How to date TS Girls online without being viewed as a "chaser"

[holzz]

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looolol

absolute crap.

i think social stigma, prejudice, etc. cause many trans women to turn to escorting and/or the sex industry and porn. it's only JUST changing now. Thirty years ago, it was the case, but there are many trans women in "normal" jobs, due to more acceptance. there is no way there would have been trans newsreaders, broadcasters, sportspeople, etc. thirty years ago.

besides, who wants to be seen only as a sex object, or fetishised? As a trans-attracted man, you really need to do more research on the group you enjoy fucking and/or dating, given your presence here.

[formil]

I agree with your advice holzz but that was already stuff i kind of knew what i was trying to get advice on was setting up your profile to be stand out from the usual chasers obviously no rude pictures, talk about myself and my interests. But what else shows that you're different?

[big_sexy_55]

looolol

absolute crap.

i think social stigma, prejudice, etc. cause many trans women to turn to escorting and/or the sex industry and porn. it's only JUST changing now. Thirty years ago, it was the case, but there are many trans women in "normal" jobs, due to more acceptance. there is no way there would have been trans newsreaders, broadcasters, sportspeople, etc. thirty years ago.

besides, who wants to be seen only as a sex object, or fetishised? As a trans-attracted man, you really need to do more research on the group you enjoy fucking and/or dating, given your presence here.

Nope. ABSOLUTE truth. It's sad and pathetic, but still very true. I agree things are slowly changing yes...but for every ts actor or broadcaster there are 75 ts girls earning there living off (prostitution, porn, drugs, etc) off "tranny chasers" lol. You hate the dreaded chaser, but you'll still take his money!!!

[bluesoul]

I would recommend not being a creep

this is so vague. what does it even mean? what if someone is already a creep. then what? they should not be themselves? what if the girl is a creep, or likes creeps. what exactly is being a creep? was the night stalker a creep or were the detectives pursuing him creeps. or were both creeps? and how could they stop? well, we know the night stalker stopped, but did the detectives? or were the never creeps to begin with?

is being a creep actually that bad anyway? i know a couple of cats that use the word "creep" in their name and they do okay. i'd say- especially if you ain't a square or nothing, being a creep ain't so bad. i'm a creep myself

[bluesoul]

If you know how to not be a creep around GGs, you know how to not be a creep around trans women.

well, speaking on behalf of all creeps, let me just stay that we don't get our credit. if it wasn't for us, normal people wouldn't be normal. they'd be creeps

[bluesoul]

you approach them as WOMEN, since they are WOMEN.

don't mention porn.

don't ask them to fuck you, or you fuck them, on first messaging.

don't use words like tranny or shemale.

don't mention you see TS porn, or have fucked escorts.

you just described almost every member on this forum and put don't in front. you might as well have just said "don't be on hungangels"

[CoolAwesomeBXDude]

just be cool

[LongTom101]

you approach them as WOMEN, since they are WOMEN.

don't mention porn.

don't ask them to fuck you, or you fuck them, on first messaging.

don't use words like tranny or shemale.

don't mention you see TS porn, or have fucked escorts.

just be natural, like you would be with a cis woman.

don't display an avatar that depicts a butt ass naked trans person as a sex object in an obviously sexually suggestive and submissive pose, this would clearly indicate that you're a chaser

Oh wait.....what ???!

[Paladin]

I wonder if the way in which you consider not recognising a trans person as such as being “Fooled” by them your radar is always switched on.

I had no clue with my partner and that’s completely our general experience hence my surprise that some people disbelieve those who say they didn’t know.

You had no clue, and you had two dates.

Stated by you earlier:

Not uncommon. I had two dates with my OH without having a clue.
Admittedly, now I can tell as I am aware of the signs but we will be out in town tonight with friends who will get hit on by straight guys with no clue.
It’s not uncommon at all

Did your date ever SPEAK???

[Aticus100]

You had no clue, and you had two dates.

Stated by you earlier:




Did your date ever SPEAK???

Yes, but as I didn’t think to ask “oh and by the way, you are female aren’t you?” The conversation didn’t give it away. She didn’t mention it at that juncture. I have no issue with that as she did mention it before anything became particularly physical and by that point I was hooked enough to just go with the flow.

Unless your referring to her voice in which case, no, couldn’t tell. (And I’m by no means naive or inexperienced) but she is unusually feminine.