My husband cheated on me with TS/TV

[natina]

He wants " The Dick" but wants it on a feminine form/visual even if he doesn't touch the dick.
He needs adventure, taboo......

[IluvemHung]

Thank you but was hoping to get someone's personal experience of it to try and help me undetstand

Try not to rake it personal but sometimes a man can have a curiosity or a craving for something and pursue it. Not like it okay but it happens. Its just not fair or right when you do it and your already committed to someone. I know of a woman that has done the same thing to her husband and it was with another woman. Her husband was kind of upset but they're working it out. Maybe he was more upset because he didnt get join in... who knows. He is more embarrassed if anything. It happens.

[LittleGuy]

Grooby, that's a very mean thing to say to women. If another man said this, you would banned them.

[GroobySteven]

Grooby, that's a very mean thing to say to women. If another man said this, you would banned them.

So I can say this to a man - and not get banned, or say it to a woman and get banned? That's equality for you.

How about this, I can say it to anyone I believe is a troll. And I'm still not convinced she's not a troll.

As one of the gatekeepers to this forum, I'm see 100's of similar posts like this over the years, usually by people with agendas or just providing their own jack-off material. Most of it doesn't get to you as one of the mods kick it early. In this case, I was wrong about it being a guy (I think I was wrong) and have apologised for that, but not about the trolling which we'll see.

If you don't like, I can offer you a full refund for what you pay for this site?

[johnnyshemalelover]

If he wanted to be rogered as you put it he should married a guy

Or one of the millions of women who aren't too hung up to use a strap-on on their man, maybe?

[Upsetwife]

I haven't commented on here for a while as have been trying to get my head around what to do about it. My husband and I spoke last night about swingers clubs and have agreed to look into it. Just us being together and probably others watching yo start with and of course watching others and then see where it goes although he did say he wouldn't feel comfortable going 'all the way' with anyone else or seeing me go 'all the way' with anyone so we will see
We have spoke in depth this morning about things that are on my mind and worrying me and although I didn't actually come out and tell him I knew about this site it was clear he knows I know about at least something, it's hard to talk right now as my son is about so he has said we will sit and talk more this evening once he's in bed. I've made it clear that yes I may be upset and hurt by things he has to say but I would def not go mad or be angry as long as he is honest with me and yes I can forgive anything as I do live him wuth all my heart so we will see how it gies. It surprised me how calm he was as he usually kicks off and has a hot temper.
Just want to thank all of those who have been so kind ad thoughtful and tried to help me with my feelings and understanding of this and to those that have been just plain nasty please just think about who your hurting with your words. I am real, I'm not a troll, and yes it's my life. I may not off dealt with it as I should and I probably shouldn't of come on here and starred ranting but I can't take it back, all I can do is apologise for interrupting anyone who didn't come here to hear this
I wish you all the best of luck
Xx

[Upsetwife]

Or one of the millions of women who aren't too hung up to use a strap-on on their man, maybe?

I have offered to use a strap on and he said it was going to far but has agreed to a prostate stimulator

[mikelangelo1]

[QUOTE=Upsetwife;1819317]I have offered to use a strap on and he said it was going to far but has agreed to a prostate stimulator[/QUOTE so, it seems that u have reconciled with each other

[Stavros]

I am unable to produce the data if it exists, that says most people do not tell the truth about their sexual desires and their sexual history, even to their partners, but I have long believed it.
Most people across the world are brought up to believe that heterosexual relations that create a family are the building blocks of all human society, and moreover, that this is the most desirable form of social structure. It may be that for most people this is not in itself problematic, but I do think that it is clear that even with a happy or stable marriage, the two partners can be unhappy, and that the cause of this unhappiness is a lack of a sense of fulfillment of sexual desire.

Most men and women who pay for sex are in some way unhappy or dissatisfied with their partner, though this does not mean they consider that person to be inadequate, as it is their sexual desire, even fantasy that drives them to pay for sex. In some cases there may be a simple reason: the wife has lost interest in sex, and is indifferent to her partner's desire. What must be a genuinely distressing situation may be relieved if the partners simply open up and discuss it, yet for those who have desires that cross an invisible boundary marked by gender or social role, this could threaten the integrity of the family, and so prefer to hide the truth.

Imagine a man who can only reach sexual fulfillment when dressed in a rubber suit and face mask, led in chains and on all fours around a room by an Amazon with a whip. It sounds comical almost, like the Gimp in Pulp Fiction, but is in fact serious for the person concerned (cf Miike's film Ichi the Killer), as is also the case with men who only feel fulfilled when they are 'taking it up the ass' which for thousands of years has been typecast as a sign of 'de-masculinity' or weakness.

The solution, that partners should talk to each other, may thus be too risky, too difficult to achieve. The key point must be that if the partner discovers his or her 'secret' it should not reflect badly on either of them. Human beings are naturally curious and experiment with chemicals as well as foods, exercise and sex. It has been easy to cast doubt on the OP because of the history of this forum, but it does not mean we should not take seriously the issues concerned, even if there is no simple resolution to them.

[legault]

It is a sign of weakness and demasculinity and no matter what you say or do, women and by proxy most of human society will view it that way. It's human nature.