No, I Don't Have To Tell You I'm Trans Before Dating You

[retroboy]

Does anyone agree its transphobic to have know if someone is trans before dating them?

https://www.theodysseyonline.com/no-...ore-dating-you

[nysprod]

I think it's legitimate to want to know if someone is trans before dating them. It's safer for the trans girl also, as it weeds out transphobes who may turn violent.

[Torris]

Identity Politics can get you killed. You want to feel empowered that it doesn't matter? Or shouldn't matter? Wrong. It matters.

[SanDiegoPervySage]

Transphobic? Not at all. Do you have to tell someone you're trans? No. But don't get mad when someone isn't with it and they get upset when they find out. There are still physical differences between Trans women and GG women. Not liking men doesn't mean you're homophobic. Not liking trans women doesn't make you transphobic. Not being attracted to a certain race doesn't make you racist. It's somewhat selfish(yet, somewhat understandable) to not tell someone the truth.

As for the ones that get a kick out of tricking guys, I don't agree with a violent response, but aren't looking at them with complete innocence either.

[Ts RedVeX]

If you are dumb enough to date someone you do not know, then don't get upset when it turns out your date is trans.

[legault]

Damn sjws

Of course you should tell them before, not everyone has to like you!

[sockratees]

This is one of the dumbest things I have every heard. This is the equivalent of a guy telling a girl:

"No, I Don't Have To Tell You I'm Married Before Dating You"

[joesocalif]

If I remember correctly assault is illegal. That's is what should be considered.

[Ts RedVeX]

Why would one "date" anyone they don't know? - unless, of course, one wants to fool a girl and get laid for free! - Well, fuck you. My private parts are private, and no, you do not need to know unless I wan't or need you to.

Unless you are openly meeting up for a shag. Only then, do not call it a date.

[Chaos]

Personally,I don't care if you tell me or not....If we don't click it won't matter,if we do,it doesn't matter....