HA guys do any of U have or had a LTR with T-gurl

[Reddman]

What ab out now or ever or at least openly date T gurls socially.Curious bout this one. I've practically married to mine. I often feel by and large I'm in the minority when it comes to this status. Could the majority of you guys be hobbyist (as RealGirl for terms it ) or fantansy seekers???

[Thuggish_Intellect]

I just have higher standards. Yes, I have thuggish tendencies but I also consider myself to be highly intelligent, hence the screen name. I will not settle for just anything. Wether it be transsexual or genetic woman.

I'll just say I haven't found the right transsexual woman for me. I don't do the escort thing. I don't knock it if the girl does it for a living because I know that's probablly how she supports herself.

I'd have a lot of house cleaning to do before I decide to settle down long term with a transsexual. I know eventually that's what i'd like and maybe when I find that right one my decision will be that much easier but at this time in my life i'm trully convinced that the transsexuals i'm interested in getting to know more in depth (i.e. the girls with the astonishing looks and brains to match) don't date on principle or virtue.

On a related note, you being in NY, assumably have a more receptive climate there as far as dating is concerned. People's professions have to be taken into account wether it be, military, religous, entertainment, legal and how that decision to settle down seriously would affect/hinder said careers in most areas outside of NYC or major metropolitan areas such as LA, Chi, or DC.

In NYC i'd be just another number but in Lancaster, PA or Danville, VA i'd be officer Thomas, or Reverend Smith, or Dr. O' Malley, or Marty Lieberman attorney at law...you get my drift?

The rise to affluency by most transsexuals (i.e Allanah, Gia, and others) and the rise of home computing is not incidental. Most patrons of these woman now have the opportunity to live out a lifetime of fettish and fantasy via the web, that they'd never have had 10, 15, & 20 years ago without the advent of computers.

So for most cats, probablly the majority, the goal isn't on having and establishing a long term relationship with these women. Most if not the vast majority have the opportunity to live out double, alternative lives online. They get to create new names for themselves (i.e. screen names), alternate personalities (i.e. outcast can become adonis's), and establish relationships that they wouldn't dare do in there personal & public lives. An Alabama, god fearing father of 2, online can become "a submissive sissy boy ready to be topped by dominant shemale" at the click of a profile or chat room.

It's the lure of the untouchable. I think if this (attraction to transsexuals) were to become socially acceptable, it wouldn't provide the rush that some of these cats get and so accordingly wouldn't be persued or "desired" as much.

So for myself, i'm still waiting for the "right" girl to establish that wanted relationship with. As for others, I don't think a "real" relationship is the M.O, I think it's more fettish....However I could be wrong, but I don't thinks so...lol

[roy404]

I was legally married to a post-op-twice. I have lived with many TS women since 68 and known 100's more. I am now in a LTR with a TS and we have lived together for 4 years. She is cool and treally a great lady. In fact she see's no reason why I should not go to Allanah's party.

Women are women. People are peolpe. Only a few of my friends know about her "Sex" and they know me so they totally accept her.

You get the tpye of person you seek and deserve. Heck if I was 25 years younger I would be courting Allanah. I consider her one of the hottest most intelligent LADIES I have ever known. And for me that says a lot.

[Reddman]

Bump!!!

[Thuggish_Intellect]

Does any of your girls friends want hook ups with your boys? Or are most of your friends strictly "No Homo" about the ts thing?

[mBomb]

Last 4 relationships I've had were with ts's.. one you guys probably jo'ed to before too. Problem is, minute the girls hit the hormones the ego skyrockets and the moodswings come.

It's really, really hard to hold a relationship with someone transgendered.

[Reddman]

Nope. All my friends are either solidly straight , gay or bi.. Only one gay friend has confided, sought and found experiences with both a TS and a GG. He's still into guys but he got the curiosity factor out of his system. only two of my straight friends have ever loosed to the ideal of kickin' it with a pre op TS but they only expressed when sauced and always "nah nah" the ideal .

[Reddman]

Nope. All my friends are either solidly straight , gay or bi.. Only one gay friend has confided, sought and found experiences with both a TS and a GG. He's still into guys but he got the curiosity factor out of his system. only two of my straight friends have ever loosed to the ideal of kickin' it with a pre op TS but they only expressed when sauced and always "nah nah" the ideal .

Opps, i posted my reply in the wrong subject

[Reddman]

Does any of your girls friends want hook ups with your boys? Or are most of your friends strictly "No Homo" about the ts thing?

Ok I'm in the right thread. Damn i gotta leave them trees alone



Nope. All my friends are either solidly straight , gay or bi.. Only one gay friend has confided, sought and found experiences with both a TS and a GG. He's still into guys but he got the curiosity factor out of his system. only two of my straight friends have ever loosed to the ideal of kickin' it with a pre op TS but they only expressed when sauced and always "nah nah" the ideal

[d]

lol @ "No Homo".
I don't think most guys can be open about liking shemales because its not too accepted socially. the guys i hang with, if they do get down they hide it very well