Whats more damaging to you, Porn or Online Dating?

[SXFX]

honest question and do your best to answer.

From your point of view what was or is more damaging to your level of happiness?
Online dating or Porn?

Ladies, i'm sorry i don't think this applies to you since well i know of two therapist who suggest their female patients who are suffering from depression try online dating to boost their serotonin levels from non stop compliments...no joke....

[sockratees]

neither.

this site is great, it's really the only 'porn' site i'm on due to the forum format, so i get to discuss stuff. i see porn largely as a form of art so it's nice to be able to talk about what's in front of you.

online dating is cool too. i get lots of replies, more than i can manged rn, and get to chat with the types of girls i like, so it's good.

i consider myself 'transoriented' so i'm doing what i can in terms of dating while keeping my expectations realistic.

[SXFX]

the trans online dating thing is working for you....as a guy? wow! i think you are going to get alot of emails from guys asking how you pulled that off! hell even on GG online dating....i got maybe...maybe 1 email a month!
it was causing me some very serious depression issues.

[SanDiegoPervySage]

the trans online dating thing is working for you....as a guy? wow! i think you are going to get alot of emails from guys asking how you pulled that off! hell even on GG online dating....i got maybe...maybe 1 email a month!
it was causing me some very serious depression issues.

Online dating comes down to looks as well as quality pictures. Even the girls looking for something serious.

[lordworm]

When are we gonna acknowledge that men have it really bad?

[SanDiegoPervySage]

When are we gonna acknowledge that men have it really bad?

I think that's universally known. Men have to initiate most of the time and when they do receive messages, the girl is usually unattractive. Combine that with a large number of girls being on dating sites for validation. It's a shallow experience.

Although I will admit girls do have to deal with tons of weird, thirsty dudes.

[dc_guy_75]

When are we gonna acknowledge that men have it really bad?

It sure is terrible being on top of the social ladder, especially if you're white, educated and reasonably attractive.

[nysprod]

honest question and do your best to answer.

From your point of view what was or is more damaging to your level of happiness?
Online dating or Porn?

Ladies, i'm sorry i don't think this applies to you since well i know of two therapist who suggest their female patients who are suffering from depression try online dating to boost their serotonin levels from non stop compliments...no joke....

Sex is just another thing people get involved with...like gardening. Actually, doing any preferred activity will boost serotonin levels.

That's so 60's, the concept of just doing what you like

[sockratees]

the trans online dating thing is working for you....as a guy? wow! i think you are going to get alot of emails from guys asking how you pulled that off! hell even on GG online dating....i got maybe...maybe 1 email a month!
it was causing me some very serious depression issues.

Is it casual sex you're looking for on these sites?

[lordworm]

It sure is terrible being on top of the social ladder, especially if you're white, educated and reasonably attractive.

Here come the misguided socialists.