How to date TS Girls online without being viewed as a "chaser"

[livepersona]

Online is a bit difficult I think because TS girls get bombarded with daily requests. You really need to stand out from the crowd. In-person is preferred if possible. I would say to have profile photos of you doing things you enjoy in life, surfing, swimming, biking, cooking, whatever it is you like to do. Basically you being happy in life to show them you're into more to life than chasing women at the bars. Also, have a good descriptive profile of yourself to show your personality.

Then if you get responses keep them casual and low-key. I wouldn't bring up sex at all until after you've met and had some chemistry.

[formil]

Online is a bit difficult I think because TS girls get bombarded with daily requests. You really need to stand out from the crowd. In-person is preferred if possible. I would say to have profile photos of you doing things you enjoy in life, surfing, swimming, biking, cooking, whatever it is you like to do. Basically you being happy in life to show them you're into more to life than chasing women at the bars. Also, have a good descriptive profile of yourself to show your personality.

Then if you get responses keep them casual and low-key. I wouldn't bring up sex at all until after you've met and had some chemistry.

I don't see how in person would be possible though that's why i thought online would be the best way. However, regarding the sex bit i would never mention sex in any relationship until i have gotten to know the person and we really get along.

[livepersona]

why, where do you live? And how to you eventually expect to meet them?

[formil]

why, where do you live? And how to you eventually expect to meet them?

Its not about where i live i live in London so technically it shouldn't be an issue. The issue is where to meet a ts girl because the only obvious places are more than likely going to be filled with working girls which I'm not interested in and also these places are basically going to be where the chasers hang around i would presume and i don't want to be associated with them. I initially hoped to communicate online letting the girl get to know me allowing me to show that I'm genuinely interested in her before meeting for a first date and seeing how things progress.

[KelliBlueEyes]

See this is interesting because for me i would never have put my preferred role on my profile as again i would have presumed it would make a woman's alarm bells ring and that immediately they would view me as a chaser (obviously if the girl asked me i would tell her up front). I would have waited to tell the girl when things got more serious maybe that was a misjudgment? This was the sort of stuff I was interested in and I understand you posting the more obvious stuff earlier on in the thread because there are quite a few uneducated or ignorant guys out there who should benefit from reading that. I do understand how annoying that is as it objectifies you and undermines your whole transition.

Well if you're bottom or verse girls want to know that up front because while some girls are top or verse many are bottom only in their personal dating life. There are girls who don't want you touching them there at all, and there are others that will let you touch or suck them even if they won't penetrate a guy. Personally, on a dating site if a guy is bottom or verse I don't date him, and if the girl you're interested in feels that way you're better off knowing up front.

Generally its the bottom guys who get called "chasers" not so much the total top guys.

In fact, bottom and verse guys get a pretty hard time on some dating sites, especially from the extremely dysphoric girls who don't want anyone touching their junk. They get some pretty rude responses, and get called more than "chasers" pretty frequently.

But, there are verse and total top girls out there, i can think of a few I know. So if that's your thing you just have to look harder for it. Some girls say bottom guys are more reliable, and that's why they'll date bottoms even if they don't prefer to be on top.

Let's face it, if you read the reviews on here you'll see, most trans escorts claim in their ads to be fully functional and top or verse (I don't top), few girls on hormones can perform reliably. Many cannot get or stay hard.

[smalltownguy]

Well if you're bottom or verse girls want to know that up front because while some girls are top or verse many are bottom only in their personal dating life. There are girls who don't want you touching them there at all, and there are others that will let you touch or suck them even if they won't penetrate a guy. Personally, on a dating site if a guy is bottom or verse I don't date him, and if the girl you're interested in feels that way you're better off knowing up front.

Generally its the bottom guys who get called "chasers" not so much the total top guys.

In fact, bottom and verse guys get a pretty hard time on some dating sites, especially from the extremely dysphoric girls who don't want anyone touching their junk. They get some pretty rude responses, and get called more than "chasers" pretty frequently.

But, there are verse and total top girls out there, i can think of a few I know. So if that's your thing you just have to look harder for it. Some girls say bottom guys are more reliable, and that's why they'll date bottoms even if they don't prefer to be on top.

Let's face it, if you read the reviews on here you'll see, most trans escorts claim in their ads to be fully functional and top or verse (I don't top), few girls on hormones can perform reliably. Many cannot get or stay hard.

I don't know why bottom guys get to be called chasers most of the time ?

[MrFanti]

BEST response in this thread!
And as a top male myself, I can personally relate to your comments about some of the dysphoric women not wanting to be touched at all - as they tell me, they want the "full experience" of being a woman to the extent that they ONLY want to experience orgasm through penetration...

Well if you're bottom or verse girls want to know that up front because while some girls are top or verse many are bottom only in their personal dating life. There are girls who don't want you touching them there at all, and there are others that will let you touch or suck them even if they won't penetrate a guy. Personally, on a dating site if a guy is bottom or verse I don't date him, and if the girl you're interested in feels that way you're better off knowing up front.

Generally its the bottom guys who get called "chasers" not so much the total top guys.

In fact, bottom and verse guys get a pretty hard time on some dating sites, especially from the extremely dysphoric girls who don't want anyone touching their junk. They get some pretty rude responses, and get called more than "chasers" pretty frequently.

But, there are verse and total top girls out there, i can think of a few I know. So if that's your thing you just have to look harder for it. Some girls say bottom guys are more reliable, and that's why they'll date bottoms even if they don't prefer to be on top.

Let's face it, if you read the reviews on here you'll see, most trans escorts claim in their ads to be fully functional and top or verse (I don't top), few girls on hormones can perform reliably. Many cannot get or stay hard.