why is it that girls i do like and am really nice to dont like me back...but girls i dont like and act like an asshole to always try to flirt with me.... :lol:
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why is it that girls i do like and am really nice to dont like me back...but girls i dont like and act like an asshole to always try to flirt with me.... :lol:
Ts are complicated in different ways that GGs
You should have specified the title a bit more to read: " American GGs "
youre kidding right???
Women don't like "nice" guys, despite what they say. They do want men who are decent and good and will usually marry these men, but they also like a guy who's a little bit of a challenge and not always available for them. You need to make them work a little and not kiss their ass to make them like you. Be a good person but not the kind of nice guy who wants to buy them drinks, take them out to restaurants, begs for dates, buys presents and always compliments them even when they have a bad hair day.Quote:
Originally Posted by LilWyte
You need to be flirty and a bit of a tease, but not necessarily a jerk. It's possible to be a good person and yet popular with girls. But if you're too nice all you'll ever get is the LJBF speech ("let's just be friends"). You'll end up throwing away your money on drinks, gift and dinners and she will run off with the first guy who's a challenge (which will usually be an asshole) and then come crying to you if he leaves her. Congratulations! You are now officially in the friend zone. I've been there buddy, and it's not pleasant. What's more it's almost impossible to escape.
Be a good man, respectful when appropriate but never supplicating. Don't take shit from anyone and show the girls that you're not so easy to conquer and they will respect you and want you more.
Don't be an asshole because it gives us all a bad name, but don't be a supplicating doormat either, because you will get your heart broken.
As for Tgirls being complicated, I'd say they are but, as Jennifer said, in different ways. You have to remember, they have been through a lot in their lives and we are all shaped by our experiences as well as how people behave towards us. That is why one should never be bitter about relationships that may or may not have happened.
They are more complicated than GG's, but ALOT less annoying.
As some one has already said because you were too nice.Quote:
Originally Posted by LilWyte
No girl want's a fish that jumps in her boat.
So try to be a dick if you can.
That being said your average TS girls sex drive is significantly stronger than your average GG's. So in the long run they are more passionate and fun.
lmao at all the misinformation in this thread
:lol: Okay, but why don't you enlighten us?Quote:
Originally Posted by tsntx
I for one think I gave him pretty good advice as far GGs are concerned.
this has stumped guys since the caveman daysQuote:
Originally Posted by LilWyte