How to date TS Girls online without being viewed as a "chaser"

[formil]

i haven't objectified them ask any trans woman whos used online dating and they will tell you that they get constantly harassed by chasers. Furthermore, i have already stated i would never date a woman if i didn't love who they were or if there was no chemistry between us.

[big_sexy_55]

the best way to go around this, is to state clearly in your profile that you're not a chaser. eg: i'm not a chaser.

you can also say this when you meet: "hello darling. btw: i'm not a chaser. so, wanna have dinner?" this works really well with ts girls because it lets them know you're not a chaser. also trying telling yourself your not a chaser. that helps too.

I always laugh when I hear the term "tranny chaser" as if this term actually exists in the real world. And is somehow a negative. I went to Starbucks today...I just can't help myself, I'm a "coffee chaser" and that T Bone last night...yummy..."steak chaser" and that cute secretary at work..."sexy work girl chaser" lmao.

Sadly It seems to me, this term is coined by bitter ts girls unable to cope with the BAD life decisions THEY'VE made (prostitution, porn, drugs, horrible plastic surgery, etc) and need to point the finger/transfer the blame. Hence the term "tranny chaser" was born. Most of the tranny girls using this term...also have their rent paid by said "chasers" lol. But I digress...its always the "tranny chasers" fault.

[Paladin]

So have you never met a Trans person who was convincing?

Have I met VERY pretty tgirls - yes; been fooled - No.

[Ben in LA]

Sadly It seems to me, this term is coined by bitter ts girls unable to cope with the BAD life decisions THEY'VE made (prostitution, porn, drugs, horrible plastic surgery, etc) and need to point the finger/transfer the blame. Hence the term "tranny chaser" was born. Most of the tranny girls using this term...also have their rent paid by said "chasers" lol. But I digress...its always the "tranny chasers" fault.

Nailed it and this needs to be quoted as often as possible.

[Ben in LA]

Nailed it and this needs to be quoted as often as possible.

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[Aticus100]

Have I met VERY pretty tgirls - yes; been fooled - No.

I wonder if the way in which you consider not recognising a trans person as such as being “Fooled” by them your radar is always switched on.

I had no clue with my partner and that’s completely our general experience hence my surprise that some people disbelieve those who say they didn’t know.

[SanDiegoPervySage]

I didn't know this was sub-site at first as i found it by searching Transgender Forum or something similar.

Without wishing to sound condescending, I do feel sorry for those that cant see past the porn aspect. Of course, if thats all you want from it, knock yourself out (pun intended) but to then insist that your own reasons for being into trans folk are the only valid reasons that exist and that all who disagree are kidding themselves, frankly, a bit sad.

So the word "hung" as well as the animated banners and links to porn/escort sites on the side didn't give anything away?

[Aticus100]

So the word "hung" as well as the animated banners and links to porn/escort sites on the side didn't give anything away?

Clearly it did give it away which I said I didn't know it was a sub site at first.

[Aticus100]

So the word "hung" as well as the animated banners and links to porn/escort sites on the side didn't give anything away?

Upon reflection I actually think I first came to this after searching the name of an escort who has been reviewed here.

[holzz]

you approach them as WOMEN, since they are WOMEN.

don't mention porn.

don't ask them to fuck you, or you fuck them, on first messaging.

don't use words like tranny or shemale.

don't mention you see TS porn, or have fucked escorts.

just be natural, like you would be with a cis woman.