Fuck around or find a potential long term girlfriend/wife?

[KelliBlueEyes]

I'd like to have something long-term. I've had some experiences with T-girls, and I know that I'd love to have a long-term relationship with one. However, it's hard to find someone who is A.) Attractive and passable; B.) Lives in my area or is willing to relocate. C.) Is a non-smoker and health-conscious. D.) Has enough common interests with me outside of sex. E.) Prefers to top.

Therein lies the rub, the majority of trans women in relationships do not prefer to top

[dirtrail]

That’s been my experience...most trans girls prefer tops.

Therein lies the rub, the majority of trans women in relationships do not prefer to top

[CORVETTEDUDE]

A steady Gal ... no strings

[sockratees]

sleeping around would feel like you're wasting your time the wrong ppl for me.

[MrFanti]

Therein lies the rub, the majority of trans women in relationships do not prefer to top

Hence why they are TRANS....

[Lorca81]

Just want some other people’s opinions, I am single and quite happy sleeping around finding hot girls sleeping with them etc... but I find myself sometimes thinking it would be nice to just settle down and stick with a girl long term. A lot of the girls I date seem really happy to just fuck around and don’t seem interested in something long term. What is your current relationship status? And do you wish you were in a different scenario? Does the grass always seem greener? Are there any laws where you live regarding marrying a trans girl?

Sleeping around and finding a long-term partner are not mutually exclusive, as the former can lead to the latter. The key is to be ethical in your promiscuity, which means that you must be up front about your intentions and, if the chemistry is right, something casual can grow into a lasting connection. However, this is prefaced with the assumption that by "sleeping around" you mean going on dates and/or having FWB-type relationships. But if you mean seeing escorts and/or having one-night Grinder flings, you probably won't start anything lasting. As to marriage, if you're in any of the United States, there are no legal barriers to marrying a transwomen since the Supreme Court decided Obergefell v. Hodges.