Bad experience - never put a TS escort in phone contacts

[skirtrustler]

You actually have it reversed

You can leak information in both directions. Ask why so many 'free' apps demand access to your contacts , and what you agree to in the T&C that you read. I had my own 'linked-in' near miss a few years back.

So your advice should actually be "Never call any escort (TS or otherwise) with your personal phone number". Also applies to your drug dealer, bookie or any other dodgy characters you might be associated with.

Exactly, the more you have to lose the more precautions you should take. A dedicated 'fun phone' is a basic. I know escorts who have had 'we will out you' letters similar to the Ashley maddison ones, and others who were caught out by apps that share phone books: they did not use the app but the customer and their friend did, and when they rang the friend it came up 'Mistress fubar' is calling.

FYI: Ashley Maddison letter example: https://www.grahamcluley.com/ashley-...ckmail-letter/

[Nigelt822]

It's not a case of being in the closet or not. I expect I'm similar to a lot of people - visiting a TS is a fantasy to be fulfilled every now and again, it's not a reality - couldn't really image being fucked by 9 inches every night ! I'm not in a serious relationship and not ashamed of what I'm doing but at same time not something I'm looking to broadcast. I can explain it to friends as something I was looking to try and they would understand, so for me the Facebook thing was a shock but not so bad I would give in to blackmail.
More did it to make others aware in case they had worse consequences.
From the posts seems like many are already clued up and more cautious, but sure there's a few that aren't.

[Nigelt822]

Nikki, I'm very tempted to give you the name but as the hassle has gone away for now I wouldnt want her to see this and for it to start again !
She has actually got mostly good reviews on here, but maybe once you get on wrong side she becomes crazy !

[SanDiegoPervySage]

Why are you in the Closet?

That shouldn't matter on this situation. She's an escort, not a girlfriend or fuck buddy. The fact that she's an escort can cause problems, TS or GG. His ex wife or place of employment have no reason to know these things.

[tacocorpv2]

Set the facebook profile to private (so only friends can see your info, pictures and friends list)
As for whatsapp, don't use your last name there.

This should be mostly enough.
If I were seeing escorts I would also use the second phone for that as others mentioned. Best of luck in the future.

[Ts RedVeX]

Damn it. I need a burner phone without facebook!! I have escorts in my phonebook xD

[IluvemHung]

Damn dawg, thats fucked up. She was butt hurt!

[dc_guy_75]

Yeah, thats sucks to hear

[njanen]

There are so many free apps that allow free texting and calls, just go to your store and seach, free text, etc...Literally free in Canada/US they work great they even provide a local phone number, etc...but you cant really send photos, its good fot standard SMS and voice calls.

[goodfellla]

Have you ever seen Punch-Drunk Love? http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0272338/?ref_=fn_tt_tt_8

Haha not yet, will try to watch mate