No, I Don't Have To Tell You I'm Trans Before Dating You

[MrFanti]

What if the man is looking to have a long term relationship with biological children?

[trish]

I think he'll know in time, before his search too long waylaid. (I'm sure you're not suggesting that would be a excuse to beat, knife or murder. Such a man shouldn't have children anyway.) But I agree. I don't think people should be strung along under any pretense. But there's no point in revealing everything there is to know about oneself before there's even a chance that it may become relevant.

[Dudedude12345]

And you think states will protect you?
http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/sho...=Marine+killed
If they found out the hard way, you get hurt or wose and they legally get away with it because of your fetish

[trish]

Another example of blame the victim and not the perpetrator. A girl's desire for a bit of privacy is not a fetish. Once again: I don't think people should be strung along under any pretense. But there's no point in revealing everything there is to know about oneself before there's even a chance that it may become relevant. If I get murdered, it won't be because of my fetish but rather because of some man's sexual hang-up.

[dirtrail]

I honestly wouldn’t care if the girl I wanted to date was a ggirl or trans girl or if she told me. I almost prefer she didn’t tell me up front because it would be a pleasant surprise 😀

[Instrumental]

It’s not lying. Yes, it’d be lying to say that you’re not transgender, if in fact you are. But it’s not lying to pass as a women when indeed you are.

https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Lying_by_omission