chemistry was there, and things have been great! I'm pansexual. Girl leaning, but that doesn't mean I don't like guys too... ^_^

EDIT: Thanks for the congrats!

[scroller]

Yuck @ sexuality

who wants a girl because she has a dick between her legs?

Every guy on a board called "HungAngels".

[FreddieGomez]

Okay, I just joined and this may not make me very popular, but I have to get it off my chest.

Okay...I am NOT an "admirer" or a freakin' "tranny chaser". My preference for transsexuals happens to be my sexuality, who and what I'm attracted to. I'm really sick of seeing guys like myself referred to by transsexuals as one of the aforementioned names.

Look, I know society treats transsexuals as oddities and lacks understanding of the decisions you made for yourself. I also understand the sick and twisted cyclical oppression that goes on in our community.

Wait a minute...did I say "OUR" community?

That's right, I said OUR community. The simple fact of the matter is that when I realized my sexuality and entered into a relationship with a transsexual, I became part of the transgender community. I, as a young white male open about who he was and is, became an oddity, a pervert in society's eyes.

And I'm not. Pisses me off to no end.

So, I refuse society's labeling of me. And of you. And because of that, I also refuse to let you, the people I support and love and am attracted to, demean me and the men who are similar to me for liking and supporting you for who and what you are.

peace.

yeah you are. as long as you're a dude who likes trannies they gonna label you as one even tho i disagree with it myself because i am very picky when it comes to trannies. i aint one of those dudes who goes for anything in a wig jus because it got a dick....but from my understanding these chicks want dudes who aint never been wit a trannie before.

but from my knowledge there are two types of men into trannies, those who want the dick and those who don't...but the ones who dont seem to be in the minority. i personally don't care if a trannie has a dick or not because that's not what i look for in a trannie. i'd still have sex with a post-op nd i feel that separates me from these other dudes who chase trannies because they only want the trannie for her dick

[hwbs]

i don't know why people giving E such a hard time...he has more credibility in this community than anyone i know ...

[LittleGuy]

thanks for bumping a old thread

[Tarissa]

I have to say that yours was one of the most well written
posts on this topic. And I found it refreshing and interesting
that you include yourself as a member of the TG community.
I don't think that anyone would argue that when one of those
late transitioning Ts's wives is part of the TG community and
therefore if you are the bf of a TG/TS then you are part of
the TG community as well.

I would put some boundaries on that though. I think that
closeted guys who use a Ts escort now and then and keep
the whole thing from friends and family are NOT part of the
TG community. I say that because to be part of a community,
to really be a member, you have to take the upside with the
downside. It means being prepared to be counted among them.

The corollary is that post-op women who are in stealth mode
and no longer socialize with other TG/TS and see themselves
as women aren't part of the TG community either. They are
part of the "straight" community.

Caleigh, I agree with your comments in the first 2 paragraphs. I must disagree as a post-op woman with the last paragraph. I will always be a part of the TG community. I may not visit TG clubs frequently as I have been dating my "straight" boyfriend for several years. My transition was to become the woman that I always was...from birth. I am just living as a woman. I 100% support all in our community. Just because I am not active in the community does not mean that I do not love and support all of my fellow courageous women. Is an amputee that gets a prosthesis no longer part of the amputee community?

[Tepres]

i don't know why people giving E such a hard time...he has more credibility in this community than anyone i know ...

There's no reason to answer him since he no longer posts here.

[Mari_Mar]

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Caleigh, I agree with your comments in the first 2 paragraphs. I must disagree as a post-op woman with the last paragraph. I will always be a part of the TG community. I may not visit TG clubs frequently as I have been dating my "straight" boyfriend for several years. My transition was to become the woman that I always was...from birth. I am just living as a woman. I 100% support all in our community. Just because I am not active in the community does not mean that I do not love and support all of my fellow courageous women. Is an amputee that gets a prosthesis no longer part of the amputee community?

I agree. And still frequent tranny locales/the community. No matter how much my bf sees me as his woman, I not only know where I came from, I have friends in the T community. Plus, I can't wait for the day that we're all seen as legitimate members of society.

[Tarissa]

I agree. And still frequent tranny locales/the community. No matter how much my bf sees me as his woman, I not only know where I came from, I have friends in the T community. Plus, I can't wait for the day that we're all seen as legitimate members of society.

Cheers Mari!! And we will be seen as legitimate members of society when we "See Ourselves" as legitimate members of society. We are already just like anyone else. We just need to present ourselves as such so the haters have nothing to hate.

[Mari_Mar]

Cheers Mari!! And we will be seen as legitimate members of society when we "See Ourselves" as legitimate members of society. We are already just like anyone else. We just need to present ourselves as such so the haters have nothing to hate.

I know exactly what you mean.