Met a women, she has HIV, would you date a women with?

[TSLoverIB]

Hi alreik
Thanks for your reply, information.
Your right, ive even thought of even the simple things of living with the person to be careful. Like you said things from a toothbrush, to even the bathroom. Well she has stated me she does enjoy being verse as well, that even complicates it even more. If the relationship progresses, is there a safe way to become intimate without the use of condoms? Or is it just too risky to not use them? There is a lot of information out there. From a doctors point of view, what do you think?

[alreik]

Regular life is manageable, as in, it takes conscious effort, not to a paranoid level but healthy care, the odds of a toothbrush injuring both gums and transmitting a disease is close to 1 in a million, but it is there... easily solved by using 2 , a toilet seat is even harder but again careful hygiene should do, a lot of parents live with their HIV +ve kids with very little risk.

The sex part is difficult, especially if you both wanna be verse, the rectum contains a lot of blood vessels that increase absorption of the virus, even more than a mouth or a vagina, which is why it's more risky for you. Yes Prep helps but on a regular sexlife you increase the risk. Oh and codoms are pretty much a must for precaution, theoretically it's possible but no doctor would "professionally" tell you that, and you don't want to perform tests everytime you have sex and lead a normal life with a Damocles sword hanging over both of you.

Don't let it stress you too much, living is very much possible, talk to her doctor first and see how the physical aspects work out.

[TSLoverIB]

Thanks alreik
Thank you for all the information, being honest with the assistance.

[alreik]

You're welcome, take care

[fred41]

ask a doctor that's actually familiar to your situation...
I suggest someone involved in the LGBT community. With all due respect, a lot of "regular" doctors don't help the situation or give realistic answers. JMHO

[diddyboponTOP]

I fucked a TS that use to be very well known on these boards about 17 years ago. She was super hot and Healthy looking but there were always rumors about her having HIV, I thought it was just just other T girls and fellas jelly cause I was tapping that for free, this was in the Aol days. Good looking Italian cats like I was then got lots of free ass, I use to date the girls too though not just Feb lots of times
Anyway I always used a rubber due to the rumors and the fact that she always insisted as well, anyway today she still posts on BP and I can tell she has full blown Aids The rumors were very true now she admits it to me as well...I'm fine never went raw etc it's amazing that she gets clients, I see the illness In the pics, sure she has the huge triple D fits and the Huge Latina Sill pumped ass and Hooker 1990s lips the rest is a bone and very drawn and gaunt looking.

[TSLoverIB]

Yeh fred, i figure if it goes that far, like alreik mentioned, i will go to her doctor with her, ask some questions.
Really diddy? Thats unfortunate, shes still escorting? I have heard rumors of a lot of tgirls being positive.
I just have never slept with someone if i didnt feel something for them. Never been with a escort, never had a one night stand.
Thanks for all your replies, really appreciate it.

[diddyboponTOP]

Yeh fred, i figure if it goes that far, like alreik mentioned, i will go to her doctor with her, ask some questions.
Really diddy? Thats unfortunate, shes still escorting? I have heard rumors of a lot of tgirls being positive.
I just have never slept with someone if i didnt feel something for them. Never been with a escort, never had a one night stand.
Thanks for all your replies, really appreciate it.

YEP, Right in Conn now, yes they still work, the last generation of Girls were what I call the Thunder Cat group, very cat like features, Huhe asses and Tits Jessica Rabits, no one would hire them for regular jobs and they have to survive, for many of them escorting is the only option, sick or not...At least she " always" makes everyone rubber up

[Vladimir Putin]

I would be good friends with an HIV positive person, but I would not want to have a relationship with them.

[LovinThaTSLadiez]

I wouldn't. If I had HIV, I would totally understand if no one without HIV wanted to be in a relationship with me.