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07-26-2007 #1
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Why do people think trassexuals are just sex material???
I've been into internet surfing since I was 16 or for almost two years and joined some site for transsexuals coz' I'm trying to find some help or guide in being transsexual, now I'm 18 and it really bothers that some guys would just mail me or send message asking for some sex eyeball!! it sucks!!! I reall noticed that even before... Oh My!!
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07-26-2007 #2
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WOW! So hostile.
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07-26-2007 #3
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No offense to anyone but, when you see 99% of the trannies here escorting and everything, its damn near impossible to think otherwise than sex objects so if you're having sex a lot, don't expect for people to treat you otherwise. To some people its nothing more than a fantasy thing too. We men think women are sex objects if they have sex all the time. Its hard for a guy to be attracted to a person's brain when you don't know them and all you know is that the sex is great. Its up to you to prove otherwise.
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07-26-2007 #4
Re: wake up
Originally Posted by TS Tempted
here's the deal
There are a ton of us normal guys out there that would love to get to know you. Unfortunately you've been bombarded by the closet dwellers whose wives are out shopping for the strongest vibrating device because hubby can no longer get the job done.
You just have to be patient and understand that talking to boys you think are men online is one of the biggest mistakes you can make. Get out there and meet people face to face OFFLINE that will see you and appreciate you for you......................
Originally Posted by 62des
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You'd be amazed how many women on this board live normal day to days like everyone else.
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07-26-2007 #5
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I'm going to agree with 62des, here. The reason that transsexual women are so often seen as sexual objects is that because the majority of the time, our only interaction with them is in a sexual sense. It's not like I run into a transsexual business woman, banker, lawyer or other professional. If you're bing shown that one type of person is a professional escort, then it doesn't matter who you are, you're going to start seeing that entire group of people as that way. I mean shit... most people see a big-breasted, platinum-blonde woman and the first thing that comes to mind for so many of us is SLUT! And after being shown Pamela Lee, Anna Nicole and a bevy of other big-tittied blonde bimbos in sex scenes and porno movies, advertising in magazines, it's hard to shake that concept.
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07-26-2007 #6
Well its hard to date and get to know a guy, if the guys are too concerened with what people will think of them in public let alone bringing home a gurl to meet the family. I think its starts with the men who say they love TS to be proud to date us and not just behind closed doors.
Yeah porn has something to do with it, but GG do porn and escort as well... I dont think many guys have the balls to ask a GG up front to see their pussy... VS hey baby how big is your Cock. Ask a girl out on a date first, talk, get to know me....
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07-26-2007 #7
I consider everybody, "just sex material"! I'll leave it at that.
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07-26-2007 #8
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Re: wake up
Originally Posted by JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel
I 100% second this.
There are great guys out there who are looking for more than just sex, who want a relationship, intimacy, love, and will be there to support you on an emotional level. I know, I've met and communicated with quite a few, honest, good guys who are comfortable in their sexuality and are looking for what you're looking for, who I would not give a second thought to introducing to the people in my life. They're out there. In fact, quite a few of them are members right here on this very board.
Izzy, I have a few tg friends around your age that are facing the same issues you are, asking the same questions. You are not alone in any of this. Reach out to others, but be careful in your choices. And although it may seem hard at times, know that the easy road is not always the best road to take. Just stay true to you and the world will open up right before your eyes and bring you the happiness you deserve.
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07-26-2007 #9
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But you neglect to mention that GG's are EVERYWHERE and you don't have to be on the internet to see them. Sure their in porn too but we interact with them in normal life and we know they aren't all like that.
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07-26-2007 #10
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Originally Posted by 62des
Well, I interact with trans people in normal life. And just as gg's...they aren't all like that...they are human beings just like you and I. No different.