Fell In Love

Have any of you that consider yourself a heterosexual male ever fell in love with a transgender woman? I do not think much research has been done on this subject but I am fine making love to a transgender woman but I do not get aroused to men so clearly their is a difference between the two and most would say it is either a fetish or you are a closet homosexual but to be honest neither are true. I met a transgender woman and honestly things have progressed into a relationship but when she told me she was trans I was surprisingly okay with it. She had breast augmentation and everything but her lower part was still there but it did not bother me. I am curious if any other members on here have actually entertained a real relationship with any transgender woman?

I’m in a relationship. . Treat her as a woman. Which means don’t go thinking she will the “shemale goddess” of your dreams expecting to be plowed every night. I recommend researching transgender related subjects as much as possible, because there will be a host of things she will be going through on her path. She may or may not be considering the GRA surgery along with other procedures, HRT treatment, therapy and you have to be willing to be by her side through it all. If you want to discuss those kinds of topics with her than I suggest following her
Lead on whether to bring the subject up. Just blurting out the usual “so when are you getting the dong chopped off” question that a lot of idiots ask you will turn her off. Transitioning isn’t something she just jumped into on a whim. It’s a very difficult path and she isn’t going to tolerate the usual “chaser” crap that a lot of guys tend to do. Let her take the lead, be there for her and don’t get pushy on her.

As far as whether you would be considered gay or not for going into such a relationship... that’s something only you and your partner can answer. I consider myself bisexual, and my partner was an ultra feminine gay male before she evolved into living full time as a non op female. To me it’s a loving relationship and I could care less what that makes us.

If I were to enter into a relationship with a trans girl I’d still consider myself straight no doubt. You’re attracted to femininity right? I’m sure she wants to be treated just like a woman and you want to make her feel like a woman sooo yeah.

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Originally Posted by Jbird61

Have any of you that consider yourself a heterosexual male ever fell in love with a transgender woman? I do not think much research has been done on this subject but I am fine making love to a transgender woman but I do not get aroused to men so clearly their is a difference between the two and most would say it is either a fetish or you are a closet homosexual but to be honest neither are true. I met a transgender woman and honestly things have progressed into a relationship but when she told me she was trans I was surprisingly okay with it. She had breast augmentation and everything but her lower part was still there but it did not bother me. I am curious if any other members on here have actually entertained a real relationship with any transgender woman?

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Are you serious? There's dozens of threads on here covering exactly the same ground.

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Originally Posted by Jbird61

Have any of you that consider yourself a heterosexual male ever fell in love with a transgender woman? I do not think much research has been done on this subject but I am fine making love to a transgender woman but I do not get aroused to men so clearly their is a difference between the two and most would say it is either a fetish or you are a closet homosexual but to be honest neither are true. I met a transgender woman and honestly things have progressed into a relationship but when she told me she was trans I was surprisingly okay with it. She had breast augmentation and everything but her lower part was still there but it did not bother me. I am curious if any other members on here have actually entertained a real relationship with any transgender woman?

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Happened to me. Saw her as an escort, started dating fell in love (with each other) still in love shes still escorting because she needs the money

It is perfectly normal to fall in love with a transgender. You'll be doing yourself a favor if you realize you aren't heterosexual or bi. You are flat out homosexual. There's nothing wrong admitting the obvious.

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Originally Posted by chi73inla

It is perfectly normal to fall in love with a transgender. You'll be doing yourself a favor if you realize you aren't heterosexual or bi. You are flat out homosexual. There's nothing wrong admitting the obvious.

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Somehow I don't think that's going to be helpful. You've been a member of this site for 14 years and you don't see any difference between attraction to TS and attraction to men? There are more than 3 categories of human sexuality.

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Originally Posted by filghy2

Somehow I don't think that's going to be helpful. You've been a member of this site for 14 years and you don't see any difference between attraction to TS and attraction to men? There are more than 3 categories of human sexuality.

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I am not attracted to men but love TS women, so label me homosexual if you must but I dont desire men, actually my girl is so flat out sexy with a touch of kink that I have trouble getting turned on by other TS

Used to be married to one, sadly that ended. But in a good healthy loving relationship with another now

And no, trans women are not attracted to homosexual men. They are attracted to heterosexual men, regardless of whether the man is top, bottom or versatile. It is the person you fall in love with, not the plumbing