How to date TS Girls online without being viewed as a "chaser"

[Aticus100]

Just be like all the "cool people" on here who are "different", "sensitive" and "caring", who didnt join hungangels to get turned on by hot looking TSs with big beautiful dicks, they all joined because they're only interested in their minds, not what they look like or how much they're packing. You can tell this by looking at most of the threads which are all discussions about "personality" and don't have titles like "biggest TS dicks in the world to get bottomed by" or "hot TSs who can deepthroat 10"", or "Best TS face drenching facials after 5 man gangbang scenes".

What a bunch of bullshit, especially the smug, fake jerks making fun of you

Basically, like the "cool people" on here, pretend to have no interest in their dicks and pretend you're not that interested in fucking them or getting fucked.

That's what makes you "cool" and not a dreaded "chaser".

If everyone on here was honest with themselves and not a pretentious ass thinking that they're "special" and "different" they'd admit that they're all really just "chasers" at the end of the day.

There is of course the possibility that this forum has both people genuinely interested in trans people for who they and those obsessed purely with the sexual aspect. And those somewhere in between.
You sound a little like you may be tarring everyone not only with the same brush but with your own brush.
Myself, I’m not here for the porn or the big dicks but for the forum.

[LongTom101]

There is of course the possibility that this forum has both people genuinely interested in trans people for who they and those obsessed purely with the sexual aspect. And those somewhere in between.
You sound a little like you may be tarring everyone not only with the same brush but with your own brush.
Myself, I’m not here for the porn or the big dicks but for the forum.

Of course you are

[Aticus100]

Of course you are

I have no way of knowing the reason for your cynicism but I suspect it is born of your own experience. Maybe it’s not the same experience I have had. You could consider that before deciding everyone else is only on this site or interested in trans people for the porn and the big dicks.
My OH is trans as are most of our circle of friends. I don’t need to log into a forum to look at girls with dicks.

[kmersh]

You didn't know? Really, you didn't know?

You spent an entire date with her and didn't pick up on anything?

Funny you asked that, I have asked myself how that was possible and the only answer I can provide is that I was just having a great time and honestly was not looking that hard.

Three years on and there are some small signs, but that is three year down the road and I am looking at her every single day.

Honestly, from what I have learned there are tons of transgender folks out there who just blend in with society and unless one looked hard they would never notice, which is how most Transgender folks that I have talked with prefer it.

Prior to meeting my Wife I really only knew one other transgender person and that was a long long time ago, when I was a different person. My exposure to Transgender folks was Porn and it gave me an impression that was not exactly accurate. I give transgender folks in Porn credit, they are putting themselves out there as Transgender, something my wife would never and could never do, not that I blame her, life is tough enough without having to deal with discrimination to boot.

I also think that Porn actors and actresses are probably a bit if not a lot jaded, they are being paid to be looked at, essentially sex is their profession and see customers in one light, wanting sex, at least it seems that way from Porn actresses here, though I also could be entirely wrong too.

In part that is accurate, it is true you post on a bulletin board about Porn because you are interested in the topic, but that does not mean that you cannot have other sides that make up you as a person.

You can like transgender porn and even post about it, but it does not necessarily mean that in real life it is of the same interest level, at least in my case it isn't.

To me it is the same at strip clubs I know going in that the dancers are doing a job, in fact some may hate the job that they are doing and I have zero illusions that any of them would ever want to know me outside of the club.

They are employees, I am the customer and there is at least in my mind an implicit boundary that should not be crossed. Though, there are men who think that enough tips might entice one of the dancers to become their girlfriend, no matter how improbale it might be, fantasy becomes reality and that is where the issue sits imho.

[LongTom101]

I have no way of knowing the reason for your cynicism but I suspect it is born of your own experience. Maybe it’s not the same experience I have had. You could consider that before deciding everyone else is only on this site or interested in trans people for the porn and the big dicks.
My OH is trans as are most of our circle of friends. I don’t need to log into a forum to look at girls with dicks.

I really don't have a problem with you at all and my posts isn't particularly aimed at you, my real problem is with the often found on here name calling and finger pointing from hypocrites and pompous asses who've deluded themselves into believing that they for some reason occupy a 'higher moral ground' than everyone else, this being a typical example, "You're a 'chaser', I'm not, I'm 'special' and 'different', you're just like everybody else, unlike me."

While in reality, the pompous finger pointers shouting "chaser!" at every opportunity are probably more of a 'chaser' than anyone else. They just want to look good in front of any sexy trans people on here who, in their deluded belief system, might fuck them, impressed by their posts that clearly indicate their 'higher morality'.

They're just bullshit artists.

Most people are 'chasers', whether theyre chasing GGs, guys or trans people, whether they're straight, cis, bi, gay, whatever and whether theyre chasing sex, love or a combination of both. Just admit it. (not you, Aticus, the high n mighty finger pointers)

What I really want to say is to the op, 'Formil', so what, who gives a fuck what some idiot might call you, if they label you a 'chaser' fuck them, theyre not worth your time. Meet someone less triggered and less eager to stick a stupid label on you.

[MrFanti]

how about mentioning that you're a member of hungangels? do you think that would help or hurt your chances?

Why on earth would you bother to even mentioning this...or even better, how on earth would you bring it up in conversation?
It as absolutely nothing to do with who on inside (her likes/dislikes, perspectives on things in life, etc..) that she is.....

You should read Kelli's responses in this thread again....

[Aticus100]

I really don't have a problem with you at all and my posts isn't particularly aimed at you, my real problem is with the often found on here name calling and finger pointing from hypocrites and pompous asses who've deluded themselves into believing that they for some reason occupy a 'higher moral ground' than everyone else, this being a typical example, "You're a 'chaser', I'm not, I'm 'special' and 'different', you're just like everybody else, unlike me."

While in reality, the pompous finger pointers shouting "chaser!" at every opportunity are probably more of a 'chaser' than anyone else. They just want to look good in front of any sexy trans people on here who, in their deluded belief system, might fuck them, impressed by their posts that clearly indicate their 'higher morality'.

They're just bullshit artists.

Most people are 'chasers', whether theyre chasing GGs, guys or trans people, whether they're straight, cis, bi, gay, whatever and whether theyre chasing sex, love or a combination of both. Just admit it. (not you, Aticus, the high n mighty finger pointers)

What I really want to say is to the op, 'Formil', so what, who gives a fuck what some idiot might call you, if they label you a 'chaser' fuck them, theyre not worth your time. Meet someone less triggered and less eager to stick a stupid label on you.

Very well explained LongTom (not that owed me an explanation) but in this context your thoughts take on a very different perspective.

My apologies for the accusation of cynicism.

[formil]

To be clear, you just want to meet someone online, not have a long term, internet-based relationship? Because the latter is definitely creepy, "I shot him because he hit on my imaginary girlfriend" type stuff.

no i want a long term relationship but i meant initially meeting the girl through an online site and then plan a date. I don't want to mention any sites in case it's against the rules.

[formil]

They are women you wouldn't know they were trans unless it was extremely early in their transition process and even if that was the case you should still treat them as women.

[formil]

The thing is i am interested in a long term relationship if i wasn't interested in the persons personality or interests i wouldn't date them be that a cis woman or a trans woman.