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What turns on transexual women?
I know this question has been asked in many forms, and I don't want to start any arguments.
As you all know, most men who like transexual women would probably not consider themselves gay.
I fall into that category (don't consider myself gay). So it's a bit hard to understand what women, GG or TS, find attractive in men.
More so TS. Because I would think on the one hand, you might be attracted to masculine guys, but on the other hand, I wonder are you attracted to guys who act fem in bed?
Do you prefer hairy guys, or guys who shave?
I guess I'm specifically asking about physical, sexual attraction, not money or conversation. And I know there is no "one" answer, but I'm wondering what really gets you hard?
Do you alternate between wanting to be the girl in porn (assuming straight porn) and the guy?
I ask because I'm starting to date a TS girl, and when I ask her, she's aloof and says she likes me just the way I am. But sometimes I feel like I want to be more fem or my usual masculine self in bed -- and I don't want to turn her off by being fem. I really want to please her, but feel like it's hard for me to really understand what she truly finds sexually attractive.
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It's really different for everyone.
On some guys, a little femme works. On some guys not.
I like mostly hairy guys, and I've never wanted to be the guy.
If she's dating you, she's probably attracted to whomever you have been while you've known her.
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I've always been really masculine (i.e. sharp jaw line, work out, deep voice, strong silent type), but I've been told I'm a pretty boy too.
Somewhere along the line -- probably watching too much porn -- I've fantasized about being the girl.
I still know I'm not gay because I'm not attracted to masculinity (not sure if that's the definition, and frankly, not sure if it matters if I am or not).
She likes being a top.. but with me, she likes to bottom too, though tells me that she usually won't bottom for others.
So I guess I worry that she wants me to be the "guy" that I am, and if I shave, and tan, and paint my toe nails, and stuff... she'll be turned off.
I've kind of asked her in a round about way, and again, she's like.. "Eh, that's cool. Not required."
So I got the impression she wasn't super into it... but there's a part of me that really desires it. It's side of me I feel I can only share with a TS, and never a GG. So I guess if it's a turn off for her, it would disappoint me a little.
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Well, if you think a trans girl is more likely to be accepting of your feminine side than a natal girl, you'll find yourself mistaken most of the time.
Personally I think it's only really fun topping when it's a manly man, in stark physical contrast to me.
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Hmm, interesting. You like topping when the guy is masculine?
Not to pry, but would you be willing to explain that a bit more? It would help me understand and feel better about accommodating her -- assuming she feels similarly.
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It's just a fun role reversal. Especially if he's a lot bigger than me. I just like him to be big and rugged and manly, and then contrary to what anyone would assume if they saw the two of us outside of fucking, he spreads it for me and wants it.
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Interesting. Still a little hard to understand, cause it sounds like the dark secret is that he's your little slut bitch in the bedroom. Which is hot, and what I wana be sometimes. Not all the time, but sometimes.
I dunno, maybe I shouldn't think too much about it.
Oddly, I'm rather big.. bigger than most.. but she's bigger than me! She's huge though!
Anyway, not sure why I shared that.. just thinking of her and smiling.
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Well, thanks for sharing, but I mean that his whole body is bigger than mine.
It's funny. Whenever you say bigger around guys, the first thing they think about is cock.
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Lol. Oh.. hehe.. yeah, my bad. Yeah, I'm definitely bigger than her in terms of my physic. She's not short, but my arms and back are bigger. She's more girly, and cute.
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Originally Posted by
Ms.Stepford
It's just a fun role reversal. Especially if he's a lot bigger than me. I just like him to be big and rugged and manly, and then contrary to what anyone would assume if they saw the two of us outside of fucking, he spreads it for me and wants it.
I see a future for you here as the go-to gal for sex advice, Ms S.
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Ha, well I'm sure there are a lot of gals around here with just as much and more experience!
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Ms.Stepford
Ha, well I'm sure there are a lot of gals around here with just as much and more experience!
Maybe, but you deliver it straight and very much to the point. And that's a compliment.
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Well, I'll keep delivering it as such and it'll be great...until I unintentionally cause someone a chemical burn or something, when I will be disavowed as Go-to Gal and publicly shamed.
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Ms.Stepford
Well, I'll keep delivering it as such and it'll be great...until I unintentionally cause someone a chemical burn or something, when I will be disavowed as Go-to Gal and publicly shamed.
.... and at that point you become the Kim Kardashian of transsexual porn. It's a win/win. :dancing:
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As long as there's a Kanye waiting!
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Ms.Stepford
As long as there's a Kanye waiting!
So maybe it isn't a win/win..... :hide-1:
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I love Kanye, so it's good for me!
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Hey TLuva
interesting topic...very...
but one thing you said REALLY caught my interest....because its something ive thought about alot and never heard Anybody mention..
You said that somewhere along the line you started fantasizing about being the woman--PROBABLY FROM WATCHING TOO MUCH PORN"
this could be a thread unto itself....because thats where i think MY interest in T-girls comes from....theres something about wathcing alot of porn..that all of a sudden makes the cock..and the idea of being fucked---become erotic..
its like something happens in your brain..from all the porn...that makes you fixate on the cock...though you dont have any actual "gay" tendecies at all.
you have no interest in a guy...youre totally into women...but the cock--and the penetration..and the being fucked and taken....sparks some sexual thing inside of you..
Does what Im saying resonate with anyone else here?
sorry--hope im not hijacking your thread..if so--ill start another.
but it was what you said here that made me bring it up..
thoughts>?
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Originally Posted by
tluva
I've always been really masculine (i.e. sharp jaw line, work out, deep voice, strong silent type), but I've been told I'm a pretty boy too.
Somewhere along the line -- probably watching too much porn -- I've fantasized about being the girl.
I still know I'm not gay because I'm not attracted to masculinity (not sure if that's the definition, and frankly, not sure if it matters if I am or not).
She likes being a top.. but with me, she likes to bottom too, though tells me that she usually won't bottom for others.
So I guess I worry that she wants me to be the "guy" that I am, and if I shave, and tan, and paint my toe nails, and stuff... she'll be turned off.
I've kind of asked her in a round about way, and again, she's like.. "Eh, that's cool. Not required."
So I got the impression she wasn't super into it... but there's a part of me that really desires it. It's side of me I feel I can only share with a TS, and never a GG. So I guess if it's a turn off for her, it would disappoint me a little.
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What turns on TS women...let me think...oh, I know...
This will get her to look at you...
http://t3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:A...LnJ1z4PoG0KAy-
Now she'll smile and start acting like she likes you...
http://www.sciencebuzz.org/sites/def...dollarbill.jpg
Shall I go on?
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nysprod
HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH, that applies to so many girls I know. They demand to be accepted for who they are and not what's between their legs, yet if you won't pony up the cash she doesn't want anything to do with you.
Gives nice girls like me such a bad name.
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Janna_b
HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH, that applies to so many girls I know. They demand to be accepted for who they are and not what's between their legs, yet if you won't pony up the cash she doesn't want anything to do with you.
Gives nice girls like me such a bad name.
Bless you, Janna. How's life treating you?
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Originally Posted by
Janna_b
HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH, that applies to so many girls I know. They demand to be accepted for who they are and not what's between their legs, yet if you won't pony up the cash she doesn't want anything to do with you.
Gives nice girls like me such a bad name.
If I seem a tad cynical, it's because I'm not in the best of moods tonight...
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Originally Posted by
tluva
I know this question has been asked in many forms, and I don't want to start any arguments.
As you all know, most men who like transexual women would probably not consider themselves gay.
I fall into that category (don't consider myself gay). So it's a bit hard to understand what women, GG or TS, find attractive in men.
More so TS. Because I would think on the one hand, you might be attracted to masculine guys, but on the other hand, I wonder are you attracted to guys who act fem in bed?
Do you prefer hairy guys, or guys who shave?
I guess I'm specifically asking about physical, sexual attraction, not money or conversation. And I know there is no "one" answer, but I'm wondering what really gets you hard?
Do you alternate between wanting to be the girl in porn (assuming straight porn) and the guy?
I ask because I'm starting to date a TS girl, and when I ask her, she's aloof and says she likes me just the way I am. But sometimes I feel like I want to be more fem or my usual masculine self in bed -- and I don't want to turn her off by being fem. I really want to please her, but feel like it's hard for me to really understand what she truly finds sexually attractive.
Each trans is different but speaking for myself I get turned on by 'REAL' straight guys. Chasers turn me off big time to be honest UNLESS he is super duper handsome and PROMISE to behave like a REAL straight guy and not behave like a fag with me on bed as being a sissy trying to touch my dick(if i still had) and wanting me to top him. I HATE guys who shave their cocks, for me 'REAL' men should not shave down there. Concerning your girl, be aware that there are girls who like chasers and girls who don't and others neutral. You need to pin what type she is before you act whatsoever but if she says she accepts you as you are then it wouldn't be a problem after all. First try by asking her if she likes her cock being touched and if she says no, better start behaving like a 'REAL' straight guy. :dancing:
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Originally Posted by
Miss Sex Appeal
Each trans is different but speaking for myself I get turned on by 'REAL' straight guys. Chasers turn me off big time to be honest UNLESS he is super duper handsome and PROMISE to behave like a REAL straight guy and not behave like a fag with me on bed as being a sissy trying to touch my dick(if i still had) and wanting me to top him. I HATE guys who shave their cocks, for me 'REAL' men should not shave down there. Concerning your girl, be aware that there are girls who like chasers and girls who don't and others neutral. You need to pin what type she is before you act whatsoever but if she says she accepts you as you are then it wouldn't be a problem after all. First try by asking her if she likes her cock being touched and if she says no, better start behaving like a 'REAL' straight guy. :dancing:
Flaw in this "logic" though is, no 'REAL' straight men would have sex with anybody knowingly that this very person was born male. Of course, there are trannies out there who live that "dream" which is nothing else than a combination of delusional self perception and simple fakery, in order to follow the western mainstream dogma of heterosexuality as the norm versus anything else.
Second here we have another case of defining what is "straight" by thev mere sexact. In other words getting fucked and sucking dick is GAY. Again, acc. to this "logics", a gay dude who is strictly a dominant top would be , well, 'straight'.
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I consider myself straight because I'm not attracted to masculine features. If a TS girl is not feminine enough, I can't get into it.
That said, we all have a feminine and masculine side. Sexual exploration with a TS girl for me tends to be far more liberating in terms of exploring my feminine side. I couldn't let a GG girl see that side of me. Yes, maybe it's all social/cultural conditioning, but whatever it is, with a GG girl, I'm the man and I don't even let her go near my ass.
With a TS girl, I know she's a boy, but she's also a girl. I mean, yes, she was born a boy but her phycology, her physical aesthetics, her emotional state, etc... blur the lines.
So being attracted to them, wanting to fuck them and exploring them fucking you is reasonable, and rather rational -- if you accept being attracted to femininity and the desire to explore your own femininity.
I guess my point is, this idea of being gay because you want to worship a TS girls cock, body, ass... and have her play with yours too seems inconsistent with what I've always understood "gay" to mean. To me, most TS girls are gay because they're attracted to masculinity. Guys that are attracted to masculinity are gay too. Guys that are into weird taboo kink, but are strictly attracted to femininity don't seem to fit the idea of gay -- at least in my mind.
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Originally Posted by
tluva
I consider myself straight because I'm not attracted to masculine features. If a TS girl is not feminine enough, I can't get into it.
That said, we all have a feminine and masculine side. Sexual exploration with a TS girl for me tends to be far more liberating in terms of exploring my feminine side. I couldn't let a GG girl see that side of me. Yes, maybe it's all social/cultural conditioning, but whatever it is, with a GG girl, I'm the man and I don't even let her go near my ass.
With a TS girl, I know she's a boy, but she's also a girl. I mean, yes, she was born a boy but her phycology, her physical aesthetics, her emotional state, etc... blur the lines.
So being attracted to them, wanting to fuck them and exploring them fucking you is reasonable, and rather rational -- if you accept being attracted to femininity and the desire to explore your own femininity.
I guess my point is, this idea of being gay because you want to worship a TS girls cock, body, ass... and have her play with yours too seems inconsistent with what I've always understood "gay" to mean. To me, most TS girls are gay because they're attracted to masculinity. Guys that are attracted to masculinity are gay too. Guys that are into weird taboo kink, but are strictly attracted to femininity don't seem to fit the idea of gay -- at least in my mind.
Totally agree...here's the thing:
1. Are guys like us who are into TGirls totally straight? I say no.
2. Are we gay? Again, I say no.
So what are we? There really isn't a word or terminology for us...not that I really care one way or the other what someone wants to label me, but I'm just saying we're in some sort of in between thing that isn't easily categorized.
Either way, I accept myself for who I am.
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Originally Posted by
Miss Sex Appeal
Each trans is different but speaking for myself I get turned on by 'REAL' straight guys.
those unfortunately have an interest in 'REAL' women
you shouldn't dismiss the chasers because they'll pay your bills
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I don't think we need a third category here. There's straight and gay. Homosexuality by definition means attracted to the same sex.
I'm not. I'm attracted to women. Transexuals look, act, and smell like women. The fact that they have a penis is just a kinky taboo irony. I look at my cock all the time, and cock is all over porn, so it's not like I'm offended by cock. When I take in the whole sight of a transexual girl, the entire form is still very much feminine and that's what I'm attracted to.
As for being a bottom, that too is not necessarily gay in my mind.
A) Anal stimulation feels good, and it's a known fact that many straight couples practice it (on the guy)
B) I'm in touch with my feminine side (which we all have). Not so much that I'm going around all flamboyant like a stereotypical gay dude, but I do envy the pussy power, and how sexy women are, and sometimes I want to be worshiped like that too.
But at the end of the day, I'd man up and do whatever a typical straight guy does. I see myself wanting a wife, and kids, and a normal straight life and being very content with that.
Most GG girls I've dated are snobby little princesses. Not that TS girls are much better, but I hoped that since we have something more in common <cough> that it would be easier to get along with them.
Generally speaking that's been true. On this forum, not so much.
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bluesoul
those unfortunately have an interest in 'REAL' women
you shouldn't dismiss the chasers because they'll pay your bills
As long as 'real' straights don't know anything, everything will be fine. Passable post-op trannies should just learn for to stfu and keep their past to themselves. I never dismissed chasers as they were my source of income before and I am thankful to them but still if you ask me PERSONALLY what turns me on and many other girls they would answer you the same thing.
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finger has it right
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Originally Posted by
f-finger
Flaw in this "logic" though is, no 'REAL' straight men would have sex with anybody knowingly that this very person was born male. Of course, there are trannies out there who live that "dream" which is nothing else than a combination of delusional self perception and simple fakery, in order to follow the western mainstream dogma of heterosexuality as the norm versus anything else.
Second here we have another case of defining what is "straight" by thev mere sexact. In other words getting fucked and sucking dick is GAY. Again, acc. to this "logics", a gay dude who is strictly a dominant top would be , well, 'straight'.
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It's not only that...its not just about paying bills...
thats all anyone ever talks about here!!
We're ALSO --the only people who ACCEPT and really appreciate T-girls..
they never seem to consider that..
Trust me--these STRAIGHT guys that they so crave,--don;t want them.
its a total fucking illusion..
the whole thing is bizarre
by the way--noone responded to my question a few paged back..which i thought was very interesting...
The original poster of this thread is the one person who keeps saying things that make me feel like we're really on the same page..but he didnt answer either
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bluesoul
those unfortunately have an interest in 'REAL' women
you shouldn't dismiss the chasers because they'll pay your bills
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Ummm...all guys would hook up with a trans woman if nobody is going to find out. I've proven this time and time again. Fuck, not two hours ago, a guy who wasn't planning on hooking up with me paid me eighty bucks to suck my cock.
This whole "you girls should appreciate us because we show you basic human decency" attitude is full of shit. Everyone should worship us.
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Originally Posted by
sheyum
It's not only that...its not just about paying bills...
thats all anyone ever talks about here!!
We're ALSO --the only people who ACCEPT and really appreciate T-girls..
they never seem to consider that..
Trust me--these STRAIGHT guys that they so crave,--don;t want them.
its a total fucking illusion..
Telling us this is like telling you to accept cross-dressers or girls with no boob implants with flat chest cos we we don't like you or it's like telling a straight guy go fuck gay guys as girls are too difficult to get.
TV/CD escorts want you chasers, you chasers want us trannies, we trannies want real straight men and real straight men want real biological women...it's how the world spins
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Miss Sex Appeal
TV/CD escorts want you chasers, you chasers want us trannies, we trannies want real straight men and real straight men want real biological women...it's how the world spins
..huh... and who wants TV/CD escorts? ... my guess: real biological women who happen to be married to them? :)
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i think not...first of all...i wasnt saying that you should "worship us because we accept you"--i was saying that you shouldnt hate the very people who accept and like you..
and---as far as your analysis...the only group there who is NOT going to succeed...is the T-girls who want the REAL straight men...
its a joke..
i HATE when they refer to them as the REAL straight men...
and you are the REAL women?/
come on...
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Originally Posted by
Miss Sex Appeal
Telling us this is like telling you to accept cross-dressers or girls with no boob implants with flat chest cos we we don't like you or it's like telling a straight guy go fuck gay guys as girls are too difficult to get.
TV/CD escorts want you chasers, you chasers want us trannies, we trannies want real straight men and real straight men want real biological women...it's how the world spins
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Ms.Stepford
Fuck, not two hours ago, a guy who wasn't planning on hooking up with me paid me eighty bucks to suck my cock.
Nice work if you can get it...lol.