Time wasting

[jacqui_jones]

Hi boys

I would like your honest and brutal opinion.

I am an escort based in merseyside and I pride myself on a all round high class/high quality service. My apartment is smart, clean and tidy and when a client visits me, I offer a drink, shower and a massage.

I have a cisgender female friend who works as an escort also and she is on a site similar to HA and shes informed me that there is a very large articale on that site about "timewasting". Offering a shower, drink and a massage is being classed as timewasting. They have slated a lot of girls on this other site for doing this, I am shocked.

I thought I was doing the right thing, but it appears that you guys just want to get down to business. Is this right or wrong ???

Jacqui xxx

[filghy2]

I think it all depends Jacqui. I have no problem with being offered these things as long as I have the right to say "no thanks". Generally, I would welcome the opportunity to have a shower and a drink. However, if I come straight from my hotel or home and shower beforehand to save time it's a bit frustrating if the escort still insists I have a shower, which sometimes happens. But I'm not so fussed as long as the shower time doesn't come out of the time I've paid for, which may be a concern many clients have.

It also depends on the length of the booking. If it's only 1/2 an hour I'm much less likely to welcome a massage than in a 1 hour booking. Generally, however, I would prefer to have a massage afterward rather than before. The main reason I would book an hour is to have the opportunity to go again, which is harder if the massage is at the start.

[Telvin]

Personally, I don't think a massage is a waste of time. In most cases it leads to the intimacy part much as foreplay does. I also, don't think a shower is a waste of time. I know we all like to get into the "dirty" sex, but sex is more enjoyable when both parties are clean and hygienic. It is better if you grab a shower together. As for drinks, I decline as I don't think alcohol (or drugs) has any place in the session between SP or client. Everyone should be completely sober and consenting.

Now that all being said, when I show up I always put the envelope in plan sight and ask to use the shower. Have a quick 5 minute or so wash (I always shower prior to coming to the session) so the SP can check the envelope without it being awkward. If they offer a drink I will only take water if they have it.

Anyway, it sounds like you are offering a nice service.

By the way, you're gorgeous.

[hippifried]

Wasting who's time? I'm thinking that perhaps the author of said article never wants to see the same client twice.

If it was written by a customer, who's in such a hurry:
Why not pick up a street walker and pull into the nearest alleyway. Done in 5 minutes or less.

[skirtrustler]

It depends on what the client wants, you need to find out early on.

Personally I go for two hours, longer with those I know. This means that I can shower and clean if I have been driving, and often bring a bottle of wine. I like to get to know the person a little and work out what they like, and to me a good meeting is about two adults having a lot of mutual fun doing what they both enjoy doing. Yes, that means less than 100% rock and roll, but it is the whole experience I value. I am lucky that I can work this way.

I have met - and never returned to - one or two girls who have deliberately wasted my time by taking long third party phone calls or messaging their friends.

[skirtrustler]

why not pick up a street walker ... Done in 5 minutes or less.

LOL ?.. once sat in a hotel bar in Glasgow some years ago with some work colleagues watching the wildlife outside and timing them. MTTF (mean time to f**k) was 20 minutes.

[jacqui_jones]

The shower, drink etc in my book isnt counted in time, its not part of the bedtime. So the message is part of the time paid for.

I see a lot of first timers and see the message as a way of helping the nervous newbie relax and get some type connection with me. I enjoy the banter and conversation with clients and it helps me to trust them

[jacqui_jones]

Anyway, it sounds like you are offering a nice service.

By the way, you're gorgeous.

Thank you very much, I try my best x

[jacqui_jones]

Wasting who's time? I'm thinking that perhaps the author of said article never wants to see the same client twice.

If it was written by a customer, who's in such a hurry

Loads of reviews by customers for various girls saying "wasted time, offered me a drink and shower" etc etc

[jacqui_jones]

It depends on what the client wants, you need to find out early on.

Personally I go for two hours, longer with those I know. This means that I can shower and clean if I have been driving, and often bring a bottle of wine. I like to get to know the person a little and work out what they like, and to me a good meeting is about two adults having a lot of mutual fun doing what they both enjoy doing. Yes, that means less than 100% rock and roll, but it is the whole experience I value. I am lucky that I can work this way.

I have met - and never returned to - one or two girls who have deliberately wasted my time by taking long third party phone calls or messaging their friends.

I agree with so much that you are saying.

I am very bouncy when I have a client, I ask them over the phone what they are looking for and when I get extreme or fetish requests I turn them down with an apology. I offer a shower, I offer a drink and I offer a massage. Its not forced.

I have just been very surprised to hear that to some people this is all classed as timewasting. I want to give an all round good experience. Good banter, nice home, good massage, great blow job and good sex, all with no rush.

I love the fact you have given the girls a widebirth if they have been on the phone. I have heard of other girls taking booking from other clients while they have actually having sex with a client.