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Re: How to make a man happy
Stay gold, Ponyboy. Stay gold.
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Re: How to make a man happy
A few months back I met a psychologist and asked him what is the thing that makes men most happy. He responded many things do. So I asked 'if you had to focus on one?' He said 'it varies', then thought about it a bit more and said 'if I had to say one, I would say relationships'. I responded 'and if the person he had a relationship gave regular satisfying sex?'
He laughed and said 'yes, that would make any man happy'.
Regarding the Tgirl link. The first person to say this to me was actually a Tgirl. She was very horny and after a short time in bed she said she wanted to fuck me every night for the rest of her life. Last year another Tgirl said she wanted a relationship after she fucked me but I think that was more because she was lonely. I walked away feeling sad.
I have known a lot of Tgirls and my experience may not be the same as everyone else, but I found Tgirls fitted two categories. The ones who worked as escorts were very active in bed. They wanted to use their cock on a tight hole. (I know this for a fact because they all did me).
The Tgirls who were not escorts and simply lived as a woman, were like me. They took the woman's role in bed. I never had sex with any of them.
Re: How to make a man happy
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Ponyboy
A few months back I met a psychologist and asked him what is the thing that makes men most happy. He responded many things do. So I asked 'if you had to focus on one?' He said 'it varies', then thought about it a bit more and said 'if I had to say one, I would say relationships'. I responded 'and if the person he had a relationship gave regular satisfying sex?'
He laughed and said 'yes, that would make any man happy'.
Regarding the Tgirl link. The first person to say this to me was actually a Tgirl. She was very horny and after a short time in bed she said she wanted to fuck me every night for the rest of her life. Last year another Tgirl said she wanted a relationship after she fucked me but I think that was more because she was lonely. I walked away feeling sad.
I have known a lot of Tgirls and my experience may not be the same as everyone else, but I found Tgirls fitted two categories. The ones who worked as escorts were very active in bed. They wanted to use their cock on a tight hole. (I know this for a fact because they all did me).
The Tgirls who were not escorts and simply lived as a woman, were like me. They took the woman's role in bed. I never had sex with any of them.
:dead-1::dead-1::dead-1: I know this for a fact, they did it because they wanted the money you were paying them. If you can't grasp that simple concept, then you're in trouble...
Re: How to make a man happy
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Ponyboy
I have known a lot of Tgirls and my experience may not be the same as everyone else, but I found Tgirls fitted two categories. The ones who worked as escorts were very active in bed. They wanted to use their cock on a tight hole. (I know this for a fact because they all did me).
The Tgirls who were not escorts and simply lived as a woman, were like me. They took the woman's role in bed. I never had sex with any of them.
You don't think there's selection bias at work here - ie the escorts you saw were very active because that was the type you were seeking out?
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Laphroaig
:dead-1::dead-1::dead-1: I know this for a fact, they did it because they wanted the money you were paying them. If you can't grasp that simple concept, then you're in trouble...
I only went to some of them as a client. Others did not get paid. Also a relationship does not require payment
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filghy2
You don't think there's selection bias at work here - ie the escorts you saw were very active because that was the type you were seeking out?
what you say makes sense, but as I said above, not all were escorts with me. Nevertheless, we are attracted to the people we are attracted to, so you might be right. I did say my experience might not be the same as everyone else.
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Ponyboy
what you say makes sense, but as I said above, not all were escorts with me. Nevertheless, we are attracted to the people we are attracted to, so you might be right. I did say my experience might not be the same as everyone else.
I thought about it again - selection bias doesnt explain why I wasnt sexually compatible with any of the non-escorts I met.
However, it does explain my first relationship with a Tgirl, which I will explain for the sake of Laphroaig who thinks Tgirls dont have relationships. I have to say that this is rather unique as it was based on both of our fantasies at the time...
This happened many years ago. My country got escort wesbites much later than the USA so escorts had to advertise in the news paper. My friend C was in the country illegally. She would travel around the country and arrive in a city the night before her newspaper advertisement appeared, and she would leave the day after her last advertisement appeared. So, on her first and last days, she had no sexual activity.
I saw her advertisment and phoned her. We started chatting and got on well. I told her my fantasy at the time was to be a slave to a Tgirl and she said she wanted a white bitch slave (she was Asian). She said if she liked the way I looked, she would have a D/s relationship with me. So I went around and fortunately, she found me attractive. So she ordered me to strip. She then ordered me to give her a blow job and then she fucked me. It was a dream come true for me.
I was not a client. She would call me on the evening before her advertisement appeared and on the morning she left (I had to be there two hours before she checked out of the motel).
I have not had a relationship like this since - it was unique. And yes, filghy2 is correct about this one - this was selection bias.
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Laphroaig
:dead-1::dead-1::dead-1: I know this for a fact, they did it because they wanted the money you were paying them. If you can't grasp that simple concept, then you're in trouble...
True. There's plenty of escorts out there that don't top in their personal life, but when escorting turn to being vers or mainly topping. I imagine if that's what you're doing a living you probably don't want to be ass fucked all year long.
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Ponyboy
I thought about it again - selection bias doesnt explain why I wasnt sexually compatible with any of the non-escorts I met.
However, it does explain my first relationship with a Tgirl, which I will explain for the sake of Laphroaig who thinks Tgirls dont have relationships. I have to say that this is rather unique as it was based on both of our fantasies at the time...
This happened many years ago. My country got escort wesbites much later than the USA so escorts had to advertise in the news paper. My friend C was in the country illegally. She would travel around the country and arrive in a city the night before her newspaper advertisement appeared, and she would leave the day after her last advertisement appeared. So, on her first and last days, she had no sexual activity.
I saw her advertisment and phoned her. We started chatting and got on well. I told her my fantasy at the time was to be a slave to a Tgirl and she said she wanted a white bitch slave (she was Asian). She said if she liked the way I looked, she would have a D/s relationship with me. So I went around and fortunately, she found me attractive. So she ordered me to strip. She then ordered me to give her a blow job and then she fucked me. It was a dream come true for me.
I was not a client. She would call me on the evening before her advertisement appeared and on the morning she left (I had to be there two hours before she checked out of the motel).
I have not had a relationship like this since - it was unique. And yes, filghy2 is correct about this one - this was selection bias.
Where did I say that? The fact that you made it up just confirms what I do think, that you're a fantasist...
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[QUOTE=Laphroaig;1872833]Where did I say that? The fact that you made it up just confirms what I do think, that you're a fantasist...[/QUOTE
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