How to date TS Girls online without being viewed as a "chaser"

[kmersh]

I am afraid that pretty much if you are looking to SPECIFICALLY date a transgender female than you will be classified as a chaser as you are SPECIALLY dating them because they are transgender.

To be clear, that is in no way a criticism of you, your intentions maybe completely pure and you do not consider yourself a "chaser", obviously I have never met you so I have zero way of knowing one way or the other.

Essentially the prevailing thinking goes something like this, Transgender woman are woman, that the being transgender part is not what they want to be known as and thus want men to date them because they are woman, not transgender woman.

The transgender part is a physical process to get from A -> B so to speak, basically it is a process to align the physical with who the gender that they are mentally/emotionally/etc.

[kmersh]

I met my wife on-line, actually in some ways I still feel that on-line is not the best way to date, but be that as it may.

I did not set out looking for a transgender female, honestly while the porn can be interesting it was the fartherest thing from my mind in real life.

After a few dates, I met a wonderful woman and really hit it off, lots in common to talk about, just a really fun date, (a first for me a date being fun), things just felt right.

When I asked for a second date, she then told me that she was transgender and she needed to be sure that I was okay with it before she would agree to see me again. Honestly, I was a bit taken a back as I was not expecting that.

At first I wanted to say that I needed some time to think about it, but then I thought better of that, it was an amazing date with a woman, I did not know going in that she was transgender and that would not have changed our conversation, we have similar interests, etc., none of that changes simply because one is transgender.

Since then we have been together three years now, we are married and life is good, she is an amazing person and it took living with my Wife to understand that in a sense the trans part is a process, it is not what defines my wife or any transgender person, she is a female, no two ways about it.

[steviex00]

Listen, dating TS girls is like dating any girl. Relax, be yourself, and try to be more concerned about what's between our ears than what's between our legs.

How do you expect us poor guys to know you have something between your ears when we can only think with what's between our legs?
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[josehip]

I met my wife on-line, actually in some ways I still feel that on-line is not the best way to date, but be that as it may.

I did not set out looking for a transgender female, honestly while the porn can be interesting it was the fartherest thing from my mind in real life.

After a few dates, I met a wonderful woman and really hit it off, lots in common to talk about, just a really fun date, (a first for me a date being fun), things just felt right.

When I asked for a second date, she then told me that she was transgender and she needed to be sure that I was okay with it before she would agree to see me again. Honestly, I was a bit taken a back as I was not expecting that.

At first I wanted to say that I needed some time to think about it, but then I thought better of that, it was an amazing date with a woman, I did not know going in that she was transgender and that would not have changed our conversation, we have similar interests, etc., none of that changes simply because one is transgender.

Since then we have been together three years now, we are married and life is good, she is an amazing person and it took living with my Wife to understand that in a sense the trans part is a process, it is not what defines my wife or any transgender person, she is a female, no two ways about it.

I don't know you, But I am very happy for you. I wish I could find that kind of happiness.

[giovanni_hotel]

If you aren't a chaser, don't bother with what some TS chicks will call you.

Each transwoman is different, just do YOU.

As long as you don't treat a transchick as someone to be hidden or ashamed about, odds are things will work out in your favor, if it's to be.

[Tapatio]

When I asked for a second date, she then told me that she was transgender

You didn't know? Really, you didn't know?

You spent an entire date with her and didn't pick up on anything?

[Tapatio]

Hi all im interested in having a long term relationship with a ts girl. However, the only effective way of doing seems to be through online dating...

To be clear, you just want to meet someone online, not have a long term, internet-based relationship? Because the latter is definitely creepy, "I shot him because he hit on my imaginary girlfriend" type stuff.

[giadamn]

Everybody is a "chaser". You go after what you like and want. You don't call straight men women chasers, do you?

[LongTom101]

Just be like all the "cool people" on here who are "different", "sensitive" and "caring", who didnt join hungangels to get turned on by hot looking TSs with big beautiful dicks, they all joined because they're only interested in their minds, not what they look like or how much they're packing. You can tell this by looking at most of the threads which are all discussions about "personality" and don't have titles like "biggest TS dicks in the world to get bottomed by" or "hot TSs who can deepthroat 10"", or "Best TS face drenching facials after 5 man gangbang scenes".

What a bunch of bullshit, especially the smug, fake jerks making fun of you

Basically, like the "cool people" on here, pretend to have no interest in their dicks and pretend you're not that interested in fucking them or getting fucked.

That's what makes you "cool" and not a dreaded "chaser".

If everyone on here was honest with themselves and not a pretentious ass thinking that they're "special" and "different" they'd admit that they're all really just "chasers" at the end of the day.

[Aticus100]

You didn't know? Really, you didn't know?

You spent an entire date with her and didn't pick up on anything?

Not uncommon. I had two dates with my OH without having a clue.
Admittedly, now I can tell as I am aware of the signs but we will be out in town tonight with friends who will get hit on by straight guys with no clue.
It’s not uncommon at all