Transsexuals and interacial dating?

[tommytuu]

Hey Daltx, I'm not complaining nor am I bitter. If a latin girl doesn't want me, date or LTR, I really don't give a shit. It's their loss. I do just fine with most black tgirls and they turn me on the most. Got one now. Not an escort. She's young. 22. And loves to get wild. She also likes gg's. What more could a guy ask for. On the latin tip, if they were all like Allanah I'd be in heaven. but so is not the case. I will wait until my trip to Brazil. I know this shit doesn't go on there. And I will have a blast. No doubt. But thanks for saying "many people simply don't like blacks". I live it so I know. No matter how much this country tries to say that race relations are good. I know differently. Thats bullshit.

[Thuggish_Intellect]

true colors always shine thru.

The intent of this post wasn't a black vs. white vs. latino issue.

I just wanted to discuss intelligently the why's and why nots.

I would think that being one who "dates" transsexuals one would be more open minded and less bigotted. It's a shame that most of us still live like it's 1964.

[RangeHova]

First off respect to Thuggish_Intellect for a post with substance.

But I see that Daltx_m misread the post. No one was complaining just observing and relaying what they saw. And who said they were racist?

[quote="daltx_m
Why is it the blacks keep complaining? Get over it. If they don't want to see blacks that's just the way it is. Many people simply don't like blacks. Get over it. Does that make them racist. [/quote]

From my experience (years in Chicago, LA, NYC, DC Miami, Dallas, and now Atlanta) I have seen the opposite from what Thuggish speaks. 99.9% of the Black girls I have known have been into Black men by far, some of the professional girls may date white men but the majority of Black T-girls rarely date outside of the race for reasons other than money.

But I think it's all about where you go and where you meet the girls. If you go to predominately Black clubs and hang outs (where most Black T girls dwell) you'll meet girls that are into Black men. If you go to places that are predominately white you are more prone to meet girls that are looking for white men. If you go to the stroll you are going to meet girls that are going to view and treat you like a trick.

A few working girls have told me that it comes down to the higher prices white men are willing to pay, the number of times Black men have taken back money from them, among other reasons. But I know girls that would never date a Black man profesionally but only date Black men outside of work.

Most girls (Black, White, Latin, Asian, etc.) are pretty open to attractive, well put together, confident men, sexy as a whole. You'll always meet girls with a preference but in most cases that stuff fades.

[Reddman]

First off respect to Thuggish_Intellect for a post with substance.

Most girls (Black, White, Latin, Asian, etc.) are pretty open to attractive, well put together, confident men, sexy as a whole. You'll always meet girls with a preference but in most cases that stuff fades.

I concur

[Reddman]

[quote=RangeHova]First off respect to Thuggish_Intellect for a post with substance.

But I see that Daltx_m misread the post. No one was complaining just observing and relaying what they saw. And who said they were racist?

From my experience (years in Chicago, LA, NYC, DC Miami, Dallas, and now Atlanta) I have seen the opposite from what Thuggish speaks. 99.9% of the Black girls I have known have been into Black men by far, some of the professional girls may date white men but the majority of Black T-girls rarely date outside of the race for reasons other than money.

But I think it's all about where you go and where you meet the girls. If you go to predominately Black clubs and hang outs (where most Black T girls dwell) you'll meet girls that are into Black men. If you go to places that are predominately white you are more prone to meet girls that are looking for white men. If you go to the stroll you are going to meet girls that are going to view and treat you like a trick.

A few working girls have told me that it comes down to the higher prices white men are willing to pay, the number of times Black men have taken back money from them, among other reasons. But I know girls that would never date a Black man profesionally but only date Black men outside of work.

Most girls (Black, White, Latin, Asian, etc.) are pretty open to attractive, well put together, confident men, sexy as a whole. You'll always meet girls with a preference but in most cases that stuff fades.

I concur

[RangeHova]

It's pretty much no different that with strippers that work in predominately white clubs. Here in Atlanta 75% of the clubs are mostly Black. And most of the girls are Black, Latin & Asian girls that date Black men. The few that work in other clubs are primarily out for white men.

The moral to this story is, if you are a Black man looking for a TS or GG that is into Black men, go to places frequented by Black people. Simple.

[Thuggish_Intellect]

Thanks for your insight on the matter.

However, I think people are missing the whole scope of the topic.

I'm not looking for any remedy or magic potion as to "why" this does or does not occur.

I pretty much wanted to get a girls opinion on her thought process as to the subject matter at hand. Basically, does that much thought go into play when choosing who you will and won't date? I do notice that this thread has proven one overwhelmingly stereotypical point...that minorities will not pay premium dollars for good service.

This is extremely arguable. Especially in my city (Washington, DC) where minorities are the majority and are progressively and professionally established, ready and willing to part with there money for leisure activities. (the night scene game down here is rididculous)

I think it has to do more with white collar vs. blue collar individuals. Would a school teacher who makes 25k a year contemplate spending $300 for an hour of lust more so than an electronic engineer who makes 75k a year, the answer is simple, yes. Everything isn't always black and white. Second class status and unwillingness to pay premium dollars for good service is a terrible stigma to place on an individual group, especially when it is largely based on an unfounded premise...

[Vicki Richter]

Sounds like I should go visit Washington. :P Seriously, I think I have probably been with an equal number of black men and white. I've dated fewer latino guys, but really it's more the way thing have worked out than some other "dark secret" reason. I met some great guys in NYC, very attractive, very sweet. I think it all boils down to the individual for me. If someone is respectful, intelligent, and interesting, then everything else is just a bonus.

[tommytuu]

Vicki, can't wait till you visit N.Y. again. We definately gotta hook up.

[RangeHova]

Well, personally I make a damn good living and I'll be dameded if I'll pay $300 to bust a nut. But I'm not too keen on paying for it anyway, not that I think I'm better than that but I just prefer actual connection with girls beyond just getting a nut.

But I do have a few really close friends that date and strip (TS as well as GG) and they say that some of the most well paid Black men that they meet still are more prone to haggle with them. I've also heard that some girls that actually prefer Black men don't like to date them because they can get attached, for some girls it's easier to fuck a guy for money if he's not your type.