Transsexuals and interacial dating?

[Thuggish_Intellect]

I would assume that since seeing the delicate nature of the site we're on, most girls and guys would be a bit more open minded about this topic.

However through my very short and admittedly brief travels through the states as well as online, I haven't seemed to find any information supporting interacial dating when it comes to black/latino men.

I've seen it at clubs, in videos, and even online, more often then not black transsexuals who date white/latino men but I haven't seen the converse white transsexuals who date/have dated black/latino men.

Discouragingly as it is, i've come to find that most, if not the greater majority of black/latina transsexuals prefer to date exclusively outside of there race.

Which led me to wonder, why? Would that be a bit of an oddity to see? A black/latino man in a relationship with a white transsexual?

My aim isn't to stir up any childish race debates but rather intelligently discuss, why or why this doesn't occur. It'd be great to have opinions from all sides (black, brown, white, men, and transsexual).

Thanks



PS, i'm new here so this may be a little heavy for those just coming in to look at pics of girls so I apologize in advance if it is.

[Realgirls4me]

(What happened to my response?) Ugh!

Welcome aboard, TI.

I just lost my lengthier response to you while this thing logged off, so here is a truncated response:

First of all, race issues, topics, always have the potential to be explosive and divisive, but you raise a good question, based on an observation I've made myself.

If you're referring to escort dating, and not anything lengthy, the word I've received from a couple of well known TS porn stars who escort, is that black hobbyists tend to be not only more demanding, but also chincy(sp?) when it comes to the prearranged fee. They're tighter, in other words. If most, perhaps due to their social-economic situation, are conforming to that stereotype with high frequency, I can see why the girls get tired of it. It's the same reasoning why many won't do younger guys also, instead stipulating older, mature, generous, gentlemenin their ads. I realize this the weakest form of data (testimonials) to rely on, but it's all I have at this time to offer in place of anything more valid or realiable.

There are many here who are better experience who could offer you more. Hopefully, they'll pipe in.

Welcome aboard once more!

[Mugai_hentaisha]

hey whether it is black white asain or whatever if they look good and "work and play well" with others then hey they are worth a second glance as well.

Remember this No topic is too heavy. Although you may again and again touch on things that have already been said but hey.......That's life

[Thuggish_Intellect]

And this is not meant to be harsh or whatever but there was a time in most black/latino transsexuals live's, within reasonable presumption, that they in fact were considered "black/latino males" by the same populace...

So taking that into consideration, have most of them become so dissillusioned or disconnected from the years gone by, that they forgot what it was like?

Add to that point, the fact that these women in "Society's" eyes aren't considered women at all, legally or common. Why would a "people" who want to champion for fairness, equality, justice, freedom to love unequivocablly (s/p?) initiate such blatant and calous biggotry?

Not to say that anyone's perfect or that all transsexual's should be the torch bearers for the truth, the light, and the American way but, it just seems to be at least the majority of them would not be so prejudicial

[Reddman]

Hey TI nothing like a little substance here. As Real replied, are you speaking of a professional situation or real realtionship??? I've been in a LTR with a TG girlfriend for many years and we are both persons of color. Amongst her girlfriends (of color) I actually see the opposite of what you have come across in most cases. And still there are our friends who date across the boards racially, still fewer date excusively white. Maybe thats a NY thing since this melting pot has so many flavas to begin with and more open minded climate.

[Reddman]

Oh and i had an interacial T girl relationship once. I'm African American ( of Black, Native American and Scottish blood hence the reddman tag) and she was Italtian American. We kicked it for a few months but it fell apart since we could barely catch time together. Below that surface issue i did have other issues that in retrospect taught me some things about myself as well.

[tommytuu]

The reason, MONEY. And that's the only reason.

[Thuggish_Intellect]

I'd really like to hear it from the horses (an actual transsexual woman) mouth, no pun intended.

Is about perception?

Is about the monetary factor?

Or is just simple, attraction, or the lack thereof?

Reddman, you offer a good insight on this topic because you're actually on the other side of the fence of this. Has your girl or any of her friends told you why they do or don't date exclusively outside of there race. And by dating I mean, not working, just regular everyday hey I met a nice guy let's go out and get to know one another type vibe.

[adona]

Because word on the street is white men are far more desperate so they're usually willing to pay $300.00/hour. Most black/latino trannies I know say white men are just good for paying their bills. Men who are good looking already know they don't need to seek an escort, however if you're looking looking for "girls" who don't charge, the 45-year-olds in their wives panties(though are never really feminine) are always willing to give it up for free. These types are also known as Truck Stop Queens.

[Reddman]

Reddman, you offer a good insight on this topic because you're actually on the other side of the fence of this. Has your girl or any of her friends told you why they do or don't date exclusively outside of there race. And by dating I mean, not working, just regular everyday hey I met a nice guy let's go out and get to know one another type vibe.

Hey TI putting numbers to this is pretty broad but the missus figures about 50% of the hispanic\black girls relationship wise date exclusively within their own race. Actually she said more latin girls tend stick to other hispanics to a larger degree than black girls who exclusively date bruthas vs. dating both Black and Hispanic guys. Why?? Dunno maybe familiarity, shared cultural background\ experience,just not physcially into Euros,etc,etc. 30%+\- of the gurls look for love from all colors. Rounding it out are the 20-25% segment are gurls who date white only.
Now the lively discussion began because bruthas still have a bad rep with the ladies be they blk,latin, white or aisan. Why??? Bad past experiences or that of their friends but more so some heavyduty stereotyping and generalization going on. Some gurls like the drama some bruthas bring(akin to GG baby's daddy drama, see Springer or Povitch ) while a alot of them aint having it at all. No to incorrigble cons, wanna be playas pimps or hustlers need apply. OK, so what not too many girls of any gender do least they crave the drama it entails ---quite a bit do though. Deeper still and the edge latino and white guys seem to have over black men is the willingness to accept the women as just that...women.In general terms alot more latino and white guys don't keep their relations on the DL, they are more willing to have the BF's friends and family involved with their GF. It's the experience alot of girls seek valdiation plain and simple.