Telling your gf about your love of transexual porn

[Sillysausage25]

Hi everybody just wondering if anybody has been in the same situation or could offer any advice.
I really want to tell her I love transexual porn and think she would like it to as our sex life is fucking awsome she is as I am open to try anything we are dirty buggers to say the least she is the one who introduced me to pegging and loves to take control and fuck me with her strapon now I think it could be something we could enjoy together now that would be awsome but we have been together 9 years and telling her I don't know if it's the right thing to do as it could ruin our relationship I dunno maybe she will look at me differently I dunno. What would any of you do and how would you tell her?

[skribble1]

I somehow found a way to bring up Bailey Jay by saying I heard her on a radio show. Pulled up photos/videos and saw if she was interested. I figured since Bailey is the most feminine looking/sounding/acting TS I know it would be less weird.


Nothing ever came of it.

[Sillysausage25]

Cheers for the reply skribble yea ive been thinking of doing something similar as we do sometimes watch porn together I was thinking of accidently on purpose stumbling onto a transexual video and hopefully she's into it with a bit of luck

[dirtrail]

Just tell her and be honest. It could open up a whole new level to your relationship. I told my gf (wife now) years ago. She loves the idea that I’m turned on by Tgirls. It excites her too when we watch tgirl porn together and she sees that I get hard. Hopefully our next experience will be a threesome with a transgirl.

[Sillysausage25]

Dirtrail i really want to be up front just tell her and I genuinely do think she would be into it too I'm just don't know how to tell her in just nervous if it goes south and I ruin everything between us

[Sillysausage25]

Threesome with a transgirl and my gf now that would be some next level type of awsomness!

[ilove2swallow]

no way she would have a problem with tranny porn if ya'll peg, eh?

[nysprod]

Dirtrail i really want to be up front just tell her and I genuinely do think she would be into it too I'm just don't know how to tell her in just nervous if it goes south and I ruin everything between us

Questions like this can be answered with simple probability.

First thing is to establish the risk vs. reward.

You established the risk as being everything ruined. You didn't define the reward so let me provide 2 scenarios:
a. She won't care, and you continue to just look and fap to trans porn
b. She will want to get into threesomes with tg's, which is a fantasy of yours and something to really want to do.

If 'a' is the reward, there's nothing to gain by telling her because if you don't tell her you'll continue to look at trans porn in secret, as I assume you do now.

Therefore, it makes no sense to tell her if this is the scenario because there's a probability of losing everything with nothing to really gain.

If 'b' is the reward, then you have a personal decision to make; Is the reward worth the risk? Only you can answer that.

[must93]

I think the better question is why do you look at transsexual porn? Do you like Tgirls more then birth women? Before you weigh the risk, I think it might be wise to look at what your really want. Then a better decision can be made as to what to say to your girlfriend.

[filghy2]

Questions like this can be answered with simple probability.

First thing is to establish the risk vs. reward.

You established the risk as being everything ruined. You didn't define the reward so let me provide 2 scenarios:
a. She won't care, and you continue to just look and fap to trans porn
b. She will want to get into threesomes with tg's, which is a fantasy of yours and something to really want to do.

If 'a' is the reward, there's nothing to gain by telling her because if you don't tell her you'll continue to look at trans porn in secret, as I assume you do now.

Therefore, it makes no sense to tell her if this is the scenario because there's a probability of losing everything with nothing to really gain.

If 'b' is the reward, then you have a personal decision to make; Is the reward worth the risk? Only you can answer that.

You haven't considered the possibility that he feels guilty about deceiving his partner, which is usually the reason why people want to confess voluntarily. Having to do it in secret presumably also limits his TS porn activities, with stress from the constant risk of being discovered.