REAL QUESTION FOR ALL THE GIRLS...NO SHADE ITS A LEGIT Q.

[Legend]

Mega your logic of things are truly f**ked up, im sure a girl would want a guy who is an supposedly ex-drug dealer and user. For a guy to have so many skeletons in his closet you sure are a judgmental little guy. You are no where near perfect.

[GroobySteven]

Mega you're not a hater and you have a lot of valid points - it's the way you make them. You come across like a born-again bible thumper or an evangelist and I guess by your own admission (having to go to jail to get sorted out) you are. Your in the forum thumping people with your point of view and refusing to see others just to make your point - over and over. It's the same as somebody coming into my office to talk about converting me to their religion ... they're in the wrong place, their comments are falling on not deaf ears but hostile ears and they can be offensive. If I want to be converted, I'd go to their place of worship. If guys/girls want to be slammed for porn or escorting or similar, they'd go somewhere else, instead they come here to do what they enjoy.
seanchai

[BrendaQG]

I expect a man to have some common sense. A transsexual who looks good and is of typical dating age probably had to at least start hormones young. You do not get feminizing hormones, let alone surgeries, by being an eagle scout.

That is true of transsexuals in, out of, and who never did erotic work.

Perhaps they stole or worse. Would you prefere it if you T girlfreind were a theife and con artist?

[RubyTS]

my brother is worse than the girls.... lol. I would warn HER about him, He's a big man-whore. He'll make a girl fall 4 him then leave her stressing out over him! But seriously, it depends on the girl! I remember he had a crush on a ts but didnt know she was one... she tried to fool him so i had to put him on before he made a mistake.

[Reddman]

Your in the forum thumping people with your point of view and refusing to see others just to make your point - over and over.
seanchai

No lie!!! Over and over is a grand understatement more like friggin' 1600 plus times.

[RubyTS]

ALLANAH I TOTALLY RESPECT YOU AND LIKE I SAID IN POST TO WENDY, YOU , GIA , WENDY, VICKI ( LIKE HER NOT GIVE HER PROPS ) AND A HANDFUL OF OTHER GIRLS ARE BUSINESS WOMEN...YOU AND I HAVE TALKED ABOUT THIS SITTING ON THE COUCH AT THE FLAMINGO, THIS IS A BUSINESS FOR YOU, YOU HAVE A A PLAN FOR THE FUTURE......BUT YOU GIRLS ARE RARE....I DO NOT HATE THE ESCORT, I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND IT......I DO.....BUT I DO NOT UNDERSTND HOW GIRLS CAN CRY OVER A COMMON LOST LOVE INTEREST WHEN IN FACT THEY ARE IN THE GAME,......HEY HOW COME NOBODY READS THE PART WHEN I SAY I WENT TO JAIL FOR WHAT I DID, AND I TOOK IT LIKE A MAN......THESE GIRLS LOSE A BOYFRIEND DUE TO BEING AN ESCORT AND THE GUY CANT DEAL WITH THAT AND THEY FEEL ITS UNFAIR...THEY FEEL THEY DID ALL THEY COULD TO PROVE THEY LOVE HIM...I SAY ITS THE NATURE OF THE BEAST, THERES SACRIFICES AND CONSIQUENCES , I PAID MY DUES FOR WHERE I AM NOW...BUT I HAD TO AKE THAT CHANGE......AS FOR WHAT STARTED THISWHOLE SPIN , IT WS ALL ABOUT THE GIRL CRYING ABOUT HER LOSING LOVE AND HER THEN POSTING COCK PICS..BUT HEY WE DISCUSSED THAT DO DEATH, IM ALWAYS GOING TO VIEWED AS A HATER WHEN IN FACT IM FAR FROPM BEING A HATER.....ALLANAH YOU KNOW THAT, IM IN THIS FOR A LIFEMATE......I HVE NO PROBLEM WITH YOUR DIFFERENT POINT OF VIEW, AT LEAST I HAVE THE BALLS TO SAY HOW I FEL TOO....I GET GUYS IN CLUBS AND PRIVATE MESSAGES TELLING ME THEY AGREE WITH ME, YET NONE OF THEM HAVE THE BALLS TO POST......IM NOT A HATER, IM A TS LOVER, BUT YOU WOULD BE LYNG IF SAID THAT MOST GIRLS COULD FUNCTION IN LIFE WITHOUT ESCORTING AND THAT MOST GIRLS HVE A WARPED VIEW OF THEMSELVES ....THEY LOVE THE WRONG GUYS .....BUT HEY IM JUST A VENOMOUS HATER, HERE TO START TROUBLE......WRONG!!!!!!

I RESPECT YOU ALLANAH, BUT NOT FOR YOUR TITS & ASS INSTEAD BECAUSE I KNOW WHERE YOU CAME FROM AND I KNOW WHERE YOUR GOING...I KNOW YOUR HEART ..WE GO BACK FAR, WAYYYY BEFORE WE BOTH GOT TO WHERE WE BOTH ARE IN OUR LIVES NOW......TITS & ASS ARE A DIME A DOZEN....YOU ARE WAY MORE THEN THAT IN MY EYES.....SAME WITH VICKI , WENDY, GIA AND A BUNCH F OTHER GIRLS I KNOW.........

im very surprised by you.

I personally wouldn't want to be in a relationship with a person who WOULD accept me as being an escort. But i wouldn't lie to them either. Everyone knows that sex work is a quick way to earn money to support one's transition. Some girls get sucked in to the lifestyle. Some don't. Bu at the same time, the majority of guys who CLAIM they want to be in a relationship with a ts REALLY JUST WANT BUTT and COCK. Your views are valid, but the way u go about saying them are so harsh.

I can count the # of times i have been fooled by a guy who says he wants to be serious with me, gets ass, and doesn't call back. The life of a ts can be lonely and people use that to their advantage. Best bet is catch a girl BEFORE she gets involed in sex work. Being pretty doesn't come cheap for some of us. And we all know how discriminating this world can be. Gays are more and MORE accepted as TS's are seen still as a totally different alien race! This i believe is due to the media's portrayment of us. So finding a legitimate job can be VERY difficult. And being that most guys just see us as objects of sexual desire... why not use that to our advantage?

As far as being involved with someone and still escorting, thats a mater of personal choice. There are plenty of alternate lifestyles out there which people find to their own liking. I would NEVER AGAIN quit escorting to be with someone. I made that mistake enough. When i stop it will be for ME. And out of respect for my relationship, if i felt it had the potential to be long term

[Solitary Brother]

I have to kinda take up for MEGA here.
He is a good guy...really.
He just vents sometimes.......he is the ONLY ONE on this board that can get away with it though!
I personally feel he is REPRESENTING certain guys frustration with the TS dating scene(not the TS trick SCENE)
I personally feel like there is someone for everyone out there.
There is ALWAYS a viable alternative.
Most girls(TS and otherwise) are only after the superficial.........Its sad but true.
They say they want a honest,faithful guy but in reality want the superficial.
I have seen it over and over again.
The superficial guy can make the smallest gesture and its as if he parted the sea like MOSES.
Meanwhile the non-superfical guy does everything he can to impress a girl but it doesnt have the same impact.
Its hard.
Its so fucking hard but thats the way life is.

[suckseed]

Okay, I've stayed out of this because I'm not in the scene at all. I'm not an asskisser either. But Ruby's post brings up a question. She says girls are escorting to pay for their transition. That's not true is it? Hell, eros girls and girls here look pretty damn transitioned already to this kid's eyes.
Isn't escorting/porn really just kind of like being a rock star? Nice work if you can get it? There's a cost, but there's also a lot of free time and attention and partying and sex? It doesn't sound too bad to me, except for the diseases and the cost to my capacity for intimacy and real love part. Plus, being a guy, if I had to have sex with any woman with the cash, that would mean there'd be times when I wasn't attracted at all. I mean, I don't see how anybody does that, but I'm sure unattractive men really appreciate it. Hell, everyone needs human contact.
But I'm getting off track. Escorting has its upside, right?
By the way, I just worked eight hours at a hotel for about $150.00.

[RubyTS]

I have to kinda take up for MEGA here.
He is a good guy...really.
He just vents sometimes.......he is the ONLY ONE on this board that can get away with it though!
I personally feel he is REPRESENTING certain guys frustration with the TS dating scene(not the TS trick SCENE)
I personally feel like there is someone for everyone out there.
There is ALWAYS a viable alternative.
Most girls(TS and otherwise) are only after the superficial.........Its sad but true.
They say they want a honest,faithful guy but in reality want the superficial.
I have seen it over and over again.
The superficial guy can make the smallest gesture and its as if he parted the sea like MOSES.
Meanwhile the non-superfical guy does everything he can to impress a girl but it doesnt have the same impact.
Its hard.
Its so fucking hard but thats the way life is.

i actually had a crush on mega at one time, im sure he remembers lol. Yes he is a good guy no doubt about it. MEGA U KNOW I HA?VE NOTHING BUT LOVE 4 U... ad i can totally understand where he is coming from. BUT WE ALL HAVE OUR FRUSTRATIONS! And i know what u mean.... people basically want what they cant have! Thats life. Girls build up walls because of the asses out there who use and abuse and leave us 4 trash. It can be equally hard for guys because most girls seem superficial. They're used to using men to get what they want. My suggestion is NOT looking for a tgirl in a escort scene. Sure allanah's partys can be fun and wild, but we all know the purpose behind most the girls attending. Not saying in anyway that this was Allanah's intention, but most ts party's are for girls to go meet clients and what not. I find that i treat people differently depending upon where we meet. Im much more likely to give a person a chance if i met him in school, grocery store, supermarket, laundromat...etc a oppose to clubs or online. There are a few good girls as well as guys out there. If u approach them on a sexual tip.... they're gonna think $. But a lot of the time, if a girl hears "im looking for something serious" she's gonna have u buy her a drink and dash lol.

Dating in general is hard these days, and when the majority of men WE deal with are married and cheating its hard to imagine that anyone can be faithful.

i cant speak 4 everyone else but i personally look or a lot of diversity in a person which is why im single lol. im very picky. But i like a guy that can be both dominant and submissive. Rough, yet also a teddy bear. All girls need lots of affection,and a guy who isn't afraid to be seen in public with the person he adores. Im not big on cars and cash, but a girl likes little things that show u care. Doesn't have to be a diamond neclace... just something that says i think about u when ur not around. Also i've learned that most ts's like a jealous man. Its their way of feeling like they have power, feeling valued and appreciated. But of course ts's have ts friends who will pick for flaws.... so they want a man who meets up to their friends standards as well. But not a horny tranny chaser who would have to be watched every second a ts gf is present. Im revealing secrets here lol

[RubyTS]

Okay, I've stayed out of this because I'm not in the scene at all. I'm not an asskisser either. But Ruby's post brings up a question. She says girls are escorting to pay for their transition. That's not true is it? Hell, eros girls and girls here look pretty damn transitioned already to this kid's eyes.
Isn't escorting/porn really just kind of like being a rock star? Nice work if you can get it? There's a cost, but there's also a lot of free time and attention and partying and sex? It doesn't sound too bad to me, except for the diseases and the cost to my capacity for intimacy and real love part. Plus, being a guy, if I had to have sex with any woman with the cash, that would mean there'd be times when I wasn't attracted at all. I mean, I don't see how anybody does that, but I'm sure unattractive men really appreciate it. Hell, everyone needs human contact.
But I'm getting off track. Escorting has its upside, right?
By the way, I just worked eight hours at a hotel for about $150.00..

o wow u work hard.... but aside from that lol. like i said some get sucked in some dont. It all depends on the girl. You're right, being a ts escort does have some fame included sometimes. If u watch my wording u will notice that i tend not to generalize. I prefer to give MY insights, opinions and personal stories. Because i cant speak for everyone. But sex work does pay pretty well. Maybe some girls get used to fast cash, maybe some enjoy the work itself..... best way to find out is ask the girl herself lol. Im sure you'll hear all different kinds of stories. Ive seen a lot of girls with self esteem issues who enjoy escorting because the clients make them feel appreciated. I have friends who say that they did it for their transition.... have gotten their srs and still continue.... ive also seen girls cry after being with clients.