My husband cheated on me with TS/TV

[DollyJEscort]

I need someone to please explain to me why a seemingly heterosexual guy who is married and loves his wife, which I do believe he does, would sleep with a ts? What is the attraction? I don't want to offend anyone so please accept my apology if I have but if anyone is in the same situation is happily married but sleeping with ts escort please tell me why, maybe then I will understand better why he's done it and will probably do it again. I know he has slept with female escorts too and although I hate it and font understand what he gets from them that's he's not getting from me I can't understand why ts' as when he talks about them he says they are nothing but freaks (his words not mine) and they should decide if they want to be male or female and it's wrong that they choose to be both.
Please explain to me someone x

I read your original post on here the other day I actually felt sorry for you, as one of the escorts myself I know just how many married men we see each week and if its any consolation it really isn’t just your husband with this desire/hunger/fetish for a chick with a dick, there are thousands of them that pay us for this no strings attached taboo fun.
However much sympathy I feel for u I have to say unless you’re going to confront him then what on earth is the fucking point in coming here - AN ESCORT REVIEW site badmouthing transexuals because you cannot bring yourself to just asking your husband why hes been cheating on you? Virtually pointless I don’t even beleive you’re real now tbh I think your a wind up as I don’t know any woman in my life who would instead of confronting said husband would instead set up a profile on the same site hes used to rant about it? I smell bullshit. If you are real I suggest you GO AND TALK to your husband as theres fuck all you’re going to get from here, especially when questioning the guys intentions of paying to fuck girls like me. As you stated yourself if he wanted to fuck a “guy” be that a rentboy or ts escort (as Im sure u would include in being a guy) then he shouldn’t have married you. But that’s something only he can answer you not us!

[essex1]

I need someone to please explain to me why a seemingly heterosexual guy who is married and loves his wife, which I do believe he does, would sleep with a ts? What is the attraction? I don't want to offend anyone so please accept my apology if I have but if anyone is in the same situation is happily married but sleeping with ts escort please tell me why, maybe then I will understand better why he's done it and will probably do it again. I know he has slept with female escorts too and although I hate it and font understand what he gets from them that's he's not getting from me I can't understand why ts' as when he talks about them he says they are nothing but freaks (his words not mine) and they should decide if they want to be male or female and it's wrong that they choose to be both.
Please explain to me someone x

It must be a shocking way to find out that you dont fulfill his sexual needs, however if you want to continue the relationship you are going to need to talk to your husband and find out if there is a possible compromise. I am guessing he is an older guy and this is not a unique situation, for as we get to a certain age the urge to experiment sexually is common. Some men take to swinging or dogging to watch their wives have sex for example. It certainly doesnt mean he is gay or that he doesnt love you as his wife, he's simply experimenting sexually. As another posted here some couples find alternatives and use strapons, or some couples (as in my relationship) experiment with transgenders together. In fact we often talk about our 3some with a beautiful ladyboy in Thailand. So my advice would be dont take it personally, have a few drinks and both discuss your sexual needs...Together!

[jameshargreaves]

I read your original post on here the other day I actually felt sorry for you, as one of the escorts myself I know just how many married men we see each week and if its any consolation it really isn’t just your husband with this desire/hunger/fetish for a chick with a dick, there are thousands of them that pay us for this no strings attached taboo fun.
However much sympathy I feel for u I have to say unless you’re going to confront him then what on earth is the fucking point in coming here - AN ESCORT REVIEW site badmouthing transexuals because you cannot bring yourself to just asking your husband why hes been cheating on you? Virtually pointless I don’t even beleive you’re real now tbh I think your a wind up as I don’t know any woman in my life who would instead of confronting said husband would instead set up a profile on the same site hes used to rant about it? I smell bullshit. If you are real I suggest you GO AND TALK to your husband as theres fuck all you’re going to get from here, especially when questioning the guys intentions of paying to fuck girls like me. As you stated yourself if he wanted to fuck a “guy” be that a rentboy or ts escort (as Im sure u would include in being a guy) then he shouldn’t have married you. But that’s something only he can answer you not us!

Wow. What a great post Dolly. Good on you girl. One smart chick.

[hugeadmirer]

Wise words. Finding out the truth might actually bring you much closer together

It must be a shocking way to find out that you dont fulfill his sexual needs, however if you want to continue the relationship you are going to need to talk to your husband and find out if there is a possible compromise. I am guessing he is an older guy and this is not a unique situation, for as we get to a certain age the urge to experiment sexually is common. Some men take to swinging or dogging to watch their wives have sex for example. It certainly doesnt mean he is gay or that he doesnt love you as his wife, he's simply experimenting sexually. As another posted here some couples find alternatives and use strapons, or some couples (as in my relationship) experiment with transgenders together. In fact we often talk about our 3some with a beautiful ladyboy in Thailand. So my advice would be dont take it personally, have a few drinks and both discuss your sexual needs...Together!

[Upsetwife]

I read your original post on here the other day I actually felt sorry for you, as one of the escorts myself I know just how many married men we see each week and if its any consolation it really isn’t just your husband with this desire/hunger/fetish for a chick with a dick, there are thousands of them that pay us for this no strings attached taboo fun.
However much sympathy I feel for u I have to say unless you’re going to confront him then what on earth is the fucking point in coming here - AN ESCORT REVIEW site badmouthing transexuals because you cannot bring yourself to just asking your husband why hes been cheating on you? Virtually pointless I don’t even beleive you’re real now tbh I think your a wind up as I don’t know any woman in my life who would instead of confronting said husband would instead set up a profile on the same site hes used to rant about it? I smell bullshit. If you are real I suggest you GO AND TALK to your husband as theres fuck all you’re going to get from here, especially when questioning the guys intentions of paying to fuck girls like me. As you stated yourself if he wanted to fuck a “guy” be that a rentboy or ts escort (as Im sure u would include in being a guy) then he shouldn’t have married you. But that’s something only he can answer you not us!

To start with I'm not looking for yours or anyone else's sympathy, I'm 100% real and this is my life I'm dealing with and have never had yo deal with anything like this before so have no idea what or why I'm doing this, life doesn't come with a handbook explaining what to do in devastating situations, if it did I wouldn't be here.
Secondly I have not bad mouthed anyone!!! I have nothing against anyone doing what they want to, my son has come out as gay and I'm happy if he is. Just because I don't understand something doesn't make it wrong.
The only reason I think I actually commented on here in the first place as deep down I think I was hoping my husband may see this and confess everything to me and apologise and maybe we could get through this as I took my marriage vows seriously and deeply love him.
Just because you don't know any woman that would do this doesn't mean it's BULLSHIT.
I have actually had loads of response in messages from people actually trying to explain and help me and it has helped me greatly as I've had people to talk to about thus as I can't speak to friends and family about this, he's kept it from everyone so it's not my place to tell anyone what he's been doing as he must be embarrassed about it to hide it.
So again thank you for your comment but it's not needed

[Upsetwife]

It must be a shocking way to find out that you dont fulfill his sexual needs, however if you want to continue the relationship you are going to need to talk to your husband and find out if there is a possible compromise. I am guessing he is an older guy and this is not a unique situation, for as we get to a certain age the urge to experiment sexually is common. Some men take to swinging or dogging to watch their wives have sex for example. It certainly doesnt mean he is gay or that he doesnt love you as his wife, he's simply experimenting sexually. As another posted here some couples find alternatives and use strapons, or some couples (as in my relationship) experiment with transgenders together. In fact we often talk about our 3some with a beautiful ladyboy in Thailand. So my advice would be dont take it personally, have a few drinks and both discuss your sexual needs...Together!

Thank you for your comment
He is in fact younger than me and I do believe he still loves me as shows it all the time
I have asked him plenty of times if I'm enough for him and if there is anything he wants to try as I'm very open minded about sex between a husband and wife and if anything I'm more experimental and adventurous in the bedroom than he is and certainly have a higher sex drive so I can't see how I am not fulfilling his needs sexually

[harry24844722]

I love my wife and she gives me much pleasure in life and in bed but I have desires to fulfill and this 'hobby' of mine seeing TS girls or GG escorts just gives me what I need and then I go home to her every night. We are only here once and life is too short to not try everything at least once. I do not want or seek a relationship with another girl or TS girl outside of my marriage. The only other option would be to leave my wife and search for a new partner TS or otherwise and I am sure she does not want that. If she found out I would discuss it with her and give her the choice of splitting up or tolerating this hobby for as long as my desires are there. I don't see it lasting much longer as it is starting to get less thrilling as time goes on. Just a phase in my case (that's lasted 19 years lol)

[Upsetwife]

I love my wife and she gives me much pleasure in life and in bed but I have desires to fulfill and this 'hobby' of mine seeing TS girls or GG escorts just gives me what I need and then I go home to her every night. We are only here once and life is too short to not try everything at least once. I do not want or seek a relationship with another girl or TS girl outside of my marriage. The only other option would be to leave my wife and search for a new partner TS or otherwise and I am sure she does not want that. If she found out I would discuss it with her and give her the choice of splitting up or tolerating this hobby for as long as my desires are there. I don't see it lasting much longer as it is starting to get less thrilling as time goes on. Just a phase in my case (that's lasted 19 years lol)

Would you feel the same if you found out your wife was seeing escorts behind your back and what woukd be your response if she gave you the option to either split up or tolerate her HOBBY? This is question all you married men should ask yourself if you truly do love your wife.
I am deeply in love with my husband and couldn't even bring myself to look at another person in a sexual way

[harry24844722]

I have had a long term relationship in the past where we shared our bed with an escort and I think it lengthened the relationship and enhanced it. I'm not promoting any lifestyle and am not a hypocrite so if I discovered my wife seeing others I would look no further than myself that something was not quite right in the relationship and if I wanted to seek to fix it. That's just my view and definately not yours. Just to say if both partners were 100% happy would they stray? You can attempt to fill the gaps or move on. Paying an escort removes any risk of emotional attachments and is the least harmful way of fixing these longings. Again I'm not preaching just saying how I feel.

[Upsetwife]

I have had a long term relationship in the past where we shared our bed with an escort and I think it lengthened the relationship and enhanced it. I'm not promoting any lifestyle and am not a hypocrite so if I discovered my wife seeing others I would look no further than myself that something was not quite right in the relationship and if I wanted to seek to fix it. That's just my view and definately not yours. Just to say if both partners were 100% happy would they stray? You can attempt to fill the gaps or move on. Paying an escort removes any risk of emotional attachments and is the least harmful way of fixing these longings. Again I'm not preaching just saying how I feel.

I appreciate your honesty and I guess my husband can not be 100 % happy then, I just wish he would tell me he's not as I've asked him so many times
I've offered to buy a strap on and try that but he is dead against it saying he could not put anything in his arse bigger than my finger which is really frustrating now I know he's actually had a cock in his arse
I can't offer him any more than I have as I don't have the equipment for that and if he's really that in need of a cock ( which it doesn't seem like he's that gagging for it as in 3 years he's only done it 3 times) that he would just leave me even tho I would be heart broken it would mean he can do what he wants without hurting me more and I can get over him in time