Yea I don't get why somebody would be mad they can't see an escort?/ If they were all that, they wouldn't be paying in the first place. I can deal with a black man and not charge him.Quote:
Originally Posted by deadlyray
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Yea I don't get why somebody would be mad they can't see an escort?/ If they were all that, they wouldn't be paying in the first place. I can deal with a black man and not charge him.Quote:
Originally Posted by deadlyray
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Um.. so ok, what you you call people (providers and non providers aka regular folks) who refuses to see/meet and or have sex with FAT people? Do you call them FATCIST or is it preference?
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=fatcist
~Kisses.
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What's the difference between preference and racism?
Preference- is having a strong affinity for a particular quality
Racism/Bigotry- is having a preconceived negative emotion towards someone or group based off a physical attribute whether it be skin tone, weight, etc.
Do the ladies have the right to choose who they will and will not interact with? Absolutely especially due to the interpersonal interaction required for the profession.
I think what hurts most who are victims is that someone is passively accusing you of something. The person is assuming that I'm a thief or whatever ill-thing that haunts their nightmares. Unfortunately there is nothing you can do about it except abstain from that particular provider's services. This is not like going to McDonalds and the Klansmen at the counter won't accept your cash. If you could make this provider service you would you really want it? You need to remember who you are and no one's ill-conceived notions can change that. Bottomline they're not worth your time.
If a black person refuses to service another (whatever enterprise) black person simply for being black is that racism? Yes, it's called interracism and it happens to. I think that form hurts more than any other because it makes you wonder how that person inherently perceives his or herself. But you can't save somebody from their own personal demons. More than likely that person has interpersonal issues. A person can like White/Latino/Asian guys without hating black guys. When you hold animosity towards a stranger for something they haven't done to your knowledge that's a whole different thing.
As far as dating slugs. I think everybody should do a little self-analysis on that one. I've seen females date the same type of assholes over and over again yet were continually shocked that the dude was a bastard. If you have a pattern of dating such dregs then I think the solution is to look inward. I hypothesize the female in question fell in love with a thug some time ago but it didn't work out. However she never flushed her system so she keeps picking up these dudes reliving the same pattern attempting to fix them. She wanted her previous lover to be something he was not and she failed to accept it. Or she doesn't think very highly of herself so she subconsciously seeks out dudes to reinforce her sense of poor self-image. You only get what you think you deserve. The vast majority of the time someone was a piece shit they subtle or not so subtle things to let you know what kind of person they truly were. The question is did you ignore and hope it would get better instead of accepting the truth and kicking them to the curb like any good bag of trash?
For those being fairly being scrutinized, don't poison your own soul by hating them because your energy could be better spent loving someone else.
Sounds like a personal problem if you can't get a date. Don't try to generalize you shortcummings :lol:
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Originally Posted by chefmike
ooops, boooooo at me for another racial stereotype......
Couldn't agree with you more!Quote:
Originally Posted by TsVanessa69
FINALLY another racism thread to breathe life into this forum!!
1st I'd like to point out the OP said they discriminate in their personal lives too, but everyone wants to jump into the "an escort can be selective" bullshit.
2nd, and contrary to the opinions of many girls I know and love, ANY girl who says " I don't date black men" is a racist! ANY!
I'm so tired of people trying to be PC and call it a preference. A preference is not exclusive, it merely RANKS what you like MORE than others. Saying I don't date black men is exclusive. Yes, Alannah there's a difference between preference and prejudice. If you exclude a person based on a preconceived notion of what they're like, that's PREJUDICE! If you see me in the club and say you're not attracted to me, that's preference. If I call you on the phone and you say you don't date black guys, that's prejudice. Of ALL the peoples on the planet, blacks are the most varied. There's a reason why but that's another topic. A black person can be as dark as night or as light as day. So you would think they would be the LAST group of people you should discriminate against based on looks. To say "I won't see you" merely because I utter the word black when you diabolically ask me what race I am is ludicrous! Illogical even!
I'm not saying an escort doesn't have a right... Well no, she doesn't have rights because it's an illegal enterprise, but she can conduct her business as she sees fit. Just have the courage to admit you're a racist when you are one. AT THE VERY LEAST, ADMIT YOU'RE RACIAL PROFILING.
You can hide behind preference all you want, but like someone said the TRUTH is it is drilled into these girls heads that black guys are more trouble than they're worth. That's it! Everything else is bullshit and people afraid to take responsibility for their own feelings.
I worked in the service industry for 10 years and dated a girl who did the same. We're both black and we both hated serving black people. That wasn't a preference, it was racism. I don't have a problem with that and I will tell anyone who wants to know from a business standpoint I'm a racist. You girls need to accept facts. You're racist! Get over it.
Yep, she's a racistQuote:
Originally Posted by TsVanessa69
That kind of thing is not uncommon in the service industry. I also know asian servers who don't like serving asians...go figure.Quote:
I worked in the service industry for 10 years and dated a girl who did the same. We're both black and we both hated serving black people.