DATING!! POST OP VS PRE-OP....Post Ops share your exp.
This is not a topic about what or who's better, but two sincere questions to post ops about their dating and sex life.
1. When it comes to dating, do men accept you more easily as a post op (knowing you are post-op), or do you experience the same amount of acceptance/rejection you did as pre-op?
2. How has your sex reassingment affected your sensation 'down there?'
Re: DATING!! POST OP VS PRE-OP....Post Ops share your exp.
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Originally Posted by BellaAry
This is not a topic about what or who's better, but two sincere questions to post ops about their dating and sex life.
1. When it comes to dating, do men accept you more easily as a post op (knowing you are post-op), or do you experience the same amount of acceptance/rejection you did as pre-op?
2. How has your sex reassingment affected your sensation 'down there?'
I would say that is definitely has improved it, in a number of ways.
1. With the men that I dated or was in relationships with, I never
penetrated or used my penis on them. So there was no sense of loss
there. Indeed, not having a penis has made me feel more comfortable
with my body, and more uninhibited sexually.
2. GRS also widened my potential dating pool. Though I might not tell a
casual partner that I had GRS, those that I did, didn't have as much of
issue with the fact that I used to have a penis, as long as I didn't
currently have one.
Funny how some men have such a problem with two penises in the bed. :peanutbutter
Then there's the transattracted men. A fair number of them don't have
a 'problem with pussy'.
There's a large number of men that will be into you for what's in your
mind, heart and soul, and not what's between your legs.
The pool also includes women. When I had a penis, I didn't feel
comfortable being intimate with a woman. And while I have a preference
for men, I could be in a relationship with the right woman.
In terms of aesthetics and functionality I am very, very pleased with my
vagina, and I thank God and my surgeons for it daily.