My husband cheated on me with TS/TV

[Upsetwife]

PM a photo holding a piece of paper with 'upsetwife' on it - u only need to show the bottom 1/2 of your face and I'll verify and then delete.

pm sent

[MrFanti]

Thank you so much
I'm just so scared to confront him about this for a number of reasons. Scared of the way he may react knowing he's been caught, that he will say that's it and walk away without even discussing it or maybe even tell me the scariest thing and that's he finds ts's so attractive he can't stop
At the end of the day I'm so scared of losing him not matter what cause I love him so much it hurts, I haven't stopped crying since I found all this out and yes I may not have reacted as I should of and yes have said something's on here tgat I shouldn't off but I'm so hurt and broken I don't know what to do and it doesn't help when some people on here are so nice, like yourself and others are just plain nasty. It's my life I'm trying to deal with and I have kids to consider who absolutely adore him. I spent almost 7 years on my own before meeting him and thought I'd be on my own for good which I was fine with. But then he came along and changed my world. I know it sounds dramatic but that's how I truly feel. I can't live without him no matter how much this has hurt me ��

Communication is the key to ANY relationship be it love, friendship, or business, ALL will fail without communication.

[Murmdrum]

now Im dying to see if she verified with a photo

[BostonBad]

More importantly, did your hubby spit or swallow?

[Upsetwife]

now Im dying to see if she verified with a photo

Yes I did. I'm no TROLL

[syla]

Shame. I feel bad for Upsetwife. One of her posts/comments sounded like my wife. Before this explosion. I almost feared that I'd been caught myself.

Shame.

All I can say is that he needs to get over this... I don't mean this as a joke, but get him Suzanna Holmes or that Ednita I've heard about...you sound like you're from the UK. But get the biggest cock TS escort for him,or a porn star (that nice man Mr Grooby above could help) he'd recognize if money allows; and let him get his life fucked outta him. (Don't be there - this is important).

I believe he needs to reach the climax of his fantasy. To realise it....and that could start ending his dirty desire. For me personally I need to get topped and cum with no hands stimulation (maybe 6 or more times over) and then I'll know I've conquered this TS phase I'm dealing. But after that I know I'll get bored and likely pull away.

Now don't delay in acting because year on year these ladies are looking ever more so beautiful than you natural women with re-usable vaginas. And their cocks are getting bigger etc. I personally feel in this modern age, 2018, today, it's sooo difficult to break away from the TS addiction. TS dick is goood with an extra o. And hell, he could end up dating one secretly and no one would ever tell in public they're so damn intoxicatingly beautiful. The key is in you starting the conversation,or you find out who his fantasy or Top 10 is one on these boards and have him come home to Yasmin Lee waiting to fuck the shit out of him literally in his bedroom. (Ahh man!&#128525
But you need to act.

Pm me, and we can talk further if you'd like views from one of the married men on here.

[GroobySteven]

Ok - I'll stand correct (I think) as I did get a photo of someone holding a message.
So I apologise for calling you a cunt. We've had lots of 'wannabe' come here and pull shit just to get off.

Here's the thing, you're complaining and crying about why your husband is attracted to this - but you're not listening - you're just complaining and then arguing that people are wrong.
No, we don't have to 'agree to disagree'. If you cannot except that trans women are women, regardless of their genitalia then you are just plain and simply WRONG.

I really think you'd be better looking for a support group then on a forum which is mainly dedicated to the adult industry.

Your husband has fantasies about this - whether he acts on them or not, does not make him abnormal. If he 'cheats' on you then it's irrelevant whether it's with any gender, if you're morally unable to come to terms with it (many people have no problem with this - as alien as it may seem to you). Whether cheating, or having fantasies or whatever - it doesn't necessarily and shouldn't be seen as a slight to you, or mean he has any less love for you, it just means he also needs this. And if you're functioning up until you found out as a happy couple, then just pack this into a box and live with it. He's not going to change.

[iamneelix]

Trolls can be female.

[lifeisfiction]

I think you're just a bit of a cunt - or a troll - or both.

Either way, you're only staying here for comedy value.

She's legit, I have know people who have been cheated on or who currently cheat on their spouse. It's one thing to hear of it and it's another thing to have people come and complain or tell how they found out. She doesn't know how to confront her husband. She has built a life with him and she is afraid to start over or to be alone. While a lot my friends cheat on their wives, I have known enough wives who had cheated on their husband or have stolen another woman's spouse. People saying she needs to get a strap-on or nonsense like don't understand it is not a solution.

Right now, she wants to know if this is porn he is looking at and can she gives him the same experience? If he is acting on it, was it something she did? I really think, if she can't confront him, give him an ultimatum or either they talk about it, they seek counseling or they go their separate ways. It is far worst then staying in something like that.

I could tell you some absolute funny stories on cheating, funny for me not for them. Some really deep discussions I had with people on it from their experience. I think we should encourage to try an console her marriage, because she won't find the solution here and she is just delaying it even more so.

[legault]

Just come here and I'll tale care of your frustration