I'm NOT a "tranny chaser"!

[whatsupwithat]

Okay, I just joined and this may not make me very popular, but I have to get it off my chest.

Okay...I am NOT an "admirer" or a freakin' "tranny chaser". My preference for transsexuals happens to be my sexuality, who and what I'm attracted to. I'm really sick of seeing guys like myself referred to by transsexuals as one of the aforementioned names.

Look, I know society treats transsexuals as oddities and lacks understanding of the decisions you made for yourself. I also understand the sick and twisted cyclical oppression that goes on in our community.

Wait a minute...did I say "OUR" community?

That's right, I said OUR community. The simple fact of the matter is that when I realized my sexuality and entered into a relationship with a transsexual, I became part of the transgender community. I, as a young white male open about who he was and is, became an oddity, a pervert in society's eyes.

And I'm not. Pisses me off to no end.

So, I refuse society's labeling of me. And of you. And because of that, I also refuse to let you, the people I support and love and am attracted to, demean me and the men who are similar to me for liking and supporting you for who and what you are.

peace.

[whatsupwithat]

Anyone else feel this way?

[specialk]

There .....you feel better now??....Nice entrance rookie, welcome

[whatsupwithat]

gracias, specialk!

[yodajazz]

I agree entirely with what you said. For me , I made some choices long ago that kept me from pursuing true happiness. This why I encourage everyone to go for it, while you can. Just be careful.

[TomSelis]

This has been discussed several times before, but it's always good to hear someone new step out there and say, "I'm not a Chaser!" But then again, I'm sure you know, for every guy like you there's ten that are.

But hang in there, there will be times when you feel like a small voice, but you aren't.

[lovests36]

ditto....

[SexxxyJade]

Hi everyone,

First off, let me give you my definition of a tranny chaser: any guy who tries to mount almost every TS he comes in contact with. Usually giving out the same lines about how beautiful she is, how he'd luv to take her out or be with her, etc. Just like str8 guys who do the same things to women and are labeled as "dogs", "tranny chasers" are the name we gave the guys who do these things to TS.
Its really not that serious but i guess when u feed too much into the phrase u think of a tranny-chaser, as sum crazy guy running after TS literally which is not at all the case.
I myself do not use this phrase simply because i know how it is to be a victim of name calling and labeled. But instead i try my best to educate guys on how to deal with girls like us. I understand it is all new to most guys and its like being a kid in a candy store.. so many pretty girls u cant control urself.
But just like real women we want to be treated right, find ONE girl you are attracted to and stick with her, if it doesnt work then move on, dont have 4 and 5 girls ur talkin to on instant messenger telling em the same things and trying to get into all thier pants... yes that is a tranny chaser.
Hope this helps, just my opinion of course.

[hondarobot]

I agree with the finding one girl and staying on target, if a guy is after a girl for real.

But here is the litmus test:

If, after initial contact, you're not having normal communication with the girl (phone, instant message, whatever) after a few months, pull the fuckin rip cord. All girls have trust issues, TS girls even more, and TS porn stars much more, but lets say four months should be the max a guy has to put up with at the extreme.

In the Real World, guys generally don't give girls a second chance after one dodged phone call.

If you still have no normal communication, and you're making an attempt to do so. . .

Sorry, shit isn't gonna work out. Just common sense to any guy interested in a girl. At least it should be.

And don't let them slap ya in the face for no reason and just get away with it. You can be a nice guy, but they will keep slapping. Keep being a good guy, but keep your shields up. And if a girl completely fucks you over, never give her a second chance. That just encourages other girls to do the same shit to some other guy.

And, Hey! Let's all be carefull out there.

[BeardedOne]

And if a girl completely fucks you over, never give her a second chance. That just encourages other girls to do the same shit to some other guy.

This explains why I don't have any of my limousines any more and never got that sweet country house.