Yes, lots of interesting comments here.
For the guys who put Danielle down for not wanting guys who visit HA, remember that Danielle is now post-op. If she was looking, it wouldn't be for someone who wants ts with extras. She's a beautiful woman and would be looking for straight guy - makes perfect sense.
Gotta agree with Armani that guys would have a lot of difficulty maintaining a serious relationship with girl who's business is sex. To be truly empathetic, supporting and a partner then it requires openness and understanding. While it's certainly possible to intellectually understand why a girl would wish to maintain income and friends in the sex business it must be impossible to emotionally accept it - unless you only care about the girl's money. Girls can certainly leave the sex business & have relationships but don't expect them to endure a return to escorting.
As for guys, he must be prepared to accept the emotional roller-coaster that sometimes comes with hormone regime changes, must be loving, supportive, faithful and open. He must accept if she decides on SRS and provide her with love and support during the change. He must be prepared to lose friends, colleagues and family members who don't understand his decision. But that isolation is nothing compared to difficulties the girl encounters.
It's a tough relationship to make work and I have enormous admiration for the girls and guys here who have succeeded in maintaining open LTRs.
OK, that's my longest post here. Hopefully some of it resonates!