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Originally Posted by dderek123
You're right. And no, them calling me whatever doesn't make me whatever. That is what I was saying in my opening post. This isn't even about me, I was just trying to understand the comment. No one actually called me anything. And I have dealt with bitchy women all my life. It is a trial, but one that can be won if dealt with in the proper manner. :hide-1:
Oh, i see. Fair enough.Quote:
Originally Posted by LovinThaTSLadiez
I agree with you. I find dealing with the emotions that they're expressing and identifying their source to be helpful. It's useless to reason with a bitchy woman especially one that is upset.Quote:
Originally Posted by LovinThaTSLadiez
Hey guys its not cause of her period or hormones that they might call you fag...
We are guys right? So expect us to be a little more intelligent then that :p
If this is it, then those girls don't understand how respect works.Quote:
Originally Posted by russtafa
You need some measure of self respect if you expect others to respect you, and you always reap what you sow...
(if this topic is so tired and boring to a lot of you guys, why are you wasting your time reading and replying to it - if you're reading it you're still interested on some level, and if you're just here to say how tedious this topic is then you need to get yourself a life :) )
Bravo! Well said and I agree on all points.Quote:
Originally Posted by loveboof
I think this question could be solved mathematically.
If 1+3= 4 and 2X3=6, then guys + tgirls = gay. See, that was solved mathematically.
Here's my take, might not be correct but Eh? I gave it a shot.
1-Maybe these guys actually are gay?
2- Tgirls know what pisses guys who like them off so they use the term gay to piss them off. Why do they want to piss them off? Quite a few tgirls would like to live a sort of decent life but quite a few are forced(?) into the sex trade side of life. As for myself, the guys I met in the past were on the evil side of life. They were abusive cause they knew I had very little choice in life, so they took that to their advantage. And some of them were men with means, they had money. If I knew that calling them fags would hurt their precious feelings I would have called them fags and maybe words that are worse. Maybe some tgirls had a rough time of it and they strike out at anyone, even guys who might be nice. Because labeling someone any type of label they don't like is not right and guys gotta understand that it's just words and not to get too upset by words, physical abuse can be much worse than some words.
Also quite a few of these guys wanted me to hide from others, what I mean is, I was OK to be in the bedroom with them but not at a restaurant. I was OK going to a sex bar/club but not for a walk in the park. While yes, they did give me gifts for being with them, I also wanted a companion, someone to hold my hand but for the most part they treated me like a leper,, I should stay in my colony till they came over. So to those types of guys I would gladly insult them by calling them fags,, cause I am a different person than I was awhile back, I don't take shit anymore.
I only write the above for my life experience, I don't speak for all tgirls or for anyone else for that matter.
So for me it would be a personal anger to call someone a nasty name.
I usually don't,, I have never called anyone on this forum fag or gay,, it's just guys from my past i would most certainly call fags, cause they are.
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Originally Posted by loveboof
For some girls self respect is contrary to messing around with guys that like them because of their genitals only, and like yvonne said already, dont treat us like lepers outside of the bedroom...
If you want respect, you have to earn it
Most guys dont even see how disrespectfull they are treating tgirls and then are suddenly shocked we dont treat them right...coz what right do we have to stand up for ourselves right, the world does not respect us, we should be glad someone even gives us the time of day...
Well ill tell you something..its a 1000 times better to pet a dog then have such a man...
I dont need a man, if that means i will be lonely, so be it
This is an interesting topic and though it seems to have been posted on here ad nauseam, I think as long as there's new members coming on this question will always come up. I have heard this a few times myself from some of the girls my friend used to hang with. I've mentioned this before on here and that is, sterotypes don't work. I'm surprised to see so many girls on here with such vile mouths(written/spoken) displaying such hatred towards those who like them. If you want respect in this world you get what you dish out. So you had a bad life, that's not my fault, you need to get your houses in order, get therpy, get respect for yourselves and then respect for others. Treat those who care for you good and those who don't, ditch. Anything else you're destroying your life. Reality is these guys like t-girls many because most of you look like models, pornstars most of the time, unlike the average woman who looks plain. Maybe they were secretly gay or bi, or are just attracted to you girls, who knows and who cares. What really matters is how they treat you, how they love you(not about sex) and mutual respect for each other.
Thats the first thing i thought after reading the first post of this thread.Quote:
Originally Posted by Yvonne183
Either way i think people shouldnt take it so seriously
Define..."not far,":shrugQuote:
Originally Posted by LovinThaTSLadiez