How to date TS Girls online without being viewed as a "chaser"

[Laphroaig]

don't display an avatar that depicts a butt ass naked trans person as a sex object in an obviously sexually suggestive and submissive pose, this would clearly indicate that you're a chaser

Oh wait.....what ???!

The hypocrisy is strong within Holzz, plus he's been called out for lying and being a twat on here many times before. Even spent time in the sin bin on a few occasions for it...

[holzz]

don't display an avatar that depicts a butt ass naked trans person as a sex object in an obviously sexually suggestive and submissive pose, this would clearly indicate that you're a chaser

Oh wait.....what ???!

cos this is a porn-oriented site. are you saying that seeing porn alone is being a chaser?

[Paladin]

Yes, but as I didn’t think to ask “oh and by the way, you are female aren’t you?” The conversation didn’t give it away. She didn’t mention it at that juncture. I have no issue with that as she did mention it before anything became particularly physical and by that point I was hooked enough to just go with the flow.

Unless your referring to her voice in which case, no, couldn’t tell. (And I’m by no means naive or inexperienced) but she is unusually feminine.

I meant the latter. Its a nearly 100% revealer.

[Aticus100]

I meant the latter. Its a nearly 100% revealer.

Ok. Well no-one tends to pick up on it with my OH and some of our friends are the same. They are all South East Asian so this may have some bearing.

I’m used to people having no idea unless there is a reason for us to tell them.

[LongTom101]

cos this is a porn-oriented site. are you saying that seeing porn alone is being a chaser?

No I'm not saying that. I couldnt give a fuck who is or isnt a so called 'chaser' and that includes myself.

What I am saying is that you're a hypocrite and full of shit, exactly the type of person my posts alluded to, and you're so full of misplaced self righteousness that you could get gang raped by hilarious irony and all his cousins and wouldnt even notice.

[LongTom101]

The hypocrisy is strong within Holzz, plus he's been called out for lying and being a twat on here many times before. Even spent time in the sin bin on a few occasions for it...

Doesn't surprise me in the least.
Obviously a twat.

[KelliBlueEyes]

Nope. ABSOLUTE truth. It's sad and pathetic, but still very true. I agree things are slowly changing yes...but for every ts actor or broadcaster there are 75 ts girls earning there living off (prostitution, porn, drugs, etc) off "tranny chasers" lol. You hate the dreaded chaser, but you'll still take his money!!!

I love chasers, in moderation of course

[KelliBlueEyes]

Why on earth would you bother to even mentioning this...or even better, how on earth would you bring it up in conversation?
It as absolutely nothing to do with who on inside (her likes/dislikes, perspectives on things in life, etc..) that she is.....

You should read Kelli's responses in this thread again....

Oh Dear but you would not believe how often that happens to me with someone I've met FOR THE FIRST TIME in public. Him,"oh, so you're [trans/a shemale/etc], right?" Me,"yes, where's this going?" Him,"Well I have watched alot of [shemale] porn, and I've always wanted to date a [shemale]" Me,"keep looking, maybe you'll find someone."

Can you imagine how unbelievably annoying that is?

Look, I get it. I work as an escort and I don't sweat clients on terminology, or etiquette. I love my married and "discreet" Daddies. I enjoy having a good time with them, and I appreciate them.

But when it comes to my normal dating life (and I have been some guys first trans woman date) I expect to be treated just like any other woman. Every woman knows a man shows interest in her because on whatever level he's interested in getting into her pants, but we expect a bit more connection than that.

"Um, you still have your thing, right?" when sitting down together in a movie theater is unacceptable. I can cite other examples, but I'd prefer to forget them.

Online dating works for me, at least more often than whatever alternative, because you can say in your profile if you're pre/post/non op, top/bottom, etc, and guys can list their preferred role too. Personally, I don't date bottom or verse guys, but I have nothing against them, they'll find someone else that fits with them.

I know the OP was asking how to create an online dating profile, ok, post a face/body pic with a shirt on. If there is an option for you to select top/bottom/verse tell the truth. In communication with anyone you meet through the site in whichever venue do not mention sex, sex organs, and GOD FORBID do not send a photo of your junk, at least not until SHE brings it up first, and/or she asks you too.

[formil]

Oh Dear but you would not believe how often that happens to me with someone I've met FOR THE FIRST TIME in public. Him,"oh, so you're [trans/a shemale/etc], right?" Me,"yes, where's this going?" Him,"Well I have watched alot of [shemale] porn, and I've always wanted to date a [shemale]" Me,"keep looking, maybe you'll find someone."

Can you imagine how unbelievably annoying that is?

Look, I get it. I work as an escort and I don't sweat clients on terminology, or etiquette. I love my married and "discreet" Daddies. I enjoy having a good time with them, and I appreciate them.

But when it comes to my normal dating life (and I have been some guys first trans woman date) I expect to be treated just like any other woman. Every woman knows a man shows interest in her because on whatever level he's interested in getting into her pants, but we expect a bit more connection than that.

"Um, you still have your thing, right?" when sitting down together in a movie theater is unacceptable. I can cite other examples, but I'd prefer to forget them.

Online dating works for me, at least more often than whatever alternative, because you can say in your profile if you're pre/post/non op, top/bottom, etc, and guys can list their preferred role too. Personally, I don't date bottom or verse guys, but I have nothing against them, they'll find someone else that fits with them.

I know the OP was asking how to create an online dating profile, ok, post a face/body pic with a shirt on. If there is an option for you to select top/bottom/verse tell the truth. In communication with anyone you meet through the site in whichever venue do not mention sex, sex organs, and GOD FORBID do not send a photo of your junk, at least not until SHE brings it up first, and/or she asks you too.

See this is interesting because for me i would never have put my preferred role on my profile as again i would have presumed it would make a woman's alarm bells ring and that immediately they would view me as a chaser (obviously if the girl asked me i would tell her up front). I would have waited to tell the girl when things got more serious maybe that was a misjudgment? This was the sort of stuff I was interested in and I understand you posting the more obvious stuff earlier on in the thread because there are quite a few uneducated or ignorant guys out there who should benefit from reading that. I do understand how annoying that is as it objectifies you and undermines your whole transition.

[Tapatio]

I meant the latter. Its a nearly 100% revealer.

Elbows, sir. Elbows.

Though I guess there's always surgery...