What online dating app is Trans Friendly? (this will go over horribly)

[SXFX]

sigh miss the good old OKCupid
met an awesome TS woman on there right after my divorce.......wasn't ready to date but there she was
and a few years later met and dated a gorgeous ladyboy on there as well
sadly....she wasn't ready to date

then a few months back attempted to date on grinder....holy shit that was a disaster!
I think the issue is that these women go on line and bump into nothing but fetish boys.......not guys who want to date and treat her like a yummy yummy GF

[BostonBad]

What happened to okcupid?

My profile got deleted a couple of years ago.

I met a very hot ts from there that was 19 years old and had the tastiest cum I ever had. It tasted a bit like oatmeal cookie batter.

[SXFX]

it's amazing that this web page is even still up!
everyone is online via facebook or other!
But that said i believe that OkCupid may no longer be up!
this is very sad because i had zero luck with grinder....which appears to be full of DC's or working girls.....
OKCupid was the place to be and the place to look for local / regional TS women looking to actually go out on a date and to get to know you.
Look call me silly....working girls are nice....and the sex i'm sure is ok.....
But nothing and i do mean nothing accounts for GREAT sex ...like knock your sox off sensual amazing sex than meeting someone getting to know them go our on a few dates then inviting them back to your place for dinner and a proper 4 hours of fucking!
from the kitchen counter top....nothing is more fun than lifting your date up on to the counter top hiking her skirt up and sucking her clit till she screams and nothing more sensual than fucking her up the stairs and nothing more magical than waking up with her in your arms her ass pressed against your hard cock and her reaching back and letting you fuck her slowly while she wakes up.....

but sadly well....guess the world has changed? maybe this place could become the next OK Cupid?

[Lorca81]

Here's my take on some of the apps and sites mentioned ...

Grindr

Pros: The app automatically makes inactive profiles invisible, so you only see users who've logged recently. The free version has enough features to be usable without paying. There are lots of trans women on the app. The app sorts by distance, even when someone turns off that feature so any profile you see will be within a reasonable distance of you. Most users list their sexual position preference (i.e., top, bottom, verse), and the selections are nuanced (i.e., verse bottom and verse top options) so you can avoid awkward situations (after all, two total tops don’t make a bottom!)

Cons: There are lots of people on the app looking for things other than hookups, dates, relationships, etc. (i.e., scammers, AI bots, drug dealers and buyer, escorts and pimps, generally super-sketchy weirdos, etc.)

FWIW: Since the app is primarily used for hookups, users tend to be a little terse, impatient, superficial, and skeptical of anyone there who says they're looking for more than just a one-off fuck.

Tinder

Pros: Many relationship-minded trans woman use the app. So, if that's what you're looking for it can be useful. The app is pretty good not matching you with an inactive profile or someone located too far away. Also, Tinder's enforces its terms of use polices very strictly and requires verification based on a unique cellphone number or Facebook profile, so you’ll have less issues with scammers, AI bots, and people trying facilitate illegal stuff than on Grindr.

Cons: It's very hard to find trans women on Tinder because the app doesn't have a "trans" filter. As a result, many trans women get reported and permanently banned for catfishing when they're matched with a guy who's only into cis women and reacts badly. This is also true for guys who say they're looking for trans women in their profile. Lastly, the since the site is designed for cishet people, you cannot quickly determine sexual compatibility with a trasn women by seeing whether she’s a bottom, top, or verse.

FWIW: Tinder is probably great for cis people looking for other cis people. But the app is terrible both for trans women and men who are looking for them.

Transgenderdate

Pros: The site (which was designed back in the Web 2.0 era) is specifically for trans people and anyone looking for trans people.

Cons: The site never purges inactive profiles, so it’s not uncommon to see a user who hasn’t logged on is years. You can view the site for free but if you do not pay for a membership the site is totally unusable (you cannot send or read messages, view pictures pics, see preference re: bottom/top, etc.) And being such an old site, its usability is kinda shitty by modern standards.

FWIW: In theory, this site is intended to facilitate romantic (rather that sexual) connections. However, in my experience, most trans women who use the site regularly only seem interested in networking with other trans women. Also, for various reasons, the trans women on the are way more prone to be judgmental about men’s sexual position preference (i.e., top, bottom, verse) and engage in vitriolic bottom shaming.

Tsdating

Pros: The site (which was designed back in the Web 2.0 era) is specifically for trans people and anyone looking for trans people.

Cons: Same as both Grindr and Transgenderdate combined.

FWIW: This site has a vibe like Craigslist back in the day, meaning it's emphasis is casual encounters and "misc. romance" (whatever that is). However, because of its cons, this site is an utter waste of time.

[jaydillah69]

is Taimi not even worth considering? they were advertising trans women on snapchat a lot.

[the.red.viper]

I recently signed up for Transdr and it insists on showing me people from the other side of the world.

[mikey_stl]

Has anyone ever tried Transgender 1,2,3. You can sign up for free, but have to pay a fee to actually connect to anyone. I was looking at it, and thinking of joining, but I'm afraid that if I want to quit they won't stop charging my credit card.

[Lorca81]

is Taimi not even worth considering? they were advertising trans women on snapchat a lot.

I've heard cautiously positive feedback from a couple trans women that I know. But, I've never used it myself.

[Lorca81]

Here's my take on some of the apps and sites mentioned ...

Grindr

Pros: The app automatically makes inactive profiles invisible, so you only see users who've logged recently. The free version has enough features to be usable without paying. There are lots of trans women on the app. The app sorts by distance, even when someone turns off that feature so any profile you see will be within a reasonable distance of you. Most users list their sexual position preference (i.e., top, bottom, verse), and the selections are nuanced (i.e., verse bottom and verse top options) so you can avoid awkward situations (after all, two total tops don’t make a bottom!)

Cons: There are lots of people on the app looking for things other than hookups, dates, relationships, etc. (i.e., scammers, AI bots, drug dealers and buyer, escorts and pimps, generally super-sketchy weirdos, etc.)

FWIW: Since the app is primarily used for hookups, users tend to be a little terse, impatient, superficial, and skeptical of anyone there who says they're looking for more than just a one-off fuck.

Tinder

Pros: Many relationship-minded trans woman use the app. So, if that's what you're looking for it can be useful. The app is pretty good not matching you with an inactive profile or someone located too far away. Also, Tinder's enforces its terms of use polices very strictly and requires verification based on a unique cellphone number or Facebook profile, so you’ll have less issues with scammers, AI bots, and people trying facilitate illegal stuff than on Grindr.

Cons: It's very hard to find trans women on Tinder because the app doesn't have a "trans" filter. As a result, many trans women get reported and permanently banned for catfishing when they're matched with a guy who's only into cis women and reacts badly. This is also true for guys who say they're looking for trans women in their profile. Lastly, the since the site is designed for cishet people, you cannot quickly determine sexual compatibility with a trasn women by seeing whether she’s a bottom, top, or verse.

FWIW: Tinder is probably great for cis people looking for other cis people. But the app is terrible both for trans women and men who are looking for them.

Transgenderdate

Pros: The site (which was designed back in the Web 2.0 era) is specifically for trans people and anyone looking for trans people.

Cons: The site never purges inactive profiles, so it’s not uncommon to see a user who hasn’t logged on is years. You can view the site for free but if you do not pay for a membership the site is totally unusable (you cannot send or read messages, view pictures pics, see preference re: bottom/top, etc.) And being such an old site, its usability is kinda shitty by modern standards.

FWIW: In theory, this site is intended to facilitate romantic (rather that sexual) connections. However, in my experience, most trans women who use the site regularly only seem interested in networking with other trans women. Also, for various reasons, the trans women on the are way more prone to be judgmental about men’s sexual position preference (i.e., top, bottom, verse) and engage in vitriolic bottom shaming.

Tsdating

Pros: The site (which was designed back in the Web 2.0 era) is specifically for trans people and anyone looking for trans people.

Cons: Same as both Grindr and Transgenderdate combined.

FWIW: This site has a vibe like Craigslist back in the day, meaning it's emphasis is casual encounters and "misc. romance" (whatever that is). However, because of its cons, this site is an utter waste of time.

UPDATE

Jack'd

I tried out Jack'd recently. Since it's geolocational, I did notice a lot of familiar faces from Grindr and similar apps. However, there were also a lot of users I didn't recognize. Notably, virtually all the trans women I see on Jack'd are black. I'm really not sure if that is by design or just an odd quirk of my area. I found this notable, though, because I live in a demographically diverse area, so on Grindr, for example, I always see trans women of various ethic backgrounds.

Other than that, I found Jack'd to be virtually an identical experience to Grindr in terms of the pros and cons.

[dakota87]

Does anybody use bedpage?