Confused By My Sexuality

[MiaMaffiaFan]

I started off having sex with women. One night in town I got drunk and caved in to a guy. We chatted outside and soon bundled ourselves in a cab back to his. We fooled around and had oral sex without penetration because I was worried about making a 'mess'. We hooked up the following weekend after a week of fucking myself with toys continuously. Since then, the only sex I have had with a woman was during bi threesomes with a couple. It turned out that I didn't know what sex was until I was penetrated. As it stands I have been in a relationship with a man for quite some time. We are both very much in touch with our feminine sides and I consider myself bisexual. I absolutely love sex and it really doesn't matter who its with, though I have a strong preference for men and TV/TS.

[wildvine]

I call myself "sesquisexual".

I like girls and i like t-girls. I'm not attracted to guys, so "bi" doesn't really fit.

"Sesqui-" means one and a half, and "one and a half sexual" sounds about right.

[Rcrxjlb]

Most folks would call you "bisexual".

Small-minded folks would call you "gay".

I think you are just a freaky mofo (like myself)...!

[Ponyboy]

Hi T-S Curious. Nothing wrong with your post, but i wouldnt bother trying to define your sexuality. It may change several times over your life as you learn more about yourself. You may discover things about yourself that you never expected, or then again, what you are now, may be it. Who cares? as long as you enjoy yourself. I think we need to add another sexual category to the list that currently includes straight, bi, curious, gay, LGBT, - the new category is 'still exploring'.

[Casey_Casino]

Watch the video posted in this forum called "This is your brain on shemale porn", it's an interesting watch and may bring you some clarity.

[johnboy1970]

Gaysian71 (forgot link to origainal post) - How can I be a "blatent homosexual" ? Been married nearly 30 years in a loving and happy relationship with a couple of kids! I also like TS, and have since I was about 16. I don't label myself anything and wish others wouldn't either - you are what you are and who gives a damn what sexual preferences you have. Life's too short to worry about it.

[LovinThaTSLadiez]

Ok, to answer to OP, I consider myself bi. First of all, I dont get into labels, I like what I like. But I have no problem being labeled as a bisexual man. I'm attracted to feminity. Females, t-girls, femboys, etc. I like both vagina and cock, but I like cock a lot more. I enjoy sex with t-girls/femboys more because there are more options sexually. I am verse, so this appeals to me. I am not into anyone who is masculine. Not men or women. So even though 99.9% of gay men would not interest me, unless they are feminine and naturally girly looking, I still identify as bisexual.

My advice, don't get caught up in labels, my friend. Enjoy exploring your sexuality, but do it safely. Some people on this board are so worried about being thought of as gay. Who cares? Be comfortable with yourself. I believe a lot of the straight male population in the world would have a serious attraction to these beautiful t-girls and femboys. Embrace it!

[holzz]

i have a pretty simple rule of thumb.

i like trans women because they are women. i admit the cock turns me on, and bigger the better. but then i don't find men hot at all. i don't deem myself bi since i like boobs and curves. if one likes feminity, then it's not gay at all. it would be bi at least if a man liked genetic women, trans women, and men.

[LovinThaTSLadiez]

i have a pretty simple rule of thumb.

i like trans women because they are women. i admit the cock turns me on, and bigger the better. but then i don't find men hot at all. i don't deem myself bi since i like boobs and curves. if one likes feminity, then it's not gay at all. it would be bi at least if a man liked genetic women, trans women, and men.

If you like cock, at least in my humble opinion, you can't be 100% straight. I have no problem with how you identify, so please don't take me the wrong way. We are more or less discussing terminology here. If you saw a beautiful, absolutely feminine individual who still considers himself a male, would you not still be attracted? Like Ivan Rastreppin. Totally hot, but still goes by "he".

Either way, I'm not judging or taking issue with your own personal identification. I apologize if it came off that way.

[T-S-Curious]

Hi all. VERY late reply to my own thread, apologies for that. I have still only had the one TS experience, but am going to change that very soon. Currently trying to find out if Magic Candy has tour plans soon in the South West, as I'm just so amazed and turned on by her beauty. Since I last posted to this thread, I've had a couple more threesomes with generic girls I like spending time with. Seeing the way they interact and enjoy each others bodies has certainly resolved some of my discomforts. Sex is sex, as long as it's consensual and each party respect one another.
Thank you all for your input, it's why I posted originally, and by no means meant to be inflammatory or antagonise anyone. I think I'm at the point where I no longer question my desires, and feel no need to label my sexual wants or needs. However, given the fact that our "society" is still nowhere near as advanced as it's made out to be (by the very media that cause it's hypocrisy and repression!) I will continue to make my lifestyle choice one of covert operation.
It's nice to have a forum to talk about things though, and as said previously, I appreciate the replies and cordiality to my self doubts, that we all know will be asked my many others!