Convinced to be topped

[flabbybody]

I fantasized about being topped for years before actually going through with it. The first bj I got with a finger up my ass sealed my fate. I'd say it's extremely rare when someone is spontaneously "convinced"
Of course some chasers might feel more comfortable deluding themselves into thinking the decision to go bottom was not their's. But please let's not let this degenerate into yet another 'am I gay' thing.

[djprofessor]

Have you ever been with her?

[furbygr]

Just wondering how many guys lost their virginity after being convinced to be Topped when you made it known to the provider that you did not want to be Topped.
i have read in reviews where a guy looses his cherry when he had only plans for some fun without getting fucked.

Yeah accidents can happen

[Lorca81]

As receiving anal usually requires a certain amount of advance preparation, a last minute change of mind is surely likely to be a messy experience at best?...

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You're right that a certain amount of preparation is required, though the amount required is pretty minimal. The whole douching is necessary view isn't accurate. Taking a shower, either immediately prior or a few hours before, is totally sufficient, so long as someone hasn't had a giant, heavy meal in the last couple of hours. The latter issue, though, is why many people choose to douche before bottoming, and definitely why no experienced top --especially a provider-- wants to fuck an unprepared bottom

Just wondering how many guys lost their virginity after being convinced to be Topped when you made it known to the provider that you did not want to be Topped.
i have read in reviews where a guy looses his cherry when he had only plans for some fun without getting fucked.
I hope this tread makes for some good conversation.

I've no experience with providers, but my first time bottoming was not pre-planned. It was the result of seduction and arousal, though, rather than convincing or cohesion. Basically, an ex-GF started rubbing her cock between my cheeks while we were fooling around to test the waters, then asked if I like that and if she could put it inside. (Consent is sexy.) But see above why the whole "top convinced to bottom" fantasy is a porn-ism, not something that normally happens IRL.

[Murmdrum]

I have only been topped once and it was not planned at all. it was during an escort session years ago with a famous and well endowed TS woman...she took charge and didn't believe me when I said it was my first time haha which it absolutely was. I went with it. It wasn't that enjoyable tho to be honest. I found out its not my thing. but I can say I tried it.

[giovanni_hotel]

You're right that a certain amount of preparation is required, though the amount required is pretty minimal. The whole douching is necessary view isn't accurate. Taking a shower, either immediately prior or a few hours before, is totally sufficient, so long as someone hasn't had a giant, heavy meal in the last couple of hours. The latter issue, though, is why many people choose to douche before bottoming, and definitely why no experienced top --especially a provider-- wants to fuck an unprepared bottom



I've no experience with providers, but my first time bottoming was not pre-planned. It was the result of seduction and arousal, though, rather than convincing or cohesion. Basically, an ex-GF started rubbing her cock between my cheeks while we were fooling around to test the waters, then asked if I like that and if she could put it inside. (Consent is sexy.) But see above why the whole "top convinced to bottom" fantasy is a porn-ism, not something that normally happens IRL.

Douche??
You need an enema and a strong laxative before bottoming, then take imodium so you don't leak.

At least that's what I've heard.

[Lorca81]

Douche??
You need an enema and a strong laxative before bottoming, then take imodium so you don't leak.

At least that's what I've heard.

/s. Kids—don’t try this at home. He’s what they call a professional. /s.

[choconasty]

First time I was topped. I was a teen, watching porn with my stepbrother. We both had our dicks out, we normally watched porn and jacked off in the same room. He asked if I wanted to blow him (I had already blown a few guys before) so I said ok. It became a regular thing then one day he just kinda grabbed me by the waist and turned me over, ate my ass for a little bit, then slid inside of me. He had a nice sized dick too, it hurt like hell for the first few minutes but then I begged him to fuck me harder. He came inside of me and we continued to fool around into our early 20s. I normally top now but I'm quite the switch for the right cock lol.

[Murmdrum]

[Fitzcarraldo]

First time I was topped. I was a teen, watching porn with my stepbrother. We both had our dicks out, we normally watched porn and jacked off in the same room. He asked if I wanted to blow him (I had already blown a few guys before) so I said ok. It became a regular thing then one day he just kinda grabbed me by the waist and turned me over, ate my ass for a little bit, then slid inside of me. He had a nice sized dick too, it hurt like hell for the first few minutes but then I begged him to fuck me harder. He came inside of me and we continued to fool around into our early 20s. I normally top now but I'm quite the switch for the right cock lol.