Why more surgery? (ones that care)

Lately I have gotten many emails and private messages on yahoo asking me not to do more surgeries. I want to respond to it since most of the same people that email and send me messages are members here.

For me I need to do my full face to be happy. I need to know I fixed that part of me to look more feminine, whether I look better or not is not important, knowing I left the remnants of my male shaped face behind is more important to me. Not all girls go to this extreme, and not all will agree with me. I am only speaking from my own personal feelings. Like my friend Kelly V. left on my page recently "some of us need to chisel more away at the woman to be more happy."

Whether the guys telling me not to do more are honest or kiss asses isn't important, it matters what I think in the end. So please just know that as I get these last few things fixed on my face, that I will be a happier person in the end. You will see my spirit grow, cause I will admit it has been quite weak as of late even though the surgery date is so near (November 3rd, 2008) I feel like its a hundred years away.

I am not doing this out of obsession, though I have been accused. I am doing this out of my well being and perception of myself. To be more grounded and confident in the long run. To know that I did all I could with my face to fix biological error I was born.

And to the guys that love my look now, I made quite a few videos and pics now of this look so you will have it available to you for the rest of your lives as well as mine lol So I am sorry if we disagree on this matter, but I need to do whats right for me. Yes I am staying in adult work after my surgeries, for the ones that asked that too.

I hope that answers and puts the debate to rest.

good for u kelly.
i am not close to finished either.

tgirls that think they dont need facial fem are delusional.

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Originally Posted by Alyssa87

good for u kelly.
i not close to finished either.

tgirls that think they dont need facial fem are delusional.

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I personally agree with this somewhat Alyssa, however in other ways I disagree. I think if a tgirl or person is happy with themselves. I mean truly, not just saying it cause they can't afford it or to scared to do it. Then I cheer those on, for being proud of themselves, and envious that they are happy with just that. Lord knows I'd save money if I could do the same lol

only room to go up i guess.

good point. i'm such a bitch.lol

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Originally Posted by blckhaze

only room to go up i guess.

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hee hee hopefully babe hopefully!

And nah Alyssa you are just giving your honest opinion. I see a lot of girls that say they would never do surgeries, and I think secretly in my head that same thing.

tell the faggots that dont like it to stfu .... if you wanted their opinion you would have asked for it... you didnt.

do what you need for you. and remind the cockhounds giving bs praise about how you dont need work that if it wasnt for all their constant gobbling about "passable this and passable that" that maybe you wouldnt feel the need for more work

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Originally Posted by tsntx

tell the faggots that dont like it to stfu .... if you wanted their opinion you would have asked for it... you didnt.

do what you need for you. and remind the cockhounds giving bs praise about how you dont need work that if it wasnt for all their constant gobbling about "passable this and passable that" that maybe you wouldnt feel the need for more work

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lol I love it when you post :P

Now what the hell is Kellybean up to? Every time I check in here lately it's something else going on. Next week she'll be in line for the next space shuttle mission, or some damn thing.

:P

Your surgery will go fine. I just wish us guys could go in and get something useful done surgery wise. I'd go for the Brock Sampson jaw, but I wouldn't want his mullet:

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Originally Posted by hondarobot

Now what the hell is Kellybean up to? Every time I check in here lately it's something else going on. Next week she'll be in line for the next space shuttle mission, or some damn thing.

:P

Your surgery will go fine. I just wish us guys could go in and get something useful done surgery wise. I'd go for the Brock Sampson jaw, but I wouldn't want his mullet:

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lol you make me giggle. Oh no I would be too scared to go to space, I am already scared of flying. I couldn't imagine, no news reports for that anytime in the near or far future. :P But thank you :)