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12-08-2017 #61
Re: Is it gay to be attracted/intimate with Trannies?
The board should just make one of these topics a sticky.
"We can't seem to cure them of the idea that our everyday life is only an illusion, behind which lies the reality of dreams."--Old Missionary, Fitzcarraldo
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12-08-2017 #62
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Re: Is it gay to be attracted/intimate with Trannies?
1 out of 1 members liked this post."...I no longer believe that people's secrets are defined and communicable, or their feelings full-blown and easy to recognize."_Alice Munro, Chaddeleys and Flemings.
"...the order in creation which you see is that which you have put there, like a string in a maze, so that you shall not lose your way". _Judge Holden, Cormac McCarthy's, BLOOD MERIDIAN.
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12-08-2017 #63
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Re: Is it gay to be attracted/intimate with Trannies?
Is anybody gonna answer my question???
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Or you straight if you are attracted to buck angel???
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12-08-2017 #64
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Re: Is it gay to be attracted/intimate with Trannies?
Kierkegaard, in Either/Or argued that of all the world's religions, it is Christianity that is most closely associated with sinfulness, that the two grew together. In many cases, guilt weighs down on people who have been raised in a morally strict Christian family; guilt at violating not just their parent's rules, but their God's too. It may be that with others, Jews and Muslims for example, they feel guilty at desiring something their parents have forbidden or denounced, and it can be as intense with desire for a transgendered female as their brother's wife.
Kierkegaard suggests the problem lies in the false equation, that 'either/or' is not a practical way of enjoying life and it would be better to dismantle the categories and take control of your own life and experience its sensuous delights, rather than be unhappy locked behind a false dichotomy. In non-religious settings too people can be socialized in a milieu where there are rigid expectations of what a man does, what a woman does, and that there are no transferable skills, or, if there are, they are condemned but only because they threaten the cohesion of the group -assuming it is worth being part of.
It is unfortunate that the word homosexual contains the word 'sex' because the reality for homosexuals is that they want a relationship no different from a heterosexual one. So you are probably gay if you look at one man in particular who you see on the train or bus to work every day, or work with, or who you see in your social set, and, crucially, whom you would like to invite to dinner at your place, buy him birthday and Christmas cards you sign with a X, yearn to form a relationship with him, cook meals, do the laundry and cuddle up in front of the tv to watch sports, game shows and movies.
Because any two people, or more can have sexual relations, and it need not be emotional, committed or become a steady relationship; or be embedded in social role, be permitted or forbidden by religious obligation or the law of the land- unless you want it that way. There is no compulsion on anyone who sucks a cock or has anal sex to claim to be gay or anything else, unless they want to wrap themselves in that label for whatever purpose, not any I can think of. Another philosopher, Wilhelm Reich, believed sexual activity to be a crucial component of human happiness and that it should never be repressed, 'Fuck freely, comrades, it's healthy!' is one of his recommendations, though even that should come with various warnings about safe sex and consent.
Liberate yourself from false dichotomies, be honest with yourself about what it is that you desire, and don't be afraid to express yourself.
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12-08-2017 #65
Re: Is it gay to be attracted/intimate with Trannies?
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12-08-2017 #66
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Re: Is it gay to be attracted/intimate with Trannies?
A lot of men say... I’m not gay, I’m not attracted to men, but then cry when we don’t act like men, and want to be treated like any other woman.
Do me up the butt, however keep your mouth shut, because what happens behind closed doors...
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12-08-2017 #67
Re: Is it gay to be attracted/intimate with Trannies?
OP wants validation, nothing more or less. his notion of more or less gay is pretty dim.
like there are people out there who say that a man being attracted to ANYBODY with a dick, whether they look female or not, is gay. even post-op, even if she's entirely passable, and the final surgery looks indistinguishable from a "born pussy" as it were.
these threads are a bit tiresome, but to be expected, since it's a common question most who are trans-attracted ask themselves. we've ALL done it at some point. i did years ago, now i know it's bull, and moved on. so even though the OP is acting big and bad, i still am gracious to him lol.
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Re: Is it gay to be attracted/intimate with Trannies?
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