MEGABODY PLS GROW UP.

[tsluva]

YasminLee wrote:
this whole racist thing started when i use the word preference in my response to him....no one look at the fact that he said i deserve to be robbed....everyone needs to read the content carefully before attacking people

yes, you're right, the use of the " preference" word definitely did open the flood gates to this topic discussion.

only thing, Yaz. a lot of times the term "preference" is often use by some to hide " personal agendas " rather than described an attraction.

Some people relate preference to being "excluded out" as if girls
definitely think of dating blacks at all.
and of course normally anyone who has been exposed and
affected by racial discrimination is likely
to have some resentment to being " excluded " out of the
picture based on how some people perceive black people. .

we've heard of girls having to "screen " and exclude
potential clients based on racial ethnicity
( and not their actions or character )
simply because they perceive a group of people
as a " threatening safety -risk." simply base a
judgment off of the color of their skin.

and Yaz, on one note, IMO and with all due respect, ..
.... a " 1st kiss" long time ago, or even being bi-racial
doesn't neccessary carry a lot of meaning as you may think,
since people can evolve into having different feelings as the
years past by.

which can go both ways.

some may grow to favoring dating men of difference races
far more than they ever did in the past.
.. and some can grow to REFUSE to date men
of difference races as time goes on

....... hell, there's even some bi-racial blacks that won't date blacks.
the reasons for it may actually vary as i've discovered.

Your personal feelings NOW and today is what probably
holds more water than what you felt and did a long time ago.

Because you're a big name and famous face and
fan admiration a thread discussion such as this is
obviously going draw more attention.
... but i think since you've made a clear explanation that
it depends upon the character and demeanor with you rather
than a skin color, that should be helpful in explaining things.

It's clear that there is still some confusion about
what is considered a preference vs a prejudice.

if i find ( "prefer" ) a thin woman more attractive and
appealing than overweight women,
....does this mean i am " prejudice " against overweight women ??

me per say, i would never say no ( " exclude ") to dating
an overweight woman and actually find a lot of fat women
with very pretty faces attractive
But i know what attracts/appeals to me MORE so.

since " preference " is obvious offensive or confusing
to many others, then the options maybe for people to either
use another term, ...don't bring it up in words at all .
... or get used to the word.
.

[Bicycology]

snip. but that is just mega- he is really a nice guy over all but somethign tells me he changes when is he in front of the pc or writing- LOL

i disliked him for a long time then got to know him and he is a really cool guy and pretty mellow. a lot cooler than some of the friends he hangs out with that is have met snip

I think, from what I have observed, Megabody will speak out like a stand up comedian and just spout stuff - it's just too hard to tell what the real 'tone of voice' is what with the interweb being what it is, and the fact that he insists on using UPPERCASE - which is SHOUTING in the languages used here.

He's probably very funny in real life.

[tsluva]

yasmine dont even bother. just ignore all that bullshit. its a forum. no one really knows you the (true) you except you.

damn, ...don't U think Yaz can talk and speak for herself ?
it's clear that she would like to express herself and voice her
own views and thoughts in her own way since she created
this particular thread discussion.

she's a big girl who can obvious talk and look out for herself
and feels more at ease responding and expressing her
thoughts.
so please stop kissing azz for a moment and let Yaz herself
get what she would like to get to off her chest .
.

[YasminLee]

playa hun, "preference" when i said that wasn't even meant for black guys....it goes to guys that the first think out of his mouth was "can i come over and tap that"... i never mention i don't see black men cause i do....i don't single anyone out base on race....in my i got robbed....take it for what it is...TO ALLERT THE GIRL THAT THIS MAN (RED, YELLOW, OR GREEN) is a bad person.....

[blackrob]

playa hun, "preference" when i said that wasn't even meant for black guys....it goes to guys that the first think out of his mouth was "can i come over and tap that"... i never mention i don't see black men cause i do....i don't single anyone out base on race....in my i got robbed....take it for what it is...TO ALLERT THE GIRL THAT THIS MAN (RED, YELLOW, OR GREEN) is a bad person.....

Damn you're sexy baby.

[truplaya4real]

playa hun, "preference" when i said that wasn't even meant for black guys....it goes to guys that the first think out of his mouth was "can i come over and tap that"... i never mention i don't see black men cause i do....i don't single anyone out base on race....in my i got robbed....take it for what it is...TO ALLERT THE GIRL THAT THIS MAN (RED, YELLOW, OR GREEN) is a bad person.....

It's all good, Yasmine. I'm not mad at you. And I understand what you're saying. Some black men just don't know when to be professional and it's really sad.

[greenkb]

Isn't it amazing! No fucking wonder people leave here. Ha! I think this is the second time in as many weeks that yasmin has been singled out for a good roasting by members of this forum. firstly, for when she spent an entire day with some guy who decided it'd a good idea to rob her blind and though cos she's open her heart to the forum saying that she'll never get over her most recent love. Someone please give this girl a break, its not right to ridicule her cos she got ripped off and its most definitely not right to take the piss cos she's had her heart broken.

Yasmin, they'll always be people here who'll take great plesaure feeding on your misery. Then again, they'll always be people here who'll have sympathy for your plight.

[beatmaker]

playa hun, "preference" when i said that wasn't even meant for black guys....it goes to guys that the first think out of his mouth was "can i come over and tap that"... i never mention i don't see black men cause i do....i don't single anyone out base on race....in my i got robbed....take it for what it is...TO ALLERT THE GIRL THAT THIS MAN (RED, YELLOW, OR GREEN) is a bad person.....

It's all good, Yasmine. I'm not mad at you. And I understand what you're saying. Some black men just don't know when to be professional and it's really sad.

Your right Truplaya! Many have this mentality, especially if they are well endowed, that they can call up an escort and talk this "I have a big black Mandingo dick" nonsense and get a discount. Well hey, when you have the intelligence of a house fly, I guess you highlight your strong points. It's like the overweight chick with the big breasts, who always wears low-cut blouses and shirts. Shit, I'm well-endowed and have a nice physique, but I'm much more of a cerebral person, so I would never approach a female with that silly B.S. The way you start a relationship, sets the precedent for all things to come. If you use an expensive car to pick up women, then don't be suprised if all your girlfriends turn out to be users and golddiggers. Mega and others always talk about the "14th Street girls", who allow unintelligent, thugs to take advantage of them, while they're trying to take advantage of the johns.

Personally, I don't blame any of the girls who refuse to set appointments with guys who call up with that thug shit. My only problem is with the girls who decide a guy who sounds Black over the phone isn't good enough to spend $150-200 hour to have sex with them, when they advertise themselves as an escort. Especially, when the brother speaks respectfully and intelligently to them, when calling to make the appointment. What a beautiful life it would be for an escort, if they were physically attracted to all their clients and could still make a good living. That is why the "physical preference" excuse, that escorts use to defend their racial exclusions are bullshit in my eyes. However, Yasmin adequately explained herself in the other thread and I agree with her point of view of using a john's mental attitude to determine her preferences versus ethnic/racial profiling

[thebusiness]

CAN WE PLEASE STOP USING COLOR CAUSE I KNOW A LOT OF WHITE DUDES AND THEY SAY AND DO SIMILAR SHIT THAT WE DO!

I personally am tired of seeing this type of thread and who do you know...Yasmin is the topic getting stoned like Jesus did... man can't y'all get off her clit and breath for a sec... aint this like the 50th thread like this? Hurry up and get the picture then go frame it bitches! Mentioning her name is not going to magically spark up a realationship...LET IT GO.... and the comments scattered around this thread...you know where the guys make that desperate attempt at trying to shout a line to Yasmin...LAME! I mean its like everybody wakes up on her dick...EAT SOME BREAKFAST FIRST PUSSIES....

oh yeah and before I go...

MY POCKETS IS ON RAVEN SIMONE AND THATS PHAT WHAT YOU KNOW BOUT THAT,huh?!!...and I'm >>>