Re: Tgirls calling guys "fags" for liking them.
Oh a tired, tired debate. Yep - some escorts hate guys who want to be passive. What are you going to do about it? As someone said earlier the thing many hate about themselves is that which many men crave and which many of these girls are escorting and hoarding money so they can loose it. They want to be seen as girls and the guys want to see them as girls with dicks. Can't really be resolved, can it. So go with the flow.....
Re: Tgirls calling guys "fags" for liking them.
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LovinThaTSLadiez
Oh really?? Well, to those t-girls who don't like that males like them, I have to ask, what the f*ck do you want?? You talk in a negative manner about someone like me who sees your beauty and have the nerve to call me a fag. So who are your friends? A lot of girl girls will never view you as a true woman, and the same is true with a lot of men. Yet, we men who find you attractive become the target for your insults due to your own self-hate. Now, I am not talking to or about all transsexuals here. Again, I am new to this board and am trying to understand why any TS would call a guy who finds them to be beautiful a fag. I guess those TS's want to find a guy who only likes girl girls to one day notice them and then just pretend like they have no penis, or that they have periods and shit like that. LOL! You can go f*ck yourselves, quite literally. Haha! And we, the admirers are the ones who are confused???
Its cause of this bitchy attitude that tgirls call some guys fags...
Re: Tgirls calling guys "fags" for liking them.
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Silcc69
Well why mention it then? If you are going to call attention to somebody but not show the video what's the point then.
Because the video itself is not important. I wasn't calling attention to anyone, only the comment that was made. Did I mention any names? No, I didn't. Must you see it to believe me?
Re: Tgirls calling guys "fags" for liking them.
Just avoid them. In real life you can walk away. And on here the ignore function is very useful.
Re: Tgirls calling guys "fags" for liking them.
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Originally Posted by
Birgitta
Its cause of this bitchy attitude that tgirls call some guys fags...
Yeah, except for not at all. My so-called "bitchy attitide" really makes a difference to everyone, right? I am so important. Wow, I didn't realize just what a difference I made to the entire transsexual community. I'm sorry. All sarcasm aside, I tend to agree with the poster who said that a lot of TS's hate their male part and don't like when men are attracted to it. That makes a lot more sense to me. My "bitchy attitude" was nothing more than a little sarcasm directed to the idea that someone would call someone else a fag for being attracted to their womanly figure, face, voice, etc.
Re: Tgirls calling guys "fags" for liking them.
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Originally Posted by
NYBURBS
Well, it might be your first time posting about it, but for ppl that have been on here a while it gets old seeing this same type of thread every few weeks. Not a slight toward you, just pointing out that the topic has been talked about ad nauseam and you'll never really get a consensus about it. A few other gems that continually pop up would be:
Why do some men like to bottom?
Is it gay to bottom?
It is gay to like trannies?
I'm straight because I top
Are TS that top really just gay men?
Would you date a TS?
I understand that people get tired of seeing the same old topics, but they aren't obligated to comment, now are they? They insist on wasting their time being the "senior posters" instead of just passing us newbies on by.
Re: Tgirls calling guys "fags" for liking them.
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Originally Posted by
LovinThaTSLadiez
Yeah, except for not at all. My so-called "bitchy attitide" really makes a difference to everyone, right? I am so important. Wow, I didn't realize just what a difference I made to the entire transsexual community. I'm sorry. All sarcasm aside, I tend to agree with the poster who said that a lot of TS's hate their male part and don't like when men are attracted to it. That makes a lot more sense to me. My "bitchy attitude" was nothing more than a little sarcasm directed to the idea that someone would call someone else a fag for being attracted to their womanly figure, face, voice, etc.
Oh but that is something else entirely then...
You know, i am known here to be very opiniated lol
But in reality i simply drop all labels when it comes to guys and myself, i also drop the ts label btw!!!!(coz i honestly dislike and cannot identify with most of them)
.i am very aware though i am not exactly a girl but also that i feel like one...
If it works with a guy really depends on a lot of factors...
A) is he open about dating me
B) does he make me feel like the woman i am
C) does he appreciate my femininity in character/personality
D) he cannot be a bottom cause i wont be able to please him
E) do we match on a mental/emotional level
The reason i sometimes call guys gay, or having a gay attutide coz by some guys we are reduced to our male parts and are expected to behave like men in bed,...this crosses my limits and i have a hard time not thinking they are gay on some level...
Re: Tgirls calling guys "fags" for liking them.
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Originally Posted by
Prospero
Oh a tired, tired debate. Yep - some escorts hate guys who want to be passive. What are you going to do about it? As someone said earlier the thing many hate about themselves is that which many men crave and which many of these girls are escorting and hoarding money so they can loose it. They want to be seen as girls and the guys want to see them as girls with dicks. Can't really be resolved, can it. So go with the flow.....
It's no debate, at least not from me. Just a question, and apparently a tired one. I agree with you completely and you said it well. A lot of the people who are somewhat attacking me for my thread or sarcasm aren't really taking into account that I am new here and have never previously been a member to a board like this. The sarcasm part, well that is just me. I have never even been with a t-girl before, but I do know that I am attracted to them.
Re: Tgirls calling guys "fags" for liking them.
When the ladies get all pissy they just lash out at whoever. They feel shitty and so they want to get in an argument and calling TS admirers fags is like shooting fish in a barrel. It's like real life trolling. So when they call you a fag take it with a grain of salt.
But, what's the big deal if they call you a fag? Does it really mean you are a homo? Have they actually challenged your sexuality?
Re: Tgirls calling guys "fags" for liking them.
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Originally Posted by
Birgitta
Oh but that is something else entirely then...
You know, i am known here to be very opiniated lol
But in reality i simply drop all labels when it comes to guys and myself, i also drop the ts label btw!!!!
.i am very aware though i am not exactly a girl but also that i feel like one...
If it works with a guy really depends on a lot of factors...
A) he is open about dating me
B) does he make me feel like the woman i am
C) does he appreciate my femininity in character/personality
D) he cannot be a bottom cause i wont be able to please him
The reason i sometimes call guys gay, or having a gay attutide coz by some guys we are reduced to our male parts and are expected to behave like men in bed,...this crosses my limits and i have a hard time not thinking they are gay on some level...
True indeed. I understand what you are saying. I guess there are so many different types of men who are attracted to t-girls, many of which have different sexual needs. You're right, that is a different topic entirely. Thanks for shedding some light.