Originally Posted by needsum
I am someone who has experience with GG escorts, and one individual experience with a TS escort. Im a member of another board where we share and discuss info on escorts, about who provides quality service vs. lousy service, what the rates are, etc.
From my experience there, it seems that the most "popular" rate guys are ok with paying is about $200. There is an acceptance to paying more, but there is also an overwhelming requirement from most guys that when paying $200 or more for an hour, there are a few stipulations that go with it.
Most men want the GFE, or "girlfriend experience" There is a bit of interpretation when deciding just what GFE means, but in general it means kissing, multiple "pops" in the given timeframe paid for, and the highly controversial to this site "BBBJ" (or bareback blowjob).
It seems that from between $200 and $250 there are plenty of GG's, whether agency girls or indy, who will provide this GFE service. While not breaking the bank, $250 is a lot of money and when spending it, it's nice to know that you can generally expect the kind of encounter you're hoping for. I don't know anyone who is OK with shelling that money out for 5 minutes worth of pumping and then leaving when he cums. To me, that form of assisted masturbation is not worth any amount of money.
I know there are all sorts of people out there. there are those with intimacy issues who would most likely go with a "cheaper" girl just to get a nut off and then be able to leave without hassle. There are girls out there who charge by the 15 min, half hour and hour, giving these types of clients the opportunity to get what they want. I guess in doing things this way these girls are taking advantage of the current market and making the best of it.
But for me, and a lot of guys like me, it's not about the sex, or busting a nut. It's a substitute for something thats lacking in our lives. I will go see a girl maybe 2-3 times a year when I feel the need to connect with someone on a deeper, more intimate level. I will research and choose someone with whom I feel a visual connection, but also someone that I know will take the time to talk with me and make the experience more memorable and pleasureable. I want to enter the room knowing that while I'm there, it's just about the two of us, and if I've booked an hour then the whole hour is spent in whatever way we engage it. If we have sex for the whole hour, thats great. But maybe we will kiss, fondle, share a little oral and caress and talk for the hour, and that is great as well. Again, for me it's not about cumming, it's about the experience as a whole. So if I'm going to get that intimacy, then I'm ok with paying a little more. I've actually been fortunate in that the last girl I saw was the girl I've been searching for. I've seen her a couple times now and have not ventured anywhere else since meeting her the first time. She comes to my area every so often and when she's not here we keep in touch via email. Shes a wonderful woman and we have a terriffic friendship.
As for TS escorts, I feel the same way. If I'm going to call on a TS escort, my wish and expectation is that I'm going to have a enjoyable time, not just get a glorified handjob and then get rushed out the door. I've read many jaded viewpoints on here about how some of you gurls feel regarding escorting and treating it as a means to an end only. And thats ok, you do what you will, it's your life and you have to make the very best of it. Just know that not all of us out here are looking to just fuck you and split. Even if you are an escort, it doesn't mean that there cannot be some sort of a connection made and a nice, sensual time had between us.
The bottom line is, for me, if you're going to be in this business and are planning on charging more $$ than your competitors, then have something to offer more than just a simply sexual few minutes. Because if you do, the guy looking for a quick bang will go find that CL skank or that streetwalker. Which clears out the slobs and leaves you with the rest of us, who are the guys you want to have as clients.
Just my :2cent