What are somethings you've learned as a result of your tgirl journey?

[alcoolsrimbood]

Sadly, I was hoping this. Probably what was most frustrating aside from the manic moods was nothing felt natural, it never felt like I was interacting with a real girl, but someone trying to mimic the behaviors of one.

there is a "tool use methodology"(pun intended) to their female behaviours at times...versus a simply intuitive move...

[Stavros]

If I have learned anything it is not in fact about gender or sexuality, but that I am not very good at relationships, even though as a man I am not supposed to admit this. Although humans find company the most natural and delightful thing it is a pity more do not accept that they do not make good partners, as it may spare relationships a lot of grief, and in some cases, violence and death.

The fact is that a lot of people have a need for sex that a partnership cannot satisfy on its own, so why make a commitment that cannot be kept? If partners are satisfied with each other, great, but let us not pretend that there is some elevated moral stature to marriage compared to being single, and let us also accept that in spite of insatiable sexual needs, a lot of people are actually not very good at sex itself though few people will admit this. Time and again in the now defunct Escort Reviews section I wondered if a bad review was not about 'chemistry' or attitude, but technique, because as with relationships in general, people are reluctant to talk openly about how they engage in sex and what gives them the most pleasure and whether or not this matches the needs of their partner.
But in order to find out what gives the greatest pleasure, a diverse range of actions and positions should be tried out and I do wonder how many people experiment with sex, or go through life using a basic: stroke-blow-insert routine; when there are alternative paths to fulfillment. Some men discover early on or later in life that they need some form of BDSM to reach fulfillment, others hate it, but unless we try these different techniques, how can we know?

I wonder if people assume transgendered people are more adventurous, more experimental, that by definition to be transgendered is to be 'kinky' when in reality most transgendered people, including the porn stars, are not kinky at all depending on how that is defined.

Perhaps at the end of the journey we only know what we have experienced, and that it is not the whole of the truth.