Re: Jane Marie going post op
Quote:
Originally Posted by
robertlouis
Including people like Maddy who's had SRS? Yes, we are "mostly" all here because it's a porn site, but please show just a little sensitivity towards those who aren't necessarily her primarily for that, the girls especially.
I understand your point, but really I've seen plenty of people in this forum, call guys cock hounds, and what I just read regarding if cock is so important then put on a wig and jerk off. Is that a polite thing to say you think? That's pretty rude if you ask me. You might as well just call someone a faggot then. I don't think many transsexuals fully know the reason why certain men are into them. Hell I don't even know myself fully. I'm not into males, but I'm into pre-op transsexuals. So long as they look female. Very confusing but what the hell, it is what it is....But I would take offense if someone called me a cock hound.
Re: Jane Marie going post op
Quote:
Originally Posted by
robertlouis
The problem is that they don't get that support. Most of the comments are negative, some even abusive.
That does happen, and it's very sad to see. However, in re-reading cowbell's original comment
Quote:
Originally Posted by
more cowbell
If that's what she wants, then by all means. But personally, I would hate to see her do it. She is the quintessential epitome of PERFECTION. I'm not knockin' here decision if that's what she wants. It's just my two cents. But I still remember when I first came across her online. I literally almost shit my pants with how flawless every square inch of her body was.
I'm not exactly certain his post fell into that category...and although he apparently was not all that happy about it, what he said wasn't really negative or abusive, IMO.
Yours may differ.
Re: Jane Marie going post op
Quote:
Originally Posted by
nybpro
I understand your point, but really I've seen plenty of people in this forum, call guys cock hounds, and what I just read regarding if cock is so important then put on a wig and jerk off. Is that a polite thing to say you think? That's pretty rude if you ask me. You might as well just call someone a faggot then. I don't think many transsexuals fully know the reason why certain men are into them. Hell I don't even know myself fully. I'm not into males, but I'm into pre-op transsexuals. So long as they look female. Very confusing but what the hell, it is what it is....But I would take offense if someone called me a cock hound.
And I take the full blame for that. I DON'T know the reason, I won't pretend I do. As I've said, there's nothing wrong with liking pre-op transsexuals. No, I'm not going to call you a "faggot", because for one, I hate that word, and also because I don't think it's gay either. I think what bothers some of us the most is when people say things like "She used to be so beautiful" or similar comments... which makes you think... does a penis hold that much beauty in their mind? Lol. Anyway, that was my original point.
Re: Jane Marie going post op
Quote:
Originally Posted by
nybpro
I think people fail to realize that this is a porn thread. Not a sensitive help group for shemales that want to be fully females. We are mostly all here because we either want to promote a site we have or we have a fetish for trans girls. Hell, most of you found this site probably through another shemale site. All of a sudden people start talking about SRS surgery and all that jazz and if someone says something negative about it, they get ganged upon as if they are some rotten apple. What happened to free speech? To like and dislike whatever you feel. To say "if you like cock so much, then put on a wig and jerk off" is a very assholeish thing to say as far as I'm concerned. Far worse than someone saying that they like a particular shemale with her cock still attached.
People are way to sensitive when it comes to this SRS talk.
to me its about as dumb as saying shemale but if i have to grit and tolerate dumb shit than you should too homie
Re: Jane Marie going post op
I think most of the transsexual admirers will agree that though happy for Jane Marie that "If True" is going to have SRS and become what she's always wanted to be. That inside, they are disappointed in the decision. To say otherwise would just be a lie....
Re: Jane Marie going post op
Quote:
Originally Posted by
maddygirl
And I take the full blame for that. I DON'T know the reason, I won't pretend I do. As I've said, there's nothing wrong with liking pre-op transsexuals. No, I'm not going to call you a "faggot", because for one, I hate that word, and also because I don't think it's gay either. I think what bothers some of us the most is when people say things like "She used to be so beautiful" or similar comments... which makes you think... does a penis hold that much beauty in their mind? Lol. Anyway, that was my original point.
And I will agree. No, no one should ever say something like that. Her penis isnt what makes her beautiful. Along with many others that have had the surgery. Allot more goes into beauty than just physical. Jane Marie is a remarkably beautiful girl. I don't know her personally but from twitter and other outlets, she's very funny, good sense of humor and has the physical beauty to match. I certainly wish her all the best with whatever road she takes in life....
Re: Jane Marie going post op
Quote:
Originally Posted by
nybpro
I think most of the transsexual admirers will agree that though happy for Jane Marie that "If True" is going to have SRS and become what she's always wanted to be. That inside, they are disappointed in the decision. To say otherwise would just be a lie....
No problem at all with that as it stands.
It's when it falls to the level of insult and abuse as it all too often does that guys like me feel obliged to respond.
Unlike most of the guys here I've watched a dear friend transition over several years of mental agony, given her a shoulder to cry on, talked her back from suicide more than once and held her hand before and after surgery. To read posts that belittle, ignore, or worse, insult and abuse that experience, drives me mad. I hope you can understand that.
There's a huge, incalculable difference between the two-dimensional internet fantasies that most guys here are limited to and the reality for most transsexual women.
Re: Jane Marie going post op
Quote:
Originally Posted by
nybpro
I don't think many transsexuals fully know the reason why certain men are into them. Hell I don't even know myself fully. I'm not into males, but I'm into pre-op transsexuals. So long as they look female. Very confusing but what the hell, it is what it is....But I would take offense if someone called me a cock hound.
Lol...A lot of us are in the same place...best to just go with the flow and enjoy the ride!
Re: Jane Marie going post op
Well I see retirement wasn't agreeing with JM. She's in Austin TX Bp today. From a purely selfish perspective, YES!!! I did meet her one time, and she does seem to be a very sweet person, so I wish her all the best.
Re: Jane Marie going post op
Quote:
Originally Posted by
txjr3
Well I see retirement wasn't agreeing with JM. She's in Austin TX Bp today. From a purely selfish perspective, YES!!! I did meet her one time, and she does seem to be a very sweet person, so I wish her all the best.
So's her BFF Doll...looks like they're on the road again!
http://images2.backpage.com/imager/u...2931/image.jpg http://images1.backpage.com/imager/u...2918/image.jpg http://images2.backpage.com/imager/u...1/IMG_1801.png http://images3.backpage.com/imager/u....jpg-large.jpg